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1945813 tn?1324198717

Nervous about sexual life

I'm a 19 year old . I have a boyfriend. We are enjoying our life in every way. We are sexually very active and does 1-2 times every week. Since my Mom's a gynecologist, he once told me that if my mom's gonna do a PV at any time later she will definitely know that i had sex. My parents are never supportive to pre-martial sex. From then on i never wanted to have sex because i am afraid. How is it possible to know by looking my genitals my mom will know if i had sex? Is it possible if i abstain from sex i can lose signs that i had sex?
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You can't tell if you're sexually active just from looking. Given active lifestyles these days, it's not uncommon for a girl's hymen to break long before she's ever sexually active.
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1809109 tn?1331803777
I don't know about obvious signs that you're sexually active (apart from seeing symptoms of a STD, pregnancy, or sperm), but can't you just request a different gyn? It's awkward enough, but I think it would be more so to have my mom do it.
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