I didn't have the paraguard, but I did have Mirena. The hormones are so low it is safe to nurse and the effects do not linger in your system upon removal. In fact I didn't have any side effects while I had mine other than light period.
Hopefully someone who has had the paraguard will respond.
I have been on the pill now for a few years, and I just learned about ParaGard-- unlike the other IUD mentioned, this one has no hormones, and once inserted by the doctor, it lasts for up to 10 years, but you can take it out whenever you want. According to the website, since there are no hormones, you can start trying for pregnancy immediately after you take it out, and on the flip side, it supposedly begins working the day you have it put in! (no few week waiting period like the pill)
I've been thinking about it because I am really bad about remembering to take my pill, and to take it at the same time. I always freak myself out, and the idea of never having to remember that sounds really good!
i have had a Para Gard. My side effects were so bad I had it removed this week. I had it for almost 2 yrs. The entire time I have had very low hemoglobine. I have started having migraines I never had them before. I really thought that the Para Gard was going to be the answer for me. My husband and I have been married for almost 15 years and we have six children. I can not take birth control because of family history of breast cancer. I would not reccommend the Para Gard. I have had severe cramp and horrible monthly cycles. I nver had any kind of health problems or female problems until I used the para gard.
I have used paraguard for over 7 mos. I have always had PMS and since insertion of the paraguard, cramps are twice as strong and menstural bleeding is a lot heavier. On the other hand, my doctor has used the paraguard for several years without any symptoms.I only recommend the paraguard if you are willing to ride out possible side effects for the 1st few months. I myself am planning to have it removed if problems persistat a year after insertion.
I had the Para guard inserted 2 years ago and I have not had too bad of a problem with the cramps or bleeding although it is quite a bit heavier but what I do not like is the large amounts of cervical mucus that are produced from having the IUD. This may sound awful but I have to tell you it comes out in hanging globs when I go to the bathroom and I can just keep wiping and wiping and it seems like the globs never end! It is constant and intercourse is barely felt at this point and I am thinking of having it removed for that reason. I actually posted a question today about it to find out if anyone else has had the same problem. But as far as comfort and all that it has been fine.
hello all! I've had the paragard since 1995. I just had it removed this week--yes I know, it's been 13 years! Never had any problems, however the last 5 years my period would come every 20 days instead of 28 days. Normal periods, some months bad cramps--other months no cramps. I go back in the end of August for another paragard. When I left the dr.s office a couple of days ago, I left with alot of information on other forms of BC. I was seriously thinking about going the Essure route. I've decided against it because: you have to wait 3 months to make sure it "took", requires surgery for removal, only 3 years of data available. I also thought of the Mirena--but then again that has a hormone, only good for 5 years, and actually has more side effects than the paragard. Since I've been on the ParaGard I know how my body reacts to it so I won't have any surprises there--also the day they put it in you can rely on it.
41 year old mother of 17 and 13 year old boys, married 21 years.
I've had my paragard since October 2007- so 10 months. Since I had it inserted I have a new kind of pain and it is burning, I think about where my ovaries might be. Does anyone else experience this pain? It happens before my period, along with all of the other lovely cramping that comes with the paragard.
Hi Ya'll.. I just got the para gard inserted this past monday,.. as soon as i got this thing inside of me i began to let out blood clots and i was in horrible pain. I didn't think something so small would be so painful. when i came home i noticed when i hit the shower that these two strings were very noticeable.., and all of a sudden today being saturday these strings disappeared... and i have some major discomfort on the right side of my body.. HAS ANYONE EXPERIENCED THIS?.. (lol) is this normal?..how do i know this thing is still in me?...
I've had paragard for a year and a half, the bleeding and cramps are unbearable. I've decided today it's gotta go (i'm actually out of work today because of it). I'm 28 yrs. old and have tried everything, the side effects just aren't worth it. Not ready for kids and may never be...any suggestions???
I just had my son in July and my daughter is six years old I don't think I want kids I don't want to speek for my self in for 10 years from now and I don't want to keep taking the pill because... well that is how I got my son.. I did some research on Mirena and everyone said that they gained a ton of weight.... does the Paragard make you gain weight and does it feel ok when you work out?
I have had the Paragard for about 9 months now and it is great. I do have a heavy period for the first 3 days or so but then it is back to normal. I do not feel, nor does my partner feel the IUD during intercourse. I would tell anyone who is considering Mirena to do the research...it caused me to gain 7 lbs. immediately and migraines to come on full throttle. After I switched it out for Paragard all is well. I think everyone is different but I have definitly had a good experience thus far.
I have had the Paragard for a year and 1/2 now. I have to say my periods were always on the heavy side, but only lasted 4 days with virtually no cramps. Until, I got the Paragard. My period can last up to 10 days now, but that is accounting for the first 2 days and last 3 days being so light, I can wear a tampon for the whole day. It still gets to be annoying though. As for the heavy days, well, they are VERY heavy and if i'm at work or home its not a problem to change my tampon every 45 minutes, but when on vacation or anywhere that a bathroom is not easily accessible, it can be a problem. As for my cramps...remember what your period felt like the first year you had it. Well, that's what my cramps feel like now. For the first 8 months or so, they were AWFUL. I always had to take something around the clock the first couple of days of my cycle. Now they seem to have lessened and some months they are barely there and other months, they are quite noticeable. As for ovulation. I never knew when I ovulated before I got the Paragard. Now, I have cramps and heavy discharge, but its literally like water. Sorry that was gross. Still after all this, I would recommend it for anyone who cannot tolerate the hormones in birth control. I had tried every low hormone pill, ring, etc. The Paragard takes some getting used to, but its way better than the hormones and filling prescriptions once a month, etc. I hope this was helpful.
I have had it for a few years now. It was great for the first couple of years, but in the last year I've been having a lot of problems. I started getting this clear watery discharge that during my period, especially if I put a tampon in. I can't use tampons anymore, because I get so much discharge it goes right through my undies and pants! Very embarrassing and scary.
Also: when I first got mine inserted, I would sometimes get a thick mucousy yellow-ish discharge. My doc said it was normal. But this past year I have been getting it more and more. Now I get it almost every day. It's pretty gross! Sometimes it's brown.
I have also been having loose stools, a lot of gas and frequent heartburn for the past year. I'm kind of a mess! I've been to a lot of doctors. They keep telling me the vaginal symptoms are separate from the rest but I just don't buy it. It all started at once. Plus, no one can tell me what's wrong. As far as I can tell, I don't fit into any categories, and so the docs don't know what to say. I'll tell you one thing for sure, though: every time they do a wet mount I have a high bacteria count on my cervix.
I'm going to make an appointment with a new doctor and see if I can't get some traction. I'm due for my yearly pap anyway. I think it might be time to take out the IUD and see if some of this stuff clears up. I was willing to deal with the discharge when it was infrequent, but not every fricken day! And if this gastrointestinal stuff is related, then I'm just not a good candidate for an IUD.
(this is a cross-post from another thread about the Mirena where a lot of others are talking about discharge from their IUD.)
I've had the paragard for 4 years now and my symptoms are almost identical to jellybean1212. It does seem that if you have it in for years that the symptoms do lessen a bit. But I'm still having my period 11 days of the month, the cramping has definitly lessened, it was terrible the first months, it felt just like the contractions when your in labor. The other concern I have had is amount of blood loss, because I have always had issues with anemia, I think this could be a real problem. I have also started to have that watery discharge issue and that only started happening recently, I wonder what that's about? It's also terribly painful to have inserted and I would make sure to have someone drive you home, even just for moral support. It's a big decision, but there are some upsides, no hormones and the ability to be spontaneous and not worry about the pill.
I just the paragard inserted yesterday, it was really painful, and like ak225, my period stop, (and I just had it for three days) I just have some spotting and a little cramp that doesn't go away, but I'm woman, and I can handle more than that... I'll let you guys know about next month's period...
I had Paragard inserted 3 days ago and so far it has not been a good experience. The insertion was far more painful than I expected. When I got up from the table to leave, I broke out into a sweat, became nauseous, and almost fainted. It was really strange. Over the weekend I had the worst cramps I've ever had in my life. 800mg of Motrin barely made a difference. I continue to have bad cramps and bleeding. Is this normal? I'm considering having the device removed. Has anyone else had a similar experience?
Update: I started experiencing dizziness off and on last night and it has continued until today. I called my doc and he said this is not normal. I'm seeing him on Friday for possible removal. We shall see.
