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Just venting...
Ok I've seen it more than once...what's the name of this website??? MED HELP!!! Not JUDGE. Why do you people (the judgers) come here? This site is for people who want to give/need advice, get/help support, and for people to ask questions...so let's do just that. There's no need for anything else. If someone asks a question, just give the answer to what they ask, don't be a judge, or tell them what they're supposed to be or that they are irresponsible, and if you don't have an answer just wish them good luck with their situation. You don't know them, and I have yet to see someone's mother replying to their post. So seriously ladies, lets grow up and be adults..."to each their own". People will do what they do, get over it!!!
I forgot to add...the judging just because someone drinks. We're mostly adults of legal drinking age here, I'm sure some of us have had our drunk moments too...not just having sex...
Oh I know, I do move on I just feel bad for some people on here who just come here for advice...the one's that get me are the ones that say "I got drunk and had sex I think I'm pregnant" or something along those lines...people do stupid (no offense I've been there too) stuff sometimes...I mean, if they come on here saying they had unprotected sex just because they thought they could get away with it, that's one thing...that's not the smartest move to avoid pregnancy, and neither is getting drunk...but you see what I mean?
Some subjects of discussion are hot button issues that strike an emotional nerve with some. Hence... the "judging." And, that act of judging isn't always objective nor helpful... but, clearly, it comes with the forum format territory. Personally, I find the debates and the fireworks that are generated from some discussions informative and, at times, rather entertaining. However, I know where you're going with your "vent." Sometimes, that judging can come off as hostile, mean-spirited and counter-productive. Just see it for what it is... one person's opinion; then, move on.
Oh I have yet to be judged, I just don't see why people do it. I mean I can put myself in the shoes of some people who I have seen judged, and when they come on here asking questions, I can imagine it makes them feel bad when they get judged.
whatisit00...you took the words out of my mouth. "Just give the best advice you can." Some people already feel crappy enough on here without having to read someone's judgmental post. Judging could make that person feel so much worse, and from my point of view that's not the point of this website, to make them feel worse. It's to help.
whatisit00...you took the words out of my mouth. "Just give the best advice you can." Some people already feel crappy enough on here without having to read someone's judgmental post. Judging could make that person feel so much worse, and from my point of view that's not the point of this website, to make them feel worse. It's to help.
It's going to happen. My best advice would be to let it go.
Just give the best advice you can.
:)
Just give the best advice you can.
:)
Well, yes this site is called Medhelp however any time you (or somebody else) comes on and need help with something you open yourself up to being judged. It's always been like this on this website. Unfortunately this happens, it shouldn't but it does. Sorry if anybody has mad you angry, but I know I have bee judged on here too. Sometimes you just have to know when to pick your battles.
Take care!
Take care!
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