I need a little advice

[Sandra90]

Hi I'm Sandra and I have been trying to conceive for awhile I have had two miscarriages.. which i have only been able to carry until my period.. the first miscarriage was a week after i was to have my period. the last one was the day of my period but it came really late at night which i usually start somewhere during the morning.. I may be pregnant now and i have all symptoms of pregancy as before and my first period since will be the 10th of sept. and i just want to know if there may be any kind of vitamins or balence hormone things i can get in a store to maybe help and not have a miscarriage this time. the last one and the first one killed me and im really scared of having another one. please any advice would help... oh and  i just moved to fl so i don't have a doc. or any info to give them yet so hard to see a doc. please help.. thanks... ~Sandra

[AnnieBrooke]

Even big clots don't make a miscarriage.  I wouldn't think of them as miscarriages unless I had had a blood test for hCG and it came up as more than 5.  Otherwise they could very well be just late periods, especially if the period was due that day and came on that day, just delayed by the difference from morning to evening.  It wouldn't technically be a miscarriage, just a period.  I don't want to hurt your confidence in your grandmother, but unless she had you give blood and had it tested for hCG there is no way to tell that soon if there was an embryo in the mix or it was just a period.  A lot of women have big blood clots with their periods.  The endometrium sheds off in chunks.  It has nothing to do with miscarrying.

[Sandra90]

Yeah im sure they were miscarriages i wasn't sure on the first one because i had never gone through it and then i was told by my grandmother who is a nurse and then by my regular doctor before i moved to fl.. i had never had periods like them.. they had clots big clots and dark red clots i really don't know how to explain but i went by my doctor and i moved to fl after the second one i had seen my reg doctor the day before i left because the second one...

[Evie1963]

Try and plot your cycle so you can work out your most fertile time - near ovulation. Here is a website that might be able to help you work out the best time to try to conceive. www.ovulation-calculator.com/menstrual-cycle.htm

Good Luck. :)

[AnnieBrooke]

Are you sure they were miscarriages and not just late periods?  It's kind of unusual to have a miscarriage the day your period is due; a period coming late at night instead of in the morning is not necessarily a miscarriage.  You might not actually have the bad luck you are thinking you did.  

As for vitamins, if you are trying to get pregnant you should be on prenatal vitamins and Folic Acid.