Update: It's been a week since I had the paragar inserted... so far I really like it, I dont have any cramps, just the first couple of days, I only have a lot of discharge, but that's ok, my body it's getting used to a new thing. There's two things I'm scared of: expulsion and getting pregnant and the bad cramps... but it's not time for my period yet, so I'll see if I still love it after that... (I have a feeling that I know I will)
I have had mine in for almost 3 months now and I love it. I don't love the cramping during my periods or the heavy bleeding. The pain is not unbearable but definately worse then I used to have. Also my periods are very heavy which is inconvenient but I wouldn't change it.
Insertation was very difficult for me also. Apparently because I have not had any children is was more painful.
Not having to take a pill everyday is WONDERFUL!!!!!
I jst had the Paragard IUD inserted today and it was extremely painful. after a few hours I started bleeding lightly. I had given birth thru c-section almost 8 yrs ago and been on a pill since then.. my cramping hasn't stopped and it's so painful since the Paragard was inserted... I really do hope this works since the nuva ring didn't work for me and I really wanted to stop taking hormones.. I'm kind of wondering coz my last OB put me on a 3-month-regime pills called Seasonique but the spotting and cramping was uncomfortable for the 2yrs I took it.. I was showing some signs of endometriosis and that's y I was put in under the pills where I would only have periods every 3 months... and plus I haven't had red meat in my diet for 7 yrs now.. so I wonder how bleeding heavily on a monthly basis would affect me.. problem with seasonique was I gained weight and I'm a pretty active individual.. I swim for an hour to an 1.5hr, brisk-walk for 45mins, or do some cardio class for 2 straight hours, yoga, and weights.. I alternate all those activities for 5 days a week but gained weight only during taking Seasonique.. :( reading negative experiences is making me nervous since I fall on that 1% women who are sensitive to nuva ring.. mine didn't stay in place and kept falling out.. I hope this one stays in..
has anybody experience any weight gain at all from Paragard/Copper IUD? I came across a site where women there said they gained weight as fast as within 2 wks of being on this specific IUD... I jst thought it's impossible since Paragard/Copper IUD doesn't contain any hormones.. thanks
do u guys know the expulsion rate of the Paragard/Copper IUD? I just had mine inserted a few days and scared that it will come out since the same thing happened several times from the Nuva ring.. I'm a physically active person.. I spend about 2.5 hours working out 5 days a week and paranoid that my uterus jst keeps on contracting and might end expelling the IUD.. thanks!
I had a Paragard IUD inserted today and it HURT!! But I have never had a baby and I think that contributed to the pain. I belive it was the cervical dilation that caused me the most pain. I also almost fainted, was super dizzy and almost puked once I stood up.. but that is common per my OB/GYN. I am hoping these cramps subside a little and that I am not cursed with super heavy periods with bad cramps from now on. I am approaching 34 & my OB/GYN will no longer rx me the BCP since I occasionally smoke so I am keeping my fingers crossed that this IUD works out for me!
I just got the paragard insterted in me 2 days ago.It was very difficult for the doctor to put it in because I had never had kids before.She had to try three times and on the third she squeezed through and made it in.If you distract yourself by thinking or listening to something else while the doctor is putting it in then you will only feel 1/3 of the pain.Maybe even less.After I left the hospital I felt extreamly nausous , had really bad cramps and felt like I had to use the bathroom.I ended up throwing up and in the bathroom the rest of the day.After that day everything went away and now I only feel a tiny cramp.
I had my Paragard for 8+ years. I had no change in my periods (no extra cramping or heavier bleeding). Recently began having abnormal bleeding and removal was recommended to determine if it was caused by the Paragard or some other cause. My Gyn said that after the abnormal bleeding stops (if related to paragard) I can have another one inserted (even if the Paragard was the cause since it took over 8 years for any problem), which is what I plan to do. No problems for over 8 years, no hormones, no side effects...which is better than can be expected out of the Mirena IUD. I HIGHLY recommend paragard and two of my friends got one upon my recommendation. Neither have had any problems after the initial minimal cramping and spotting for a couple of months (they had no previous children and I had, which may explain why I only had mild cramps and spotting the day of insertion). Excellent form of birth control that you don't have to worry about all time or do anything (other than check strings).
i had mine inserted in january and it has not gotten any better yet. very heavy periods that come out of nowhere. a few days light, then very heavy, then light, very annoying!! very long periods and sometimes every 2 weeks. this thing ***** so far but ive been determined to wait it out because of the money spent on putting it in. im definitely not impressed. i did have cramping after it was put in also got the almost fainting feeling. my periods are very unpredictable. have to use a new tampon every 1-2 hrs. and when you wake up you better head straight for the toilet!!! im in a fairly new relationship and this thing has been a pain in the ***. im bleeding all the time it seems. before the paragard my periods were always 4-5 days no problem at all very light and ive never had cramping. ive also noticed that my face keeps breaking out. this was never the case before paragard. i know theres no horomones but this is also something thats never been a problem until now. overall i liked the idea of no horomones and the hassle free birth control..but there is nothing hassle free about this. id rather take a pill every day. im thinking of having it removed which im sure will be so much fun. ive read tons on the mirena and that one scares the **** out of me!! had the paragard for 1/2 year lots of bleeding and pimples!!!yay!!!
Hi. i got the paragard two weeks ago. I have been battling with depression ever since...being irrational and crying a lot. Has anyone experienced this? I don't know what to do bc I know it doesn't contain hormones.....so this may not make a lot of sense? Help?
i talked to my nurse today and after having the paragard for 6 months with horrible periods that were way too long, and breaking out on my face the entire time...she said to definitely have removed. so ive decided to go back on the pill instead. also my boyfriend said he could feel it from time to time. that just seems weird to me and i'd rather not have to worry bout that anymore.
Update: I got inserted the paragard Apr 22nd, I had crapms for a couple of days.. then, I got my perdiod 43 days later, that was June 1st, and I am still on my period a week later, but... is really light, no cramps at all... I'm loving it so far... my skin is really clear now, but I'm losing hair like crazy, but it keeps growning back, I dont fight with my husband like before... i dont get mad crazy like before, and I dont cry anymore... my husband doesn't feel it, it doesnt bother me during sex... I think it's perfect.
I'm currently on Mirena and have been for 6 months now, and after gaining 15 lbs., having some cramping, random 2 day periods, and a BV (bacterial vaginosis) infection I'm done with it and will have it removed tomorrow. Comparing with what has been said here, Paragard, just sounds to me as a better option. And I also hope that since I have one child and the Mirena already, the discomfort will be less. Here is to HOPE!
i had the paragard inserted in november of last year and have really had no problems with it up until now. every now and then i would get pains in my sides when i ovulated. my periods were extremely heavy but didn't last as long as they used to. now though, with the period i started today, i'm passing some pretty heavy clots. even while sitting in the bathtub! i didn't think you could bleed while in the tub - never have before...i had to jump out of the tub - it was so gross! i love it other than that and i really don't know if the problem is from the paragard or not...it's wonderful to know that you are protected at all times and to never have to worry that you forgot to take a pill! if anyone else reading this has experienced any heavy clotting with the paragard, please let me know if it's normal!
I had the paraguard inserted June of 2008 it has now been a year that I've had it, and i have had nothing but trouble with it some symptoms that i have are: extreme cramps all month long, some so extreme i have to stop where i am and drop the the floor..i have extremely heavy periods this is gross but i have to share, my periods are so heavy that i have to use a pad from my belly button to the top of my butt..i have dizzy spells,acne on my face and back(which i have never had before), and weight gain that i have been unable to lose, i am sooo moody all the time and my husband has been poked by it a couple of times and that is embarassing, i called my doctor and he has told me that i should get it removed, I WOULD NEVER RECOMMEND THE PARAGRD TO ANYONE...anyone else have these problems
more updates....after having all the problems with the paragard...heavy periods, acne, really long periods..2 weeks sometimes with spotting. i did talk with my nurse who recommended taking it out since it had been 6 months and no change with the side effects. it s been almost 2 months now since i had it removed and everything is back to normal. thank god. i decided to go back on the pill. ortho lo i believe. it did take about a month before my periods went back to normal but not a big deal. there is nothing worse than bleeding all the time and so frequently. my recommendations to anyone who is having tha same problems and its been more than 3 months and you're still waiting for the side effects to go away...have it removed!!!! it was so easy having it removed took a few seconds one breath out and it was gone. i had a few side effects switching back to the pill like nausea, and felt a little irritable the first week but after that all is great. my skin cleard up and is getting better the more time goes on. for anyone that has not read my past comments it was the paragard i had. for anyone considering it all i can say is this is the experience i had. i would not recommend it personally. i found much better luck with the pill. there are many types of pills out there and if you find a good physician that really understands your concerns and needs there should be one that would work for you.
