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LABIA INJURY
last 2 weeks i have rough sex, It was my second sex in my life and it is a little bit rough.. the guy rub me so hard and he big. in the morning I just found out that my labia minora is damage, the edge feels rough and there is splits, many splits in the edge, as well as clitoral hood and the skin down the clit. Ive got fissure also in the perineal region.
Now, Its been almost three weeks, my labia minora still swell and the splits are still there, I started applying coconut oil 3 days ago and it reduces the swell little bit, Its not that painful, but if I touch i feel the nerves now, the fissure in the perineal area forms a hard rough tissue , is it normal>>?? I want to know if my labia minora can still heal and how much time do I need to wait. Because I want to have sex again but I cant because of my injury.
Now, Its been almost three weeks, my labia minora still swell and the splits are still there, I started applying coconut oil 3 days ago and it reduces the swell little bit, Its not that painful, but if I touch i feel the nerves now, the fissure in the perineal area forms a hard rough tissue , is it normal>>?? I want to know if my labia minora can still heal and how much time do I need to wait. Because I want to have sex again but I cant because of my injury.
Thanks for the concern,,, yea i never talk to him, ,, I dont feel pain in the rectum.. I just notice some rough tissue in the perineal area where the damage is,so i dont know if its healing or what, the labia minora swollen, but it subside now, as i take mefinamic yesterday, so i think i will just continue to take that med and apply coconut oil on the labia minora splits.It was totally damage, so i dont know if when it will heal properly. I cant even touch myself to masturbate as im scared to agrivate the injury.
no not yet, but yesterday, i buy ponstan/mefenamic acid thinking that it would help to subside the swelling, because i never take any medicine prior to injury, i just let it heal and i just applied coconut oil last saturday. now, ive check the area and it subside lil bit, so i will just continue to take med until it will heal. Yea it will go 3 weeks on thursday, but i was totally damage, i had labia minor splits on the left, splits on below the clit and some splits on the right,. so i think it will take time to heal. for my perineal area, theres rough tissue on the damage area but its not painful anymore, is it a sign that its healing? will the rough tissue go away or not??
I am very glad your not seeing him again. It has been a long time. You should be almost healed. You may have scarring if the wound is deep enough. Do you have any very sharp shooting pain in the rectum? You should see a gyno. Keep the area as clean as you can, also use a poise micro pantyliner till healed it will absorb any bacteria and keep it away from your skin. Its for urinary incontinence but don't let that stop you. A period pad will trap bacteria.
Eventually you will be able to have sex. I would wait until I heal properly. If not, sex will be painful each time... And never heal the right way.
Since its been 3 (or more) weeks, have you thought of going to a Dr? It just seems like a long time to me.
Since its been 3 (or more) weeks, have you thought of going to a Dr? It just seems like a long time to me.
Hmmmmm thanks for the advice, im not talking to him anymore.. So its fine.. Im just worried about my condition now. May perineal area which has hard tissue now , and my labia minora which is totally injured , so i dont like rough sex though... I want to know hiw to fasten the healing
Your peri areas will heal this time but, maybe not next time. I suggest you twist his nuts till he needs surgery before you end up having surgery and screwing up your life. You may have infertity problem later if this continues. You should seek profesional help if rough is the only thing that excites you. Your inexperienced at sex and should learn more. Not judging, trying to help, Look into Tantra. Me and my hubby have practiced this for years and have the most incredible sex. Most men think they know about sex but trust me they have no idea. If he cant get you off by gently caressing than he is not worthy. If you have feelings for him have him watch some tantra videos with you. He will think its porn but he might at least learn something. If rough is what you like than use safe words. Your worth more than that. make a man deserve you, than he will stay. If you only try to please him than he wont respect you and leave. Im old I know things.
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