Obviously condoms are effective, but they can still fail. Obviously pre-ejaculation can cause pregnancy as well, so without the male even ejaculating you could still become pregnant. Obviously chances are higher that it's going to be the one that you didn't use any protection with, but you never know!
I'm glad you have told your boyfriend. It's important you were/are honest with these two men and keeping them involved on the situation. That's definitely the right thing to do. I would still obviously get a DNA test when baby is born just to be sure. You can do a test around 13 weeks, but it is very risky for the baby and many doctors won't perform it because if this.
No he wasn't circumcised and that's exactly what happened it was defiantly a mess! I have been checked for all the diseases, I have slept with him before this time as well.
I recently told him that I was late for my period and was worried, so we went over the night together and we both agreed he never cummed when we had sex with the condom and when we fooled around in the washroom we both remember briefly having sex and then the blood thing happened so stopped and that was that.
He was legitimately concerned an I told him I was gonna go to clinic and everything and get back to him. I did already know I was pregnant but didn't wanna say yet.
I told my ex today that I am pregnant, he knows I slept with the other guy the day after. He was calm but right away said it wasn't his. Hes supported but he doesn't see how it could be his when used a condom, but he was the only one that actually cummed in me (even though wearing a condom)
It just all so confusing I wish there was a better way to tell! I got my blood test today so I'm just playing the waiting game for results and hopefully my doctor can help me figure it out.
im gonna guess its the guys that you did not use protection with while fooling around... did his penis ever touch your vagina without a condom?
you will for sure need to get a paternity test to be sure tho.....
also make sure that you get a full std check especially after getting his blood in you...
is he circumcised? cause a few years ago i was with a guy who wasnt and his foreskin got torn when we were having sex... what a mess that was and looked very painful....
The doctor will be able to tell you the exact day you concived soo think hard about who yu where with that night ! Gudluck hun
All the dates are FAR too close together to be able to guess who the father is. It doesn't matter whether the male ejaculated in you or not - you can still become pregnant from pre-ejaculation which is released when the male is aroused.
Honestly the only way to know for sure it to get a DNA test after the baby is born. Guessing and estimating dates just isn't accurate enough and dates can be wrong, especially in early pregnancy.