Hi! I had the paragard for 14 months. I loved the device except that I tend to absorb copper easily so I was having serious nausea with it after the first 6 months. I did feel very comfy using it while breast feeding for it doesn't have hormones. I would use it again for that purpose, but then go to the Mirena after breast feeding-which I really liked too.
Just out of curiosity. Everyone who had all these problems with it. Like the bad periods and bad cramping. Was this people who had or hadn't had children? Or about an even mixture of both? I got the paragard inserted yesterday. Hurt a tiny bit but nothing bad at all. Spotted for like an hour afterward with some super light cramps. Everything was fine that night and has been all day today. Hoping this is a good sign but if not oh well. I met my deductible in January when I was pregnant with my son so I didn't have to pay the 200 to 600 for it.
First, let me say, I have 1 child, who just turned 6 years old and I had her vaginally. My body does not handle hormones well AT ALL! After years of trying different birth control methods, Paradard was my last option.
I had it inserted January 26th, 2009. First of all, the insertion was very painful, followed by a week of horrible cramping.
I then got PID( pelvic inflammatory infection)
which i had to take antibiotics for.
Here is my period calendar since insertion:
1/18/09- started period
1/25- p. over
1/26- IUD insertion
1/27- started bleeding again
2/2- p. over
2/23- p over
9/15- present period
Now, doesnt that seem a little ridiculous to anyone?
But wait, it gets better. My periods were heavy and PAINFUL! I had to get 2 perscriptions for vicodin! and 1 for ultram (tramadol).
Ive taken countless ibuprophen and diuretics for pain and swelling
which you need to know, the swelling has been HORRIBLE! To the point where i have been in tears on countless occasions because of the level of discomfort and weight gain.
And on the topic of weight gain, i dont care what any doctor or ANYONE says, the Paragard DOES cause weight gain. I am a fit and active person and have maintained my weight for years.
I HAVE GAINED ALMOST 15 POUNDS! SINCE JANUARY!
Not only have i been completely uncomfortable and in horrible pain for so long, i never have sex anymore because i feel disgusting, and im always on my period!
Do your research before getting this thing! Its crazy.
Oh, and someone else had mentioned other digestive issues maybe being associated with this and i agree. my cramps were nothing like they used to be, i feel it all the way up my abdomen to my chest. anytime i have gas or a BM, it irritates my uterus.
Sometimes, the pain can be dabilitating.
My doc kept telling me "wait it out. it will get better"
Well, im done with that. I have an appointment next week to get my life back.
I had my paragard inserted about a month ago. I had just started my period (more on that later), and after insertion, it pretty much stopped. So far, I'm really liking it, above all other BC's I've tried. I was worried about my acne coming back (as I've had mild acne since I was 17), but it hasn't, though this could be due to a change in skin care routines. I haven't had any weight gain, mood swings, or loss of sex drive like I did with the Nuvaring (I HATED the NR!), in fact, my sex drive has improved immensely (isn't that why I'm on BC in the first place?).
Just a few notes, because so many people have talked about their pain upon insertion:
I don't have any kids, and yes, it hurt. But my doc did several things:
1.) She told me to take 800 mg of aleve or advil an hour prior to insertion
2.) She wouldn't insert unless I was ON my period (to make sure I wasn't pregnant, but also because your uterus and cervix are more relaxed = easier insertion
3.) She had me take iron pills for a month prior to insertion (I'm slightly anemic and they won't insert unless your RBC's are high enough, plus it helped with the heavier flow I was supposed to expect)
Like I said, I'm happy thus far with my paragard. For those of you experiencing heavy flow and tiredness, try taking an iron supplement, that might help. And now that you're not on HBC you can take St. John's Wart for mild depression (it interferes with HBC's and makes them less effective). These have worked for me, and I hope to never go back to pills or rings again!
Hello. I had paragard inserted a month ago. I have never had a child and knew to expect pain upon insertion. After that, so far, it's been pretty uncomfortable overall. There were a couple of weeks where I wasn't sucking down Ibuprofen but for the most part, I am constantly on pain medicine of some sort for the cramps. BM and gas also cause horrible cramps for some insane reason. The cramps, while I have never had a child, at times feel like it HAS to feel like it does to have a kid - It's beyond belief excruciatingly horrible. Boyfriend said he could feel the string. Not sure about weight gain because I gained like ten pounds right before I had it put in and have been running my butt off to lose it so who knows......I am almost 30 so my metabolism is slowing down anyway. Weird, irregular periods. My periods weren't terribly heavy to begin with so they are probably just a normal flow now. But they did become a bit heavier. I am going to give it another couple of months and try something else if the cramps don't subside. Sex life is pretty lame due to this.....boooooooooooooooooooo. I hope it gets better!
I had paragard inserted yesterday, and let me tell you- I have a pretty high tolerance for pain, but this was bad! I was told since I have never been pregnant that it would be more painful, but that doesn't even begin to cover the amount of pain. (The doctors made the pain sound mild) Insertion was uncomfortable, which I expected, but the cramps were so violent that they caused me to vomit. I felt pretty crappy all day. The doctor gave me 800-mg of ibuprofen, which I don't take regularly (so maybe thats why I got sick) but after I got home the cramps were getting worse, I took naproxen sodium (alieve), the cramps got better. More time in between and not as painful, but they still would take my breath away and I would have to stop what I was doing and breath. Today, I am still having very mild cramps. If I wasn't working today, I wouldn't take anything. Hopefully, I won't have anymore pain or extreme bleeding. The whole point to the IUD is greater freedom, flexibly and no hormones. Just wanted to share my experiences so others are informed before they go in.
My son was born in Nov 07 and I've had my Paragard in since Jan 08. Now I don't want to get too personal, but since I've had this IUD in I don't have an ounce of sex drive! I have constant back pain and I'm moody too.
My 'normal' periods for as long as I can remember have been everyother month for 3-5 days. Now, I can't remember the last period I had. I don't have insurance to have a dr take it out so I'm dealing with the pain.
Hope this has helped!
Engaged 3years. 2yr old son.
I've had paragard for 4 years now. For me it was the best decision ever. When I was 16 I was put on the pill to help my out of control periods. My period were very heavy, lots of cramping and all the irritability to go with it. The pill helped but I was always forgetting to take it at the right time. I then changed to the ring. Well I was always forgetting what week to take it out and put the next one in. My husband and I were not planning on having children and were shocked to find out I was pregnant and miscarrying. We decided to find a different option. I decided on Paragard. What sold me was the fact that it is a non hormonal IUD. After 10 years of hormone, i was ready to be off. The biggest thing I had to get used to was the fact that I no longer has hormones controlling my periods. My menstruation did go back to being irregular with heavy bleeding. This is how my body normally works with out hormones. I was very uncomfortable with possible effects taking hormones for the rest of my life might cause. For my Paragaurd is allowing my body work without artificial hormones. I now control my PMS with Magnesium and Vitex. I love that I don't have to worry about an unplanned pregnancy for the next 6 years that I have left until I will get this paragard replaced.
I just got my Paragard put in today. All in all it was a really positive experience. Hurt like hell when she was opening my cervix a bit, but I started doing breathing like from when I was in labor and they really helped. Whole thing took 5 mins. 8 hours from procedure I feel great. No spotting, no cramping, and no more hormones!!!! I hated doing that to my body everyday with the pill. I feel so dang free right now!
Oh and to the ladies who commented about their men feeling the strings, tell them "tough s&*t!" If they don't like it they should wear a condom. Women seem to have to suffer all the birth control side effects, responsibility in taking birth control and pretty much have to take care of babies %90 of the time. If my partner complains that he can feel the strings, I'll tell him those strings are playing a tiny sympathy tune for his penis. lol
I had the paraguard installed 3 days ago. Let me tell you; I have never experienced pain like this before! I can't being to tell you how PAINFUL it was besides telling you I hyperventilated and fainted on the damn table. 12 hrs later I went to the ER screaming in agony. The OB/GYN never explained the degree of discomfort (too small a word for it) I would experience. I was told it would hurt more because I have never had children but HOLY HELL! Never in my life did I expect the human body could experience that amount of pain without dying!!!!! Thank the Lord I was told to have the paraguard installed while on my cycle or else, my OB said it would've hurt more!!! WTF?!?!?!?!?
