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Orgasms.

I'm seventeen, and I haven't had sex. I decided to try masturbation a little over a month ago.
I use my showerhead, because I just can't get myself going when it's my hands - I don't turn myself on, lol, if that makes any sense.
I've gotten to a few times where I've felt myself tense up and my vagina pulse - is that an orgasm? I don't really know what I'm doing, and I want to know if that's it, or if there's more to expect eventually.
Does how I masturbate have anything to do with how I react?
Any comments/suggestions?
Thanks :)
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The only advice i could give you is.. when you really orgasm you'll know. Your clitoris will be so sensitive you wont want anything touching it for a couple of minutes.
It sounds like you're climaxing but not really reaching the peak.. keep going a little longer next time and see what happens. also you have to be comfortable with yourself and your surroundings. once your comfy you're more likely to have a better time and a better orgasm.
LOL try using the bottom of an electric toothbrush. not the part where you brush your teeth, but the bottom has quite a bit of vibration. hope this helped!
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Yes, the way you masturbate can change the way you orgasm, cause there are 2 kinds of orgasms, Vagina and Clitoris.
Womens bodies are complicated :)
sometimes going down with your hand wont do anything, you have to try diffrent ways.
Try the bathtub, i know that helps for alot of women. Or objects
And if you tense up and feel your vagina tensing up to, thats probably an orgasm.
Like i said there are diffrent kinds of orgasms and feelings.
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