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Out of control

My wife and I have had an excellent sex life up untill recently. About 6 months ago, she started to have an increased libido, which was great.........at first. Now, she can not get enough and is never satisfied. I can have her achive orgasm either with toys, orally or intercourse but thses are either G spot, squirting orgasms or clitirol ones. No matter what I try or how long we make love, she is not fully satisfied, even if she orgasm's 10 times. She still needs more. I have a healthy sex drive but this is out of control. I am serviving on about 3 hours sleep at the moment and I am exhausted. I feel that our making love is all about satisfying her and I am starting not to enjoy the experiance.
This is now at the point where it is affecting our relationship as she wants it every night, no matter what the time and if I say no, then the hurtfull comments and inuendo happen, or if we do make love, then it is never enough to satisfy and the same thing happens anyway. I am at my wits end. I love my wife and this is just driving us apart. Please, any help would be appreciated.
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1809109 tn?1331803777
Maybe an endocrinologist? Or a scan on the brain are the only other possibilities I can think of. In the mean time perhaps get her a very nice vibrator. Sex is one thing, but this just makes it sounds like you're starting to feel used which doesn't usually end well.
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she has and they cannot find anything wrong except that the estrigen is high. That maybe due to the IUD. the Dr says that this maybe early menopause but the blood tests dont show it. Any other sugestions?
Sorry for the spelling, I am absolutly wrecked.
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I've heard of a condition where a woman has a constant need to be orgasming, no matter what she is doing. I think I remember reading that it sometimes begins during pregnancy, but not always. I can;t remember completely, but this sounds like something similar. Sorry I can't remember what the condition is called. I probably read about it on WebMD, maybe you can find the same article if you search a bit? Wish I could be more helpful.
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1809109 tn?1331803777
I agree, this doesn't sound normal. A high sex drive is one thing, but this much of an increase might indicate a hormonal problem. I suggest she talk to the dr asap to make sure that nothing is going wrong.
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1527510 tn?1392301344
She needs to speak to a doctor, it seems as if she could be addicted to sex. Not the silly 'addiction' you here about, the proper one where it is mental and she literally cannot help it. Therapy and perhaps medication do provide good results for this.
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