Anyway, day 3 (today), I am feeling world's better! Still spotting, yes, but what concerned me was the discharge... I hope not to be too graphic but wow!!!! I usually do have d/c anyway, but nothing like this! I hope this goes away, just like the pain did.
After reading everyone's entries, I have decided to keep a diary of my day to day progress tapering off to month to month. I figure the paraguard is approx. $450 and pills are $25 from Planned Parenthood. So the paraguard pays for itself in 18 months. If I don't like it, I will remove it, but I have to give it a chance. If not, the pain I endured would not be worth the hassle.
I don't have heavy cycles (lasts usually 4 days) and never experience cramps (maybe once a year). I am PRAYING that the paraguard is the answer to birth control for me.
B/C makes me nutso and I get so depressed with pills and the ring. I have tried everything under the sun for b/c and I hope paraguard is the light at the end of the tunnel.
thank you everyone for your responses!
I will check back in to give more news as it is available.
Good luck to you all!
I just got Paragard inserted today. I felt a slight discomfort during the insertion (the discomfort lasted about 2 seconds, the whole insertion process took about 4 minutes). I have had some REALLY MILD intermittent cramps here and there today, but nothing to trouble me. It was a breeze. But maybe that's just compared to previous attempt (see below).
I chose Paragard because the "no hormone" approach appealed to me... and because I'm terrible about taking pills on time. My previous forms of birth control included Ortho Tricyclen, Ortho Lo and Ortho Evra. Most recently, I was on Depo Provera for two years (FYI: Depo isn't the monster that people make it out to be. It's a good option for some people so don't be afraid to look into it).
The doctor I went to prefers to do the insertion on a patient who is on her period. But since I have been on Depo Provera I haven't had a period in about 22 months! Because I had previously had a vaginal delivery (my daughter is 16 years old now) the doc decided to give insertion a try without my period (this was last month). OMFG... OUCH! And I mean: OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It hurt so bad I broke out in a cold sweat, my vision went fuzzy and was very, very afraid I might lose bowel control on the exam table (sorry to be gross, but that's how it was). He could not force it through, and he gave it a MIGHTY try! He even tried giving me shots of lidocaine or something directly into my cervix (needle stab + cervix = no fun) but it just wouldn't work.
So he put me on Loestrin FE for a month to trigger a period. He told me to stop taking it last Friday and scheduled me to come in to see him this morning. I was concerned when I went in this morning because my period had NOT actually started and I didn't want to repeat the last failed attempt. He looked a little grim when I told him my period hadn't started and immediately sent the nurse for lidocaine before he even peeked under the sheet.
But it worked!!! It was really easy. In fact, he said he saw some spots of blood at/near my cervix and could tell that I was just about to start. Talk about great timing! My doc is a genius!!! I did feel some discomfort. It wasn't exactly a pain sensation... just like I was being touched on surfaces that aren't used to being touched. And that moment of discomfort was over before I finished saying "Oh!"
I had my paraguard inserted in oct of 09 and let me tell you what. I have never in my life been in so much pain as I was during the insertion and afterwards when I get my cramps for my period. My cramps are so bad that I literally cannot move. I was walking in the grocery store the other day and suddenly I got a cramp and I thought I was going to pass out. It was terrible. I started doing some more extensive research on the side effects and I found this website. For me HBC is not an option any longer. My body just cannot handle the additional hormones, so it was either this or condoms. I am going to wait for a year and see if my side effects lessen but if they do not I will be removing it.
I had the IUD inserted about a week ago and yes, it hurt like Hell! I was very concerned about my experiences afterwards until I read all of your posts and you have had the same experience as me. I too almost fainted, was dizzy, threw up, pooped, sweated profusely, my blood pressure dropped, and had bad cramping afterwards. I had to stay at the doctors for 2 hours afterwards to make sure I was well enough to drive. Insertion is NO JOKE!
Afterwards, I bleed for 5 days strait, some light, some heavy and am now spotting lightly. I was also concerned because of the blood clots (some brown and some red) and the extreme mucus-like discharge. Some of you have also experienced this. I am hoping this goes away because I won't let my boyfriend get intimate with me right now due to this gross side effect! I haven't had my period yet, so I'm not sure how that will go down. I am hoping for the best!
My friend who had it put in said her symptoms went away after a couple of months. I'm hoping that mine will too. I'm going to give it 6 months to clear up and if not, it's coming out!
Well, it's been ten days. My period started later that same day, as the doc predicted, and lasted for five days. It wasn't especially heavy and I had no cramping at all. I do have some light spotting yesterday and today, but nothing gross or weird.
i had the paragard in 2months ago no problems just a few days of bleeding afterwards. i'm a nursing mother so im wondering if that has anything to do with my not experiencing and side effects. ALSO during intercourse my husband is gertting really annoyed because he can feel it poking him he sAYS. anyone with me on this ?????? maybe its not in all the way???
Did anyone get an ultrasound to confirm placement of their IUD?
Has anyone been told their uterus is enlarged???
I have had such heavy bleeding that I requested an ultrasound, and even though the IUD is in place, the ultrasound showed my uterus is enlarged.
Has anyone had anything like this?
I've been gaining weight and I look pregnant.
I swear I can feel the top of my uterus, just like when I was pregnant.
Anyone have anything like this?
To sum up my story:
If the paragard didn't work so well for birth control, I'd get this thing yanked today.
I absolutely HATE my periods
I've had paragard for 9months.
I had 2 kids prior to getting paragard.
The insertion was somewhat painful (the tenaculum instrument hurt a lot but just for a second) and then the cramping when the IUD was inserted.
My bleeding has been incredibly heavy since then, periods lasting 10 days with very unpredictable flow, sometimes it will almost stop and then start gushing an hour later, I go through easily 20-30 super duper absorbent tampons during a period, plus another 20 of the regular type. And I still bleed through.
I feel like I'm hemorrhaging.
I have bled all over car seats, and even worse...MY SEAT AT WORK...very embarrasing!
(sorry if that's too much info)
By the way, yes I've heard of the strings poking the guy.
Generally I think it's related to the length of the string, I've heard it said that if they're too short this can happen, but perhaps this could happen if they're too long?
I would definitely mention this to your doctor.
Well, it's been 10 days of continuous bleeding since I got the Paraguard! Since the most frequent time for it to come out is during the first month, I've been checking daily to make sure it's still in place and have encountered a hard lump on one side of my cervix, almost like it's slipping down and poking it from the inside. I'm due to go back in a month and if I have my period or some sort of bleeding until then, then I'm yanking it out! The hassle of this much maintenance isn't worth the connivence and non-hormone option the Paraguard provides. Give me the pill over this any day! I'll take the hormones!
I had my paragard for 3 years. Throughout the three years I experienced heavier periods that lasted for 4 days and headaches during my period. At one point I noticed my hair was thinning durning the first year of insertion, but I couldn't find much information on these types of side effects so I thought it was caused from something else. I have also gained 30 pounds the first two years. During the last month I experienced sharp pains in my uterus and I had to be rushed to the ER. They found a large cyst on my ovaries that had blood in it. The ER doctor wanted to remove my IUD, but my doctor did not want it removed. I'm still confused as to why the doctors thought differently about the IUD causing the pain that I experienced. Anyhow, I requested to have the IUD removed and now I have been bleeding for 10 days. I'm also on the BC pill. Is this normal? I just want to be back to normal.
I had my Paragard put in yesterday and I should have took a couple days off! I've never had a child so the procedure was a little more painful then expected since they had to dilate my opening to get it in. The cramping was unbearable, I cried under my covers for two hours afterward despite having 800mg of Advil. The cramping on day two isn't as intense but still really uncomfortable and it is like my worst period x5. The bleeding is heavy (I wasn't bleeding when I went in) and the cramps are constant. I'm bloated more than ever in my life and I think I see why people might gain weight on this, because I am the type to eat when I'm upset and this is like a really bad period.
