Oh no! My labia minora is small!

[Isabella80]

Hi everyone.  I had found this forum a few days ago and I now feel the need to post a question even if it has been asked before.

For the longest time, I was never bothered with the way my labia minora looks.  It is small(not nonexistent) and it does not hang outside of the labia majora.  I had asked a doctor about the way it looks and I was told that I am not underdeveloped, like some women like to say and that it was normal but after looking up more on it on the internet, I'm not so sure anymore.

I am very self-conscious about it now especially after hearing how so many men prefer larger lips and how women who have larger lips often say that people like me look like children because ours aren't huge.  I've even read about a girl who was dumped by her boyfriend because she had small lips!  After reading all of that, I've actually considered trying to stretch mine just so they will be bigger.

What do you all think of this?  Is it wrong to have small lips?  Am I doomed to be alone forever because men prefer larger ones?  The last thing I'd want is to be with a guy who claims he's okay with how small I am down there when really he wishes I was larger.  I'd appreciate hearing from both men and women.

[Isabella80]

Wow.  No comments.  Is it safe to assume that if I had larger lips that I felt insecure about, I would've gotten some input on it long before now?

[Bon-Bon]

In reality the man that is made for you, will prefer smaller labia not the other way around.  If not, then you don't want 'em anyway, cause he's not made nor intended for you, nor would he have your best interest at heart.  Some women may even react jealously over this and try to make you feel your's is not normal in order for them to feel better about themselves.  You are "normal".  Relax and be proud that you have no need nor desire to be all stretched out beyond return. :  )

Have a great day and worry not!