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I'm going crazy! Someone please help me! Pregnant or possible miscarriage???
My husband & I have been trying to have a baby for almost a year but I just recently over the last 3 months started getting REALLY serious & a little (CRAZY) tracking everything(opk, fertility blend vitamins, temp)My periods are very regular every 26 days and I always get my lh surge 2 days after I start the kit.Well this past month something was different my period came two days early and at first it was very light pink then as the day went by it actually got red and heavier so I finally needed a tampon (usually my period starts heavy right away & on time).HPT was negative.I thought for sure I was pregnant. Another wierd thing is my breasts they are A LOT bigger & they hurt usually it happens right before my period but always goes away they didn't this time,I ended my period at end of June & just this past friday they have had some clear discharge leaking out if I squeeze them.Also I've had frequent urination, a very dry mouth in the a.m. especially & pains & twinges every now & then in my abdomen,I've also had an upset stomach a lot w/ diarrea,I often feel very nausous in the a.m., also very tired more than usual.I should have had my lh surge like a week ago but haven't had it yet,I'm still trying but NOTHING.Like I said everything has been like clock work & now all this weird stuff.Can someone help me!Also yesterday when I got home from work I went to the bathroom I had a light brownish discharge.Then by 9pm I had a pinkish discharge w/ strands of red blood.By 12 it was red but not really heavy.I also have bad cramps.My period isn't due until the 20th!HELP!Thank You!!!
Yeah that wasn't very helpful, but I guess she wants to see what's up with your period first. I had that test done. It's called a hysterosalpingo gram. Let me just let you know because I wished someone had warned me but the test is painful. It feels like serious abdominal cramps. I don't want to tell you this to scare you because knowing the results is worth it but just take two motrin before doing it. My tests came back and I was fine. No blocked tubes, and my doctor said I could get pregnant right after also but that was two months ago and I'm still trying. Well I hope all is well with you and definitely let me know. I have a feeling you are pregnant though. I know my friends are lucky but hopefully me and you will get there too. You have a son already right? At least you know that you can get pregnant. I will keep you informed of this months trials and tribulations. I bought my second opk. Let's pray.
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Okay so the doctor wasn't very helpful. She gave me my annual pap. And another urine preg test and of course it was NEG. I was hoping she would give me a blood test one. But, NO!!! She wants me to wait and see if I get my period which I'm supposed to get on the 20th. She said all this wierd spotting and bleeding is normal. She also said well it happens sometimes after you ovulate and I said well doc that's one of the problems I DIDN'T ovulate this month no lh surge which is unusual for me. So she was like oh well sometimes there could be an abnormal cycle. I'm like geez... everything has been completly normal and like clockwork and now all of a sudden all these abnormalties? She told me seeing it will be a year of trying to conceive next month if I do get my period she wants me to come in while I have it and she is going to do some xray test where the fill up your tubes with dye and see if they are open she also said a lot of times when you have that done you end up getting pregnant right after that! Which was a good thing to hear, she also wants to do some other test to see how old my ovaries are acting and then a sperm analysis for hubby. BUT, she said I could already be newly pregnant (hence the wierd spotting/bleeding 9 days before my period). So I have to wait some more!!! If I do get it then next step is the tests and then she said if that doesn't work then she is going to have me start some fertility drugs. So until then I'm keeping my fingers crossed for no period and a positive test when and if I don't get it! One more week and we will see. I will keep you posted. Let me know what's going on with you too okay?! About you friend could you believe that? Lucky b*@ch! =O) My younger sister is the same way she gets pregnant so easily, I had a friend like that too! I NEVER thought this would be SOOOOOOOO hard! Well, GOOD LUCK and lots of sticky baby dust!!! =O) Talk to you soon...
Okay so the doctor wasn't very helpful. She gave me my annual pap. And another urine preg test and of course it was NEG. I was hoping she would give me a blood test one. But, NO!!! She wants me to wait and see if I get my period which I'm supposed to get on the 20th. She said all this wierd spotting and bleeding is normal. She also said well it happens sometimes after you ovulate and I said well doc that's one of the problems I DIDN'T ovulate this month no lh surge which is unusual for me. So she was like oh well sometimes there could be an abnormal cycle. I'm like geez... everything has been completly normal and like clockwork and now all of a sudden all these abnormalties? She told me seeing it will be a year of trying to conceive next month if I do get my period she wants me to come in while I have it and she is going to do some xray test where the fill up your tubes with dye and see if they are open she also said a lot of times when you have that done you end up getting pregnant right after that! Which was a good thing to hear, she also wants to do some other test to see how old my ovaries are acting and then a sperm analysis for hubby. BUT, she said I could already be newly pregnant (hence the wierd spotting/bleeding 9 days before my period). So I have to wait some more!!! If I do get it then next step is the tests and then she said if that doesn't work then she is going to have me start some fertility drugs. So until then I'm keeping my fingers crossed for no period and a positive test when and if I don't get it! One more week and we will see. I will keep you posted. Let me know what's going on with you too okay?! About you friend could you believe that? Lucky b*@ch! =O) My younger sister is the same way she gets pregnant so easily, I had a friend like that too! I NEVER thought this would be SOOOOOOOO hard! Well, GOOD LUCK and lots of sticky baby dust!!! =O) Talk to you soon...