I just had a Paragard inserted yesterday, and it was extremely painful, but sence i have been hearing that the vagina is only 3-4 inches long i have been scared to have intercourse. My significant other Has a 8 inch penis, and im scarred he may some how reach the IUD and cause me to get internal damage. could someone please get back with me. thanks email: anti_drug147***@****
It will be 1 yr next month that I've had the paragard. Insertion was quite painful and my cramps hurted like hell in the beginning. It was wierd becuz I have always got cramps from my lower back until I got the paragard and started cramping from my lower abdominal but everything went back to normal within the first 2 weeks. About 3 months ago I started to have heavy discharge like mucus (Sorry) and still going through it. I wanted to mention this since someone had said the same thing from an older post and so other women can be aware of this side effect. Other than that that's the only side effect that I'm having and everything is still normal, no weight gain, no acne, etc. Oh and my husband doesn't feel anything..... so far.
I had my Paragard inserted almost a week ago. It was NOT bad at all!!!!, the insertion part. Took only 2-5 minutes. The bad came later. The cramps were pretty bad. I had to lay down. I tried to manage the pain with pain killers, but cramps were still getting through. It was still bad the second day. Now the crams are almost all gone. But now I also have bleeding/period which is not due for another 2 weeks. Moderate/Heavy/Some clots right now. I had my Paragard put in while NOT on my period. If you can WAIT until your period - please do. I really think it will be worth it for the body. Otherwise you are inducing your period early. ( I din not know that before )
Also best if you had a baby (vaginally) so you know what to expect from your cramps. I had mine 2 yrs. ago. I'm 30 now.
Can't do hormones - weight gain plus worsen migraines. I would not even think Mirena after all the research. Plus those migraine pains REALLY outdo my current cramps, even on Paragard. Plus the copper has been around for longer then hormonal IUD. I hope I'll be leaving the "satisfactory" follow up in a few months.
I am in school for Nursing, and so far my (PERSONAL) opinion from everything I've learned is to STAY AWAY from hormones, unless there is a real need for it because of medical reason. I would not mess with it.
I had the Paragard inserted 2 years ago...since then life has been hell. I can not take hormones due to other health reasons...so I am left with this IUD as my last resort. For two years I have passed clots the size of bowling balls (gross, I know..)...and swelled up like a fat kid randomly throughout the month. I think after reading all of your comments I will be removing this thing sooner than I had planned. I am tired of being in pain and I want to fit into my goddamn jeans again. Back to the smelly old fashioned condoms...thank god for them. Oh yeah...my boyfriend totally feels the string...but to me that is the least of my problems. Isn't there anything besides a vasactomy the guys can get??? I think it's the least they can do since we have to endure periods and child birth. I hate being a woman...
I too need hormone free because I'm prone to having yeast infections from all other oral birth controls.
I've had the paragard since July '09 and have experienced nothing but yuck since I had it inserted. First was the pain everyone else talks about after insertion. Then, no joke, a month later I have a cyst on my right ovary. Worst pain I've ever had (and I've had 2 kids naturally). My cycles have been about every 28 days, but they last for 7 or 8 days with heavy flow (using Ultra tampons and pads!). The worst problem is the excessive yellowish discharge (I know -- grose -- sorry). My skin is so sensitive from all the moisture I have no desire to be intimate with my husband. My skin on my face has also started breaking out and I've had to go on Proactive to try and clear it up. I've had the weight gain, but only 8 lbs so far. I have my yearly next month -- I'm certain I'll have it taken out then.
Wouldn't recommend this form of BC. Hormone free is great -- but all of the above isn't worth it. I'll go back to condoms until husband gets a vasectomy (sp?).
Hello, I suffer from PMDD. I have severe headaches,fatigue, breast tenderness, cramps so bad that even with 800mg motrin I still cant move around, severe mood swings, ect. I went to planned paranthood and they recommended the paragard because I have anxiety and panic disorder and Im not good with pills/hormones in my system. After reading all these posts about worst cramps and heavier flows then normal....Im terified. I've never had a child before and I have a pretty small figure. I have an appt to get a paragard inserted but Im honestly thinking about cancelling. What do you recommend?
Hi Ziaon, I would avoid Paragard if I were you. I started experiencing the symptoms you describe AFTER having my Paragard fitted. I never had them before. They were utterly debilitating & not only that, but I have had infection after infection. In my experience doctors brush off these concerns as 'not a known side effect' - I've had this experience with the pill, Mirena and Paragard. Well you only have to read the testimonies of hundreds if not thousands of women out there to know that doctors are not always right. I don't like hormonal contraception either, which is why I had the Paragard fitted. Have just had it taken out today and I hope the infections, pain, soreness and weight gain will be relieved! I am going back to the diaphragm and would suggest you look at this option too if you can.
Hi zianon, I just wanted to let you know that although a lot of people have had scary experiences with the Paragard, mine was/is amazing and I am so so glad I had it inserted.
For about a month before I was scheduled to get a Paragard, I was frantically researching to make sure it was the right choice for me. Everyone on the message boards i checked said it was a terrible idea, but I wanted a nonhormonal, easy to remember form of birth control that wouldn't give me the stress and anxiety I experienced with just condoms.
The insertion was very painful. I can't deny that, but it was definitely not as painful as I expected it to be, and only took about 10-15 minutes. They'll give you some ibuprofen. I felt mildly uncomfortable for the rest of the day.
The next day, I had severe cramps and spotting. I thought I was going to die and was cursing myself for not listening to all those oh-so-helpful complaints about the paragard I had read online. All the excedrin I took didn't help. I called my doctor, and at her suggestion, switched to motrin.
The pain was much better at this point, mild if anything. The spotting continued for about a week and then that too went away. The next month, I started cramping and spotting a few days before I expected my period. I started taking motrin again (which totally got rid of the pain) and three days later the spotting was gone. I kept waiting for my period to start but it didn't. It turned out that those three days of spotting was actually my period. !!!
Before the Paragard, I had moderate to severe cramps and a relatively heavy, irregular period. Now, I have mild to moderate cramps and a really light, somewhat regular period.
I have a theory that only the people who ended up unhappy with their results when online to complain about it. Get the Paragard, it's one of the best decisions I've ever made.
I just had mine Paragard inserted yesterday. My doctor recommended to go while on my period, so I was still spotting. I was definitely NOT prepared for the pain. I felt like a pinch on the cervix and then really really bad cramps while it was being inserted. I dont have children, so I can only imagine what giving birth is like after this...and all i can say is: DRUGS! lol. However, the procedure took less than a minute so pretty quick.
Afterwards I experienced some bad symptoms. I was cold yet sweating, terrible cramps and even salivating like i would vomit. I also felt like i would pass out.
I went home, popped in Advils and relaxed on the sofa with a heat pad. By evening I was a lot better and today I am feeling an occasional very very mild cramp. I am optimistic that I won't experience the weight gain and other symptoms mentioned above.
I was on bc pills for 12 years and I was ready to get rid of the extra hormones. So far, despite the pain during procedure, the IUD is totally worth it. I am very interested to finally see what my 'natural body' does.
Hazel79- my story is very similar to yours...awful having to go back to using condoms but I could not stand having Paraguard anymore. I had my IUD removed last week after having it for almost 1 year. My gyn said he removes only one in every 15 he inserts.
My periods were long and extremely heavy... discharge throughout the month...sensation of having a yeast infection..l seriously felt too aware of my vagina all of the time!!
I have 3 children and I've been on the pill, had the patch and have had side effects as well.
I had my paragard put in last October (2009) - Shortly thereafter I began to have an acute pain in my lower left abdomen. I thought it might be appendicitis. I went to ER and they took a bunch of tests. Confirmed it was not that or tubal pregnancy. They said it was a ruptured cyst on my cervix and that the pain would go away in a few days. A week later I was back at ER. The pain had gotten worse and was also in my right hip joint and pelvic bone. The lovely folks at ER said they had no idea, go see a an OBGYN. Without health insurance this proved to be a nightmare. I went to planned parenthood. They had no idea either, but assured me it could absolutely not be the IUD. The pain persisted. It came in waves really. A stabbing pain that would last for 20 minutes to a couple of hours. I finally found an OBGYN who would see me for under $800 (barely). She did an ultrasound, checked the placement of my strings and said the same thing everyone else did: "No idea. Good Luck. It's not the IUD."
The pain now has become so bad that it's completely debilitating. I have an abnormally high threshold for pain (being accident prone and uninsured my entire life), but this is worse than any broken bones, cut tendons, slipped discs I've ever experienced.
