Is it possible to have a misshapen uterus/vagina?

[melbelle44]

I have recently started the process of becoming sexually active. However, the last two guys I have let finger me...I have found that it has hurt tremendously, and they are only able to get their finger in like half an inch. Both of them have said, "It's not even in, it shouldn't hurt." Considering this is a recurring issue, with the same results, from two different sources, I find myself wondering if something is wrong with me.

The last guy and I talked about it, and he said nothing feels wrong or unusual inside of me. He is pretty sure there is no hymen. If there was something physically odd about me, I would assume he'd at least be able to tell. He did (I'm sorry to be graphic) lean me over the bed and finger me from behind at a different angle, and he said he was able to get further in.

So, is it possible that I have a misshapen/tipped anatomy that I should alert potential lovers about? I am afraid to move to the next level (sex) because I worry that the guy will try to push something in where it can't be pushed. I am sure this is an issue for an OB/Gyn, but until I can see one, I guess I just don't know what to do.

[noreenwawuda]

I don't think if you should worry. It is your first time perhaps. Maybe you were expecting it to be fun. The TV graphics have spoilt your thinking in sex. At first even fingering will be painful. Or maybe you are not wet enough. This ca be a reason on itself. When having any sex encounter. You should be at least prepared both mentally and physically. This way they will be enough lubrication. So when the finger comes in it will not hurt. It might also be that your 12 partners were rough. In which I really cannot judge. If this continues you should go and see a doctor. There might be help in your side. For now I cannot draw any conclusion. Perhaps you had be more detailed. I would have known what exactly the problem is.
If also you are nit comfortable moving to the other part. It is fine, as far as your partners understand. With continued fingering the case should be better. Just give it time. After a while if the case is still the same you can now then go and see a doctor. But next time before you start the fingering you should at least have 30 minutes of simulation.

[noreenwawuda]

I don't think if you should worry. It is your first time perhaps. Maybe you were expecting it to be fun. The TV graphics have spoilt your thinking in sex. At first even fingering will be painful. Or maybe you are not wet enough. This ca be a reason on itself. When having any sex encounter. You should be at least prepared both mentally and physically. This way they will be enough lubrication. So when the finger comes in it will not hurt. It might also be that your 12 partners were rough. In which I really cannot judge. If this continues you should go and see a doctor. There might be help in your side. For now I cannot draw any conclusion. Perhaps you had be more detailed. I would have known what exactly the problem is.
If also you are nit comfortable moving to the other part. It is fine, as far as your partners understand. With continued fingering the case should be better. Just give it time. After a while if the case is still the same you can now then go and see a doctor. But next time before you start the fingering you should at least have 30 minutes of simulation.

[specialmom]

I doubt there is anything wrong with you.  You are new to this and maybe have inexperienced young partners as well.  Please don't give yourself away easily to guys.  You also may not be super excited by this and not lubricated well enough.  That can make it all more difficult.  Anyway, it should get better but particularly  so if you are with a guy you really care about and he you.