I get what seems to be flecks of skin and brown vaginal discharge :S

[xxcammiexx]

Hi I'm 16 years old and I've just had sexual intercourse with my boyfriend a couple of days ago. Since then I seem to be getting brown vaginal discharge and pieces of skin (i think). I didn't use a condom or any type of contraception (we got caught in the moment) but I'm not really sure what's happening to me. I spend more time on the toilet because i think I'm going to urinate and it stings a bit. My lower stomach hurts, I'm feeling insecure. My boyfriend says that he is positive that he didn't let any sperm out inside me, I can't tell my parents or go to our doctor as I feel like they're going to tell my parents :S :S Do you have any idea what is wrong with me? Ive been using aloe vera for the pain but 2 days have almost passed and I'm worried...  

[evthing4reason]

Well, if you are worried that you are pregnant, you wouldn't even know it yet (even the Dr blood test wouldn;t show it). Now, you bf said he didn't let any sperm in you, well this is simply not true. A man has what called precum whichdevelops when he is sexually aroused and it contains sperm, not as much as when he ejaculates but more then enought to get you pregnant.
Was this the first time you had sex? that can explain the discharge. If not even if it was rougher then normal can casuse you to bleed or have brusing on the inside, give it a few days.
Don't ever be scared to go to your Dr, they can not tell your parents anything, even if you are pregnant they are not allowed to tell, there is patient confidencialty law and the could lose their right to practice medicine, they would be able to help you and guide youe
Never ever again have sex without protection. Like i said even if he enters you just for a second...you could get pregnant. not to mention the risk of std's. If he says he doesn't have precum the next time you give him a handjob see how many strokes until his tip gets moist, in that moisture there is sperm.
BTW sometimes when people are sexually active they are more prone to urinary tract infections which could be why it is buring while you pee. you can use that as an excuse to go t the Dr if you need to. Also you need to get on birth control, if you don't want to tell your mom you are sexually active, start complaining about painful periods and then say (and most Dr would reccomend) that you go on birth control to help witht he pain
Hope this helps

[xxcammiexx]

It wasnt my first time. We've done this quite a few times and ive never ended up pregnant. Ive had the burning pee before and it was just urinary infection but this time it was worse. Ive never had brown discharge and flakes of skin before. the pain is lessening now, but i still feel weird round my stomach/womb area. I'll be careful...Ive discussed everything with my boyfriedn and he says he's behind me whatever happens, so I feel a bit better. Im still a bit upset though. It seriously hurt before...

[evthing4reason]

well remember what i said that your Dr can't tell anything to your mom. so if it doesn't go away make sure go to the Dr. and also like i said, if this just happened a few days ago you wouldn't be having pregnancy symptoms so don't worry about that or the stress could make your preiod late. I've been having cramps all the time now (feels like bad period pains) and they are testing more for endomertiosis, which one side effect can be painful sex.

[xxcammiexx]

Its not only craps and stuff, its the diorhea,the frequent going to the toilet. I cant believe all this is because of one thing. I'm sorry if im overloading you with information but i dont see anyone else who could help me more. My boyfriend feels it's because we hadnt done it for a while and all of a sudden we did it 5 times in a row. but then where does the rest fit into place. I dont feel hungry, I've almost totally lost my appetite, I only have green tea and water and maybe biscuits. Ive got my GCSE exams soon and I cant bare to think I'll be wanting to go to the loo halfway through. I can't talk to my parents about it because it's against my religion, which I'm only a part of through my parents. I feel terrible and useless. Even if I tell the doctor, if I am pregnant I will have to tell my parents and it'll all be a disaster. I'll be a disgrace to my family. I can't believe i was that stupid, and now I cant change the past, only avoid it in the future. Theres a week left till my period more or less, fingers crossed :S If not I dont know what to do but cry my heart out and run away from home.

[xxcammiexx]

lol (I meant) cramps*

[evthing4reason]

the endometiosis that i said i have and been cramping is often misdiagnosed as IBS (irretable bowel syndrome) becuase it can affect the bowel as well. Do you usually have painful or heavy periods? when was your last period and how long is your normal cycle? i'll be able to tell you if you were fertile or not, but like i said before you wouldn't be having pregnancy symptoms yet so i don't think that's it. It might just be bruising (internally) from having sex that much (tmi..but if i am feeling constipated i will have sex cause it will get my bowels moving).
Most parents are a lot nore understanding that their very only child thinks they would be. "if" you do end up pregnant, do not run away from home.There are lots of options, if you go to them the right way, with a plan in hand (i highly urge adoption to someone your age)

[xxcammiexx]

I have heavy periods at first, then it gets lighter. But my periods are at times so painful i turn white and cannot walk. My last period was around the 5th of may. I finished it around the 12th of may (7 days after). It usually takes around 29, 30 maybe even 31 days till I get my next period.
My boyfriend's 20, I don't think I'll like to let my child be adopted, but I'd have to think about it. But I've discussed this issue with my parents and they told me that if I got pregnant they would throw me out the house. They dont even let me have a boyfriend, that's how strict they are. But I guess this was my, and his fault.

[xxcammiexx]

I have heavy periods at first, then it gets lighter. But my periods are at times so painful i turn white and cannot walk. My last period was around the 5th of may. I finished it around the 12th of may (7 days after). It usually takes around 29, 30 maybe even 31 days till I get my next period.
My boyfriend's 20, I don't think I'll like to let my child be adopted, but I'd have to think about it. But I've discussed this issue with my parents and they told me that if I got pregnant they would throw me out the house. They dont even let me have a boyfriend, that's how strict they are. But I guess this was my, and his fault.

[evthing4reason]

I think that you would've missed your fertile time. I can't say anything about dating the older guy because i did a  lot when i was younger. The pain you are saying is very much like what some people who suffer from endometriosis experinece. You do need to go to a gyn, and probably start birth control, it usually helps with endo, which if not treated can make it so later you can't get pregnant. Please make a DR appointment

[xxcammiexx]

I just got my period! I'm in terrible pain but I'm happy and relieved lol
Thank you for all your help, I think I will get a doctor appointment anyway, AND start using condoms :) I may ask the Dr. for birth control pills (excuse being that my periods are terribly painful)
I still have the urge to sit on the toilet but I'm guessing I've scratched my inside :S
You've been of great help and I am so greatful that I found this site.
Take much care and I really hope you get better from the endometiosis.
Thank you :)