And then I got constipated for five days (never been constipated a day in my life) and the pain, if it's possible has gotten worse. I went back to ER (no choice in the matter). Aside from the doctor being a complete prig, he didn't want to know anything about my pain or the IUD.
However, I received two calls yesterday. One from an OBGYN in California and a doctor in Texas. Both said to get off the Paragard immediately. Apparently, on websites we the patients are not privy to, all of my symptoms are listed. As well as most of the symptoms listed on this site: Weight gain, pelvic, stomach and back pain. heavy bleeding, crazy irregular cycles, increased menstrual cramps. Occasional cases of Pelvic inflammatory disease.
If the Paragard works for you, then great. I really wished it worked for me (I'm hoping that as soon as I have it removed the pain will finally stop). Many women are like me, in that we have adverse reactions to the pill, the condom stinks (and seems awfully impersonal when you're married) and all other forms of birth control are hazardous because of our age or because we smoke. The IUD seemed the cure. Perhaps it's not.
A little history, I was on the pill for over 15 years, had my babies and was looking for someone nonhormonal since I am over 35 and have a history of breast cancer. I had my paragard inserted last month during my period. This is the first real period on and it has been pretty bad. My bleeding has been very heavy. Soaking through a super bad about once a hour to two hours. I have two small children I can not spend the day in the bathroom changing pads. This is way gross - but I can sit on the toilet and fill it up with blood and large clots. I have had two children and did not pass clots like this. I bleed constantly and can feel gushes of blood when I move. I love the idea of no hormones but I am sitting a timeline of 3 months and if things do not get better it is getting taken out and I will go back to the pill.
I had the paragard inserted about 4 months ago. It was the most painful thing i have ever experienced. It felt like my organs were put through a meat grinder. I thought for sure they punctured my uterus or something. I cried for hours after due to the pain and the traumatizing procedure. I was soo terrified to ever get it removed because insertion was so painful. I bled severely for about a week, passing large clots and in horrible pain. Even when I'm not on my period, i had horrible cramps. The bleeding when i was on my period was so heavy, i would go through a super plus tampon every 15 min. The severe blood loss made me very weak and tired, not to mention the cramps. After two months, i could no longer wear tampons because it hurt so bad to remove them, it felt like it was pulling directly on my uterus. I had to use huge pads which i've never used in my life. I started to realize after 3 months that i was taking painkillers, muscle relaxers, and using ice packs/heat pads non stop. I began to think, wow this is all for birth control? I'd rather not have sex ever, than to go through this! I was taking 2400 mg of ibuprofen a day, just to take the edge off, i had 2 week long periods not to mention pain all month long. I went in to have it removed and they basically refused and wanted me to try it for a few more months. They gave me birth control pills to take everyday. I started thinking, this is crazy, i got on this to have no hormones and now i'm taking two forms of birth control to make one work? Needless to say, it got so much worse, i almost went into the ER twice, i couldnt eat, sleep, or breath due to the pain. I finally went back and basically forced them to take it out yesterday, i thought for sure they would find that they had punctured my uterus because, surely all this pain couldnt be just from the paragard, but it was! the removal was easy and the thing came right out! I guess some women just really cant handle it, their body will just keep rejecting it and going through hell until its out. I finally feel like myself again, and no pain!! I'm sorry but severe bleeding, excruciating pain, pain killers round the clock, 2 week periods without being able to use tampons, NOT WORTH IT!!!!!
I am 23 years old, never been pregnant or given birth. I have been on HBC, including low hormone, and all different combinations of HBC to reduce my crazy moods and erratic behaviors. I am now in a stable, long-term relationship and decided to consider a long-lasting, low (or no) hormone BC.
Last month, I went in for my ParaGard fitting (while near the end of my period, so I was not as dilated nor "lubricated") and was mortified by the amount of pain. No doctor, nurse practitioner, or medical assistant told me what kind of pain to expect. They tell you that you will experience "slight discomfort and cramping," but this felt like someone was doing an Irish jig on my uterus, while using my cervix to support themselves. I was blown away by the pain. My NP inserted the tenaculum to steady my cervix and tried for approximately 7-10 minutes to sound (measure) my uterus, which she was unable to do because my cervix was too small. She gave me an RX for Cytotech (used to prep for abortions as well) to dilate my cervix and told me to try again, perhaps when my period was heavier the following month.
Today: In preparation for my second-time scheduled IUC insertion, I took the Cytotech at 1AM (I was told to take 8-12 hrs before my appointment) and went in at 9AM for my IUC procedure (Note: I did experience slight nausea at 4AM after taking the Cytotech, which is a side effect).
I've been on my period for approximately 3 days, so my flow was slightly heavier compared to the first time. She proceeded as usual and slipped it right in. The tenaculum definitely pinched again, but I knew what to expect this time and was unphased by it. It's now 2PM and I am at work, sitting pretty. I bought Ibuprofin to help me throughout the day, but so far, I haven't had the need for it. I am absolutely thrilled that my body accepted the procedure and I will keep the forum updated on any changes/ complaints/ praises to my IUC.
I am a 26 year old mom of 2. I have had my Paragard since Sept. 09. At first I was excited to have a think free, hormone free, 10 year birth control. I read the little pamphlets....there wasn't any thing that would have changed my mind! I am allergic to latex and have never found a pill that could even me out. All natural is for me, no cramping, pimples or PMS, my periods are regular and last 4-5 days. Since haveing my IUD I have had a nasty vaginal discharge DAILY and the HEAVIEST periods of my life. Days before my period starts, I get horrible cramps and pain on my left side and my discharge gets thicker (EWeee). I have more pimples now than I did as a teenager. I have been to the Doctor and "everything looks fine." I researched side effects, and Paragard says nothing about my problems. Then I found this site, and EVERYONE has my problems. Time to remove the IUD and talk my Man into a visectomy. It's the least he could after I pushed out two of his babies.
I thought Paraguard was going to be amazing, I had it inserted Nov/09 and naively thought there would be little to no side effects since there were no hormones. Here's what I have experienced:
Horrible cramps (they rival labor contractions, seriously active labor!)
Heavy and long periods (they last 10 days and the bleeding is crazy, I used to have light 3-4 day periods)
Severe heartburn (only had this during pregnancy)
Nausea and vomiting, chills (at first I thought I had the flu but it happens one night for the last three months on my period)
Gas (I had to buy Gas-X for the first time in my life)
Breakouts (my skin is normally clear)
Bloating pre-period (I go from a size 4 to a whale)
Depression (I swear it's related, it's been since insertion)
No sex drive (for all this I don't even feel like having sex, I feel like there is something wrong with me!!)
I'm on day 10 of my current period, I keep thinking it's over and it starts up again. Last night I was throwing up every hour or so and today I am still feeling nauseous. I came across this site and am amazed by how many of you have similar experiences, I wish I had done my research more thoroughly before I put this in my body. I really feel it has ruined my life, I'm going to get this taken out ASAP!!
I had the procedure done in the gynecologists office. The insertion process was painful, but it was over in about 15 minutes. I was told by my gyn that it was exceptionally painful for me because I never had children. I did have a vasovagal episode, which is never pleasant, but after almost passing out, I left the office with no residual pain.
My periods are noticeably heavier and crampier, but that's the only side effect that I've experienced with the Paragard IUD.
I absolutely LOVE IT!!! I don't have to worry about birth control for 10 years. Paragard was covered 100% by my insurance, so as far as the expense, that's another positive.
I highly recommend it as a worry-free, HORMONE-free, reversible form of birth control. For a little bit of pain in the beginning, it's worth it.
