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Orgasm

I am 24, started having sex with one partner only, at age 18 and have been with him since and I have only had ONE orgasm .  I always feel like I'm at the point about to do it but then it just fades away.  What is wrong with me???  My boyfriend doesn't know about this because I fake it everytime. Don't get me wrong it is great sex but I just can't get the full on orgasm.  We have tried several positions, done it in different and unusual places and have just done oral but I still can not orgasm.  The only medication I am on is synthroid for hypothryroid which is not suppose to have sexual side effect, so I don't know what it could be! ANY suggestions???? Please help!!!!
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I know how you feel about this. I can reach an orgasm through oral stimulation and foreplay but I can't reach one during sex.
I've found it's easier to have your partner manually stimulate you while you are having sex. That might work!
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If you are able to have an orgasm while masturbating, then maybe you are not mentally "allowing" yourself to reach that point during your sexual encounters for whatever reasons.  Or your partner may not be giving you that extra minute or two that you need to achieve it. You could try pleasuring yourself along with whatever your partner is doing to reach a climax.  Sometimes that is the only way for me :-).

HTH!
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