There is no hair in there. Not that I can see anyways. It is just a lump, sometimes hard and sometimes squishy. The size of an almond on a good day and the size of a grape when it's enlarged.
You could also go to a dermatologist. I doubt it will turn in to anything serious, but you may need it drained.
do you shave? the reason i ask is it may be an ingrown hair that is getting longer. i get them and they dont always get a white head. if you feel brave enough have you partner take a look and if he can see a hair get your partener to get a steralised neadle and see if he can get it out, it doesnt hurt if he is gentle.
just a thought.
Your GYn or GP would be a good place to start and see what they recommend. They may refer you to another practitioner such as a general surgeon or dermatologist.
Andi
what kind of doctor should i see? ob/gyn?
Sounds like a cyst, my advice is to go to the doc and have it removed.
Andi