Pain during sex

[shannonwooten]

I hear this may be normal... but how normal?
I'm 19... When a guy goes deep inside, I get a sharp feeling like he is well, I guess poking my cervix... hurts badly. Like I can't do doggy style or really any position that allows the male to go deep into me.
I have been with a few guys- have the problem with all of them, dif sizes too.

Now... I am Haveing the problem with my husband- he is on the bigger side so I knew he wouldnt be able to go deep without me being in pain. But it stinks cause I feel like is his missing out on a lot...


Anyone else have this prob?

Thanks!

[mrskdempsey]

I had that problem too, but it was after abdominal surgery, and everything was all swollen. Try to get in a different position. Try sex with you on top. That way you can be in control. Also try doggy style.

Good luck

[shannonwooten]

Thanks so much for your replies! I didnt know that your cervix is a little higher while ovulating, thanks!

[Joalbert]

some women are sentitve to there g-spot, it doesn't always feel good, so if the guy it's it everytimes you might feell a pressure, I don't really enjoy doggie style either because if that.

[mrs canada]

He actually IS hitting your cervix and for most of us, that is not a pleasant feeling. Your cervix is in different positions, at various points in the month, so some times he will "hit" it more than others.

Around ovulation, when your cervix is high and open, sex will not hurt as much. So try it out around the middle of your cycle to see if it's better.

[thomas01]

I use to have the same problem.  Having kids helped a lot though I wouldnt recommend that at 19 yet.  Sometimes if you are really tight and that area hasn't been stretched you feel more pain. I agree with the women who said go ontop.  It really made the difference to our sex life.  I felt less pain and more pleasure and my husband was just happy to be having more sex