I had my paragard put in in September of 09. It's been almost 6 months and the cramps are bad about 50-70% of the month, the period is 10-14 days of the month - it's ridiculous. I am taking it out in the next month or two and will be thrilled to go back to 3-4 day periods with ZERO cramps. Boyfriend will be happy too - this POS bc has put incredible strain on our relationship. None of it was worth the trouble and most importantly, the stress.
i just had the paragard inserted yesterday and i have had two kids and i just want it does not matter if you have had kids or not because it hurt so bad and i have had two kids, and the cramps are so bad, and its like i can feel it when i walk and i love to work out but cant because of the cramps, i am going to try it out for a month and if the cramps continue i am going to get it removed
I just got a Paragard inserted 4 days ago. I had been using Nuva Ring for 2 years, which made my period very light but a week long, and wanted to quite hormones. Getting it in was a bit more intense than I thought (though the nurse I talked to a week before did warn me it's no picnic). Be sure to eat something before, and plan to be in bed most of the day. I removed my Nuva Ring the day before so I would just be staring my period the day before, which I think has helped-if I'm bleeding anyways, what's a little more. 1st day was very painful, 2nd not so bad, and now I do still think I can feel "something" inside me, but the sensation is lessening every day. More cramps than usual, but bleeding has been incredibly normal for me. I think I found a great ally in a homeopathic from Boirin-Whole Foods and health food stores sell their products in small blue vials-called Sabina 6C. Started taking the reccomended dose the day before my appointment and since I've had it inserted, and I swear, I thought I would be just a leaky faucet but I have not at all. I'm sure the BC hormones I still have in my body have helped lessen the flow, but I am definitely going to try the Sabina on my next period, when I'm sure my BC hormones will be gone, to see if I get the same results. Oh, I'm 30 and have no children. Hope this helps!
I had my 3rd and final child in July/2009 with the decision to use Paraguard as my route of birth control vs getting my tubes tied. The perminancy of terminating the ability to have anymore children would be hard for me to accept in the case I change my mind in the future. I am also sensitive to hormonal birth controls which is why I chose this option.
So far, my body has not felt the same which I thought would've been expected in the beginning while my body was to adjust to this foriegn object. But it never changes. The mentsrual cycle is much heavier. For me it starts out light.. gets really heavy.. and gets light again. The insertion was not very painful for me as I had read up on taking some IB Profin of some sort prior to having it done. Light spotting directly after with slight cramping was normal.
Now that I've had it for about 5 months, it was claimed that the first 3 months would be really a heavy cycle.. and yes.. it was. But even now like I said, it still does get heavy. Other side effects that I've experienced is uterine pain/cramping associated with gas and/or BM preparation. Large amounts of vaginal discharge (clear) prior to and after mentrual cycle. Mostly around ovulation. Your partner is likely to feel the strings. I recommend not getting them cut too short as it may continue that way (slight sharp pinch) for him during intercourse. When PG is inserted, the strings are still new so may be hard but softens as time goes on and go from facing downward to wrapping up around the side of your uterus. Again, why you shouldn't cut them so your partner will no longer feel them as much.
Sex drive can come and go with natural hormones as Paraguard doesn't have any to alter that but intercourse may not be as satisfying as the uterus is now tied closed and gives you the inability to have as much penetration to the back inner wall. Everyone is different per satisfaction though. Random stomach bloating comes and goes as well which to me is odd b/c I question if I am gaining weight or my body is just acting wierd again to the monthly changes. OB/GYN yearly visit justified that all is normal for the paraguard and it would be the new bodily changes to adjust to. I would love to have my body back, but it seems as though this is the best route for me right now. Best of luck to all Paraguard users. I hope my input was of help to some of you!!
I had my ParaGard inserted 1/29/2010 and have experienced virtually nothing severe. I am MORE than happy with my decision and though some users have experienced severe changes, my PG has been excellent.
Some minor things were:
The night of insertion, I experienced VERY light discomfort (perhaps only noticeable because my NP told me I would be writhing in pain) but it was hardly anything. I have noticed sporadic bleeding, but it's SO light that it's only noticeable when I use the restroom. It never gets on my pants, etc. I do have some weird sensations in my lower belly, but it never lasts more than several seconds. It only catches me off-guard.
I've yet to have a period with this thing (Lord, help me) and am afraid after reading the reviews. I should be having it soon and will keep posted on the details.
As for now, I have ZERO REGRET and would recommend this to anyone. Even if you exhibit severe symptoms as many women have, you can take it out! PG is NOT permanent so if you hate it, then take it out and stop complaining.
I've had Paraguard in for 7 months going on 8. When I had mine inserted I had really bad cramping, I felt nauseous, and dizzy. I have a 10+ day monthly period. I get really moody and depressed. VERY heavy flow. Mucus every other day. Heavy cramping and headaches. (They feel like contractions) My friends say I act really weird right before my period. Is anyone else experiencing these mood swings? I didn't think they were possible because the Paraguard IUD has NO hormones.
paragard fell out yesterday while taking a shower. I have had it for almost 2 years and I've experienced heavy cramping and bleeding during my cycle. As a matter of fact I was cramping on my cycle in the shower yesterday when I experienced a sharp pain. I thought I was passing a blood clot (which I've experienced a lot since having this device) I noticed it was my paragard! All covered with old blood. Not to gross anyone out but the device was completely covered with thick, heavy old blood- So much so that it had become rubbery. I'm never getting it inserted again; just to think of that old blood sitting inside me for months on end.
Help! So I got the Paragard inserted about a month and a half ago. Horrible pain for several days, very expensive also. Then I went back and had her cut the strings because they were really long. Everything was fine and while we were having sex my boyfriend freaked out said it was super painful.
I went in today and my nurse told me what happened is that she had cut them a little too short and now they won't wrap around the cervix. She said if she cuts them any further they will basically always poke him. After talking to her we decided to wait another month to see if the strings soften up more. But seriously, is this always going to be an issue? I don't want to hurt my boyfriend.
Isn't there any medical liability that says if they screw it up they have to insert a new one? I have gone through a lot of pain and will be paying a lot of money as my insurance didn't cover anything. I'm so frustrated.
I had to have my Paragard taken out because I had it for 10 years, and that's its expiration time. Periods did get heavy immediately after insertion with slight increased cramps. I loved it, though, because I suck at taking pills on a consistent basis. Also didn't want synthetic hormones. During the last few years of having it, I did gain significant weight, but I'm also getting older, so I'm not sure if it's just my body slowing down or a response to the IUD. Guess we'll see what happens over the next month or so now that it's out.
I went to get another one inserted, I loved not thinking about BC so much, but couldn't have it placed in office because of tilt of uterus. Am thinking about Mirena placed in operating room, but have checked out posts and side effects on that and am re-evaluating it.
I had paragard for 10 years. It was removed in Jan 2009 and replace with Mirena. What a mistake!!! Insertion was only midly uncomfortable, but I've had 2 babies. I never had any side effects from the Paragard. I even lost weight! This Mirena has caused weight gain, terrible acne, heart palpitations and decreased sex drive. I hate it! Have an appt next week to go back to Paragard. BTW, I never experienced heavier or longer periods. The first month or so after insertion was a bit heavier and then returned to normal for the next 10 years.
I've had paragard in for about 11 months now n i knew as soon as they put it in that is was going to be hell so after the first month of pain and bleeding i begged my doctor to please take it out and she said they couldnt take it out that soon it would cause more pain,so 11months later and i've literally been bleeding since i got it put it,i might stop for a night then next morning it starts again,i have never had a problem with my periods or anything until i got this horrible thing put in me,also i get sharp pains that go all the way down my leg its the worst thing i ever did oh and as if its not bad enough i now have anemia,due to the loss of blood for 11months and recently was in the hospital with a rapid heartbeat (i forgot to mention im only 23,so shouldnt have any of these problems) which drs are sure its due to bleeding for 11months from this thing,i wouldnt tell anyone to get this i research every birth control before deciding on this one, i was fooled!!!
Don't you all realize your heavy periods are actually miscarriages? Yes, iud's cause you to miscarry early on, you get pregnant and
';. then it automatically aborts the embryo.by not allowing it to adhere to the uterine lining good enough.
I had a baby 8/25/09 and got ParaGard inserted on 11/13/09, so I've had it about 4 months now. It didn't hurt me too terribly after having it put in but my periods are so strange, light sometimes, real heavy sometimes, spotting here and there. I have had headaches but the worst is the weight gain. I had lost over 20 pounds after the baby and before the ParaGard, well I've gained it all back plus more. My friend said to really try to get the weight off and see if I can before getting it removed. The thing is that maybe I haven't been really trying hard to get the weight off but I haven't changed anything to make me gain weight like this. I don't eat more than I used to and I am running around more than I used to and lifting a 20 lb. baby all the time and my arms are almost twice the size they were a few months ago, they are so fat and gross like never before, it HAS to be the ParaGard. I have an appointment to get it taken out later this month and I can't wait! They say it has no hormones so how does it make you gain the weight? I also have pimples which I've never had many in my whole life, I even had some grow in my scalp, disgusting! I have the discharge and have to wear pantiliners daily. I have no sex drive (have always had a good drive even after my other child) and I have horrible mood swings and tantrums, I even hit my husband?! That is not me at all. I have not been this miserable in a long time. I hate everything and this should be a happy time in my life with a new husband and baby. I don't know what we will do for birth control because I can't take the pill but there's got to be something other than this. ParaGard is ruining my life!!!
