Women's Health Community
I don't want to be pregnant
About This Community:

This patient support community is for discussions relating to women's health issues, including bone health, gynecologic cancers, genetic testing, heart disease, infectious diseases, work issues, mammograms, reproductive health, sexuality, domestic abuse and sexual violence.

Font Size:
A
A
A
Background:
Blank
Blank
Blank
Blank Blank

I don't want to be pregnant

I am considering having an abortion, am I wrong for this?
Related Discussions
13 Comments Post a Comment
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
Not at all, but you do need to think very carefully before you do decide to do it, it is a really big decision to make which you could end up regretting in the future. You need to be absoutely 100% sure before you agree to it. You need to think of why you don't want to be pregnant, is it that you are just not in that time of your life or you just don't want to have children?
Blank
301447_tn?1284331357
no, but do it for the right reason, and for nothing else. Just make sure you take the necessary precautions next time for both physical and emotional reasons.
Blank
Avatar_n_tn
i cant belief that u think of doing that to a little baby that little bundle didnt ask to be here y did u have unproteckted sex in the thirst place dont u know aboGod and tell him why u did it my bigest wish and dream is 2 have a baby im trying and trying but one day i wil have a baby pls think again dont  make the wrong choise God gave that baby for u as a reason i beg u dont take a abortion its like ur killing a little person from the minute on that baby starts in ur belly that baby has a life dont do it im begging u please please please please please please!!!!give that baby a chance to have a life one day ull see ur going to be proud of ur baby take my advice please ill pray 4 u
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
im against abortions unless you are raped or are a druggie or it has been mentioned by your docotor.

other than that i think its the most selfish thing you can to to kill your own child
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
No...not at all.  Abortion is a personal decision. So is deciding to actually have a baby.  I don't think abortion should be used as a form of birth control....these girls that get pregnant, get abortion, get pregnant, get abortion--now that is just ridiculous.  But, also....there are so many girls out there who make a mistake and get pregnant.....and then have children....and are NOT ready for that responsibility....and end up being horrible mothers, role models, etc.

You have to be ready to have a baby. I just had one 8 months ago...and let me tell u......there is NOTHING more tiring...no, more exhausting than having a child. Plus, i work more than full time every week.  My son is well worth it and i would never ever ever do it differently and he wasnt planned and i debated on wether or not to have him...........i am very glad i did.  But, it's tough girl. I am not gonna lie.  Hardest thing i have ever done.  Altho, i think some women are naturally maternal.  I AM NOT. I am learning and trying....but, it didnt just come to me over night like i had hoped.

Best of luck to u.  

It is your body.   Your life.  And,  u know it better then anyone else.
Blank
Avatar_n_tn
I'm not going to post my personal opinions regarding abortion on here. I do believe that every person is entitled to their position and it is no one's right to alter that in any direction.

I can say however, that you questioning it, perhaps answers your own question.

As much as it *****, there are two extremes. ProChoice/ProLife. Which one are you? How would you answer if someone asked you the question you are now asking?

Also understand that there are times when you have stop listening to your mind. That **** is crazy! There are too many mixed thoughts and too many possible outcomes...none of which are ever close to how stuff actually plays out by the way. Listen to what your heart is telling you. That way, no matter what you decide to do...it'll be the right choice because as cliche as it sounds, I've learned that while outer influences can influence the mind, they do very little to influence the heart. Follow it and you can't go wrong.

Best of luck lady. :)

Blank
634745_tn?1256847910
i agree with justlily, i know someone who was sure they wanted an abortion and had it and now they regret it more than anything, you really need to think long and hard about it but dont take too long because if you do choose an abortion and leave it till the last minute i think its worse cause the baby is more developed.
i am against abortion but i would never hold it against someone
its your choice hun and i hope you make the right one
talk to me if you ever need someone to talk to
x
Blank
Avatar_n_tn
i dont think you should, a child is a blessing. i got pregnant at last year at 18. im now 19 and im glad i had my baby boy. yeah a baby will change your life, but not in a bad way. i know some people that have had abortions and regreted it after. but its your life. im not telling you to get on and im not telling you to not get one. just make sure you really think about it before you do anything.
Blank
Avatar_n_tn
well i really dont agree with abortions  but  it depends  what kind of situation it is if its a one night stand i really think that its out of order to murder a child that u baught into the world  and didnt use protection thats your fault u should deal with it sorry to be blunt  but if its a horrible situation then maybe so but i really think you should think fast before the baby grows as the baby has a heartbeat at 6 weeks  but no one can make u do anything  but i hope u choose the right choice as my friend cant have children no more because of haveing an abortion  just think about it
Blank
Avatar_n_tn
If it's just for the sake of not wanting to be pregnant.. then you should not have one.
You won't be in 9 months time, suck it up. You need a hell of a better reason than that.
Blank
Avatar_n_tn
I don't think you should; that is my belief. But only you can realize what is right and none of us can tell you...
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
I totally agree with your post. I my self had abortion aliitle over amonth ago and think about it everyday....what it would have been or looked liked... but at this time in my life I am in no way shape or form to care for a child and bring it into this world to lead the life that it would have deserved..I too am Pro-life but the descion that i made was for me... I stuggled with and am still somewhat struggling with is the fact of God forgiving us for our sins. To all those who come on here and try to judge and put down someone else for their descion...thats a sin in itself...."Let those who is without sin cast the first stone".... you cant tell me that nooone on here hasnt sinned..we all have which, is why God died for us. A sin is a sin, it has no measure meaning no matter how big or small it is ....So from something as even having lustful thouht to actually killing your fellow man its a sin. Only God has the final say in your actions. For those who have also had a bortion like me all you have to do is pray w/a sincere heart and ask for forgiveness and "ye shall be forgiven"...but through this expereince we should take way to be more smart and wise about the descions we make that ultimatly have consequences...(Spread love,not hate..BeBlessed)  
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
but too the young ladys question....you do what you feel is right for you...Dont let anyone tell you that you shouldnt because someone thinks youre a murderer...and dont let no one tell you that you should...its up to you....The only person you need to talk to is God...Get on your knees and pray about the situation..either way its a descion youre going to have to live with ....in whatever you decide Goodluck...
Blank
Avatar_f_tn
AMEN SISTA AMEN . ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE!!!!!
Blank
Post a Comment
To
Blank
Weight Tracker
Weight Tracker
Start Tracking Now
Women's Health Community Resources
RSS Expert Activity
242532_tn?1269553979
Blank
Emotional Eating Control: How to St...
Aug 28 by Roger Gould, M.D.Blank
233488_tn?1310696703
Blank
New Cannabis Article from NORTH Mag...
Jul 20 by John C Hagan III, MD, FACS, FAAOBlank
242532_tn?1269553979
Blank
3 Reasons Why You are Still Binge E...
Jul 14 by Roger Gould, M.D.Blank
Top Women's Health Answerers
973741_tn?1342346373
Blank
specialmom
9090222_tn?1401649595
Blank
Madpi
136956_tn?1363091289
Blank
ticked
Mississauga, ON
Avatar_f_tn
Blank
old_before_my_time
1527510_tn?1392304944
Blank
Carly1306
United Kingdom
Avatar_f_tn
Blank
kitty094
London, United Kingdom