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I'm thinking that you might be prego since you didn't get an LH Surge. This was the first time we tried an opk so I still have to see what happens this month. Wow, 3 months pregnant and you had your period every month? That's crazy. This 7 months have been the longest. My two friends got pregnant on the first month of trying. One of them happens to be my best friend of 20 years and she was on the pill forever. I wish it was that easy for me. We are hoping that I do get pregnant so our kids can grow up together. Well I definitely want to know what happens when you get back from the dr. I'll have my fingers crossed for you.
I'm thinking that you might be prego since you didn't get an LH Surge. This was the first time we tried an opk so I still have to see what happens this month. Wow, 3 months pregnant and you had your period every month? That's crazy. This 7 months have been the longest. My two friends got pregnant on the first month of trying. One of them happens to be my best friend of 20 years and she was on the pill forever. I wish it was that easy for me. We are hoping that I do get pregnant so our kids can grow up together. Well I definitely want to know what happens when you get back from the dr. I'll have my fingers crossed for you.
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Sounds similar. The thing is you had your lh surge. One of my many problems is that this month I didn't have any surge at all which means I didn't ovulate! Which is wierd because I have been ovulating fine and like clock work I always get my two lh surges 2 days after I start the kit. So I don't get why the heck I didn't get any lh surge this month. I would definitly assume the wierd spotting and bleeding I'm having right now is implantation bleeding BUT, I never had a surge and ovulated so how could it be implantation bleeding. And it can't be my period because it's WAY TOO early! Can you see why I'm going CRAZY!!! AHHHHHH!!! Well, THANK GOD I'm going to the doctor tomorrow. I was just hoping to get others experiences and input on this situation if they had a similar one. Thanks for yours. And good luck to you. And hey, they say it takes a normal healthy couple up to a year to conceive. So it's been 7 months for you KEEP TRYING and don't worry. I'm starting to worry because it will be a year in August and I'm getting all these wierd things going on. GOOD LUCK & LOTS OF BABY DUST TO YOU!!! =O) Let me know when you get some good news, I will be back on tomorrow right after the doctors tomorrow OF COURSE!!! Hopefully with some good news if not I will have a few tears to shed and may need a few shoulders to lean on. =O)
Sounds similar. The thing is you had your lh surge. One of my many problems is that this month I didn't have any surge at all which means I didn't ovulate! Which is wierd because I have been ovulating fine and like clock work I always get my two lh surges 2 days after I start the kit. So I don't get why the heck I didn't get any lh surge this month. I would definitly assume the wierd spotting and bleeding I'm having right now is implantation bleeding BUT, I never had a surge and ovulated so how could it be implantation bleeding. And it can't be my period because it's WAY TOO early! Can you see why I'm going CRAZY!!! AHHHHHH!!! Well, THANK GOD I'm going to the doctor tomorrow. I was just hoping to get others experiences and input on this situation if they had a similar one. Thanks for yours. And good luck to you. And hey, they say it takes a normal healthy couple up to a year to conceive. So it's been 7 months for you KEEP TRYING and don't worry. I'm starting to worry because it will be a year in August and I'm getting all these wierd things going on. GOOD LUCK & LOTS OF BABY DUST TO YOU!!! =O) Let me know when you get some good news, I will be back on tomorrow right after the doctors tomorrow OF COURSE!!! Hopefully with some good news if not I will have a few tears to shed and may need a few shoulders to lean on. =O)
Yes, I have taken 2 others actually. The first one I took was the actual day I got my early period. Then I took one a few days later an e.p.t than I took a first response a week ago. I have never felt so pregnant before than in the last few weeks so I swear I could be despite the neg results. I have heard of women getting multiple neg hpt but still being pregant. I didn't mention I have a 9 year old son already and when I was pregnant with him I had my period for the first 3 months, (I was only 18 so I never payed much attention to when exactly I got it or should get it) but I do remember having it because when I finally ended up going to the doctors when I did miss my period, I thought I was newly pregnant but really I was about 3 months. So do you think it's possible to still be pregnant and get so many negatives? I have an appt. for my annual tomorrow so when I go I am going to have an earful for the doctor (I wrote EVERYTHING down) All my periods back to Jan 2006 and my symptoms, temps, etc... My husband thinks I'm crazy. He keeps telling me I'm obssesed with all of this. He just said to me that it's becoming a sickness. He obviously doesn't understand how I feel. Thank heaven for this forum and all of you ladies... =O)
I hear you. I've been trying for about 7 months and I took an opk and had my lh surge. I got my period 2 days early, it was light pink for two and half days than completely stopped. the next day it got brown and then heavy, with really bad cramps. I usually am heavy on the first 2 days and my period only lasts 7 days, my period has lasted about 9 days and my breasts are huge. Nothing coming out though. I took 2 hpt tests and both were negative. I also had a yeast infection, which I haven't had one for 3 years. I've had diarrhea as well, my stomach has been upset for two days. I feel nauseaous as well. I'm waiting until I am close to ovulation so I can test my lh surge again. I'm assuming I'm not prego but you never know. The mind and body can play tricks especially when we want a child so badly. I would recommend that you take another hpt and if that is negative then go to your dr. and take a blood test.
Good luck, I hope you get wonderful news.
Good luck, I hope you get wonderful news.
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