Hi my name is patricia and I've been on da
paragard for 7 months and I'm planning on getting it removed, I have da same problem myself I constantly have to wipe myself and its so annoying I hate it especially da heavy period, and very uncomfortable having intercourse I. Hate it so I'm taking out next week, but really I have da same problem as u and I'm soo gonna get this crap out
Hi, I've had paragard for 2 1/2 years. Had my daughter 08/10/07 and had the paragard inserted in September of 07. My periods have never been regular and I tracked my cycle extensively in order to get pregnant (took 8 months). I've also always been a heavy bleeder and "cramper" so maybe I'm just used to it. The first 6 months to 9 months on it is the hardest. I had the strangest experience 4 months in that I've never heard of anyone having. My period was really strong and I started passing blood clots, and I felt really uncomfortable like I had a tampon misplaced. I don't wear tampons so this is impossible. I went home and felt it and my cervix was being pushed halfway down into my vagina. I even had my fiance check it because he would often check my cervix for me at the end of my pregnancy so he knew more what it was supposed to feel like. About half an hour later I ended up passing a really large blood clot and went to the hospital. By the time I got there everything was back where it was supposed to be and I had an ultrasound and it showed no pregnancy. From that time I've still had heavy periods and heavy cramping, and extremely large blood clots at times. It seems like in the last 9 months this has gotten much better. My periods last about 7-9 days, heavy flow for 4 days. I can say that now I definately know when I'm ovulating (if I do, most of the time no) and my periods are still very far apart (35days) but are extremely regular. Overall if you can handle the hard changes in the beginning and don't do well with hormones I would recommend it. My body is horrible on hormones, before my daughter I was on the shot and gained 70LBS! Also don't listen to the person named sunfire above me, the paragaurd does not cause miscarriages. The copper kills sperm, also if a eggs happens to be fertilized it never has the chance to implant in your uterus. If it does implant it's usually in a place unsafe for a baby to grow anyways and would have miscarried. If an egg never implants it never has a chance to multiply it's cells more than a couple of times which means it would be almost the same size as a normal egg passed during periods. Just like people who can't have children not because they don't have eggs, but because there body doesn't accept pregnancy. This is pretty much what the IUD does is make the uterus unsuitable for pregnancy. Sorry for the long post.
Hi, I've had paragard for 2 1/2 years. Had my daughter 08/10/07 and had the paragard inserted in September of 07. My periods have never been regular and I tracked my cycle extensively in order to get pregnant (took 8 months). I've also always been a heavy bleeder and "cramper" so maybe I'm just used to it. The first 6 months to 9 months on it is the hardest. I had the strangest experience 4 months in that I've never heard of anyone having. My period was really strong and I started passing blood clots, and I felt really uncomfortable like I had a tampon misplaced. I don't wear tampons so this is impossible. I went home and felt it and my cervix was being pushed halfway down into my vagina. I even had my fiance check it because he would often check my cervix for me at the end of my pregnancy so he knew more what it was supposed to feel like. About half an hour later I ended up passing a really large blood clot and went to the hospital. By the time I got there everything was back where it was supposed to be and I had an ultrasound and it showed no pregnancy. From that time I've still had heavy periods and heavy cramping, and extremely large blood clots at times. It seems like in the last 9 months this has gotten much better. My periods last about 7-9 days, heavy flow for 4 days. I can say that now I definately know when I'm ovulating (if I do, most of the time no) and my periods are still very far apart (35days) but are extremely regular. Overall if you can handle the hard changes in the beginning and don't do well with hormones I would recommend it. My body is horrible on hormones, before my daughter I was on the shot and gained 70LBS! Also don't listen to the person named sunfire above me, the paragaurd does not cause miscarriages. The copper kills sperm, also if a eggs happens to be fertilized it never has the chance to implant in your uterus. If it does implant it's usually in a place unsafe for a baby to grow anyways and would have miscarried. If an egg never implants it never has a chance to multiply it's cells more than a couple of times which means it would be almost the same size as a normal egg passed during periods. Just like people who can't have children not because they don't have eggs, but because there body doesn't accept pregnancy. This is pretty much what the IUD does is make the uterus unsuitable for pregnancy. Sorry for the long post. Also I DO NOT recommend the paragard or any IUD to someone who has not had a child, not only is it more painful and has a higher risk of expulsion. But you also have a higher risk of uterine puncture, infection, and infertility with it.
I had the ParaGard put in about a week ago. The insertion was painful but I kind of expected it to feel uncomfortable since they are having to spreed the cervix to insert the IUD. I have never had kids so I am not accustomed to this type of pain. It pretty much felt like a lot of pressure and a mild cramp. My doctor was extra slow and careful. They use a tube...slide it through your cervix...and into your uterus.Then they slide the paragard through. I didn't really relize that until I got there, so just in case you wanted to know. My doctor was extra slow so and careful so it did feel like it took forever. I found that digging my elbows into the bed and zoning out really helped.lol Plus I was excited that I didn't have to worrry about kids for the next 10 years so the pain was totally worth it. Afterwards I didn't really feel to much until I got to work and started moving stuff. I did start to lightly bleed and it felt like I had just started my period. Now I am finding that it is interfering with my daily life pretty bad. I work in retail and displays so I have to move and carry things. Just lifting anything over 5 pounds and bending over makes me feel so weak and in pain. Sometimes I will be doing great and out of no where I get these jolting pains almost like the pain I felt when it was first inserted. I just stop and they pass within 5 secs. I am kind of wondering if maybe it was inserted kind of in a wrong position to where it is stabbing or something. I am also suppose to be on my period by now but the doctor said I could finish out my birth control then shortly after I will start my period. I wonder if the birth control has anything to do with these random cramps. I found that on birth control I turned totally evil and couldn't tolerate anyone. Even now when I am in pain I am not exactly friendly and I just want to be left alone.I plan on waiting it out but I feel like I can not do anything anymore. I kind of feel crippled. My boyfriend (even though he's always done this) has to lift, push, and carry everything for me. I have always been very active and I am now afraid everytime I move to quickly.lol I have never had bad cramps on my period but it feels like I am on my period everyday now. Though it is very nice not having to worry about condoms and to not have "I hope we don't get prego," on my mind when having sex. I do not want kids so I am hoping that after a month my body gets accustomed to it and hopefully it gets better. Everyones body is different.... so we will see
paragard was soooooo bad for me. horribley painful periods that almost never end (8-10 days) cramping and bloating ~ not to mention the way i felt the wk before.... hungry~ i'd eat and eat and eat.. then period wk ~ craving junk food and pop. while i had the paragard i would have one good wk per month. thats 7 days of feeling ok out of 31..... dnt use this birth control!
Well I just had my paragard taken out yesterday, almost a year to the date it was inserted. I had heavier periods soon after that just got worse as the year went on. I also have endometriosis and I am scheduled for a laparoscopy in June to take care of it. I have had horrible back aches and a terrible stabing pain in my right ovary area for months. I actually think I could tell a difference with in 5 minutes of it being out. I told my husband I must be crazy, when we decided on this method, it told me to only expect heavier periods for a time. I have bleeding alot, recently almost all the time and in pain so much that I have lost my appetite and am losing weight. I really curious to wait it out for a bit and see if it is indeed my endometriosis or if it was the paragard. After reading these postings, I really think it may have been the paragard. We will see... anybody else have endometriosis and the paragard or can relate?
do not get it inserted! it is very painfull causes so many problems! i have had it for over 2 years and i have had the worst periods and the mucus is horrible as well... the cramps never stop! i have been hospitalized more in the past 2 years than i have ever seen the doctor in my life. the migrains are horrible and the sensation when you have sex is barely there at all. and i also have had a miscarrage while i had it in and i never knew it till it caused more problems for me.i have also had alot of kidney problems and no prior history of it before i got the para gaurd. the para gaurd also came out on its own and was covered in mucus and blood. i have had alot of health issues while i had the para gaurd that i would have never had if inever got it. for those of you that haven't had any problems, your very lucky! for the rest of us i agree with all of the bad things about it! also my doctor had warned me that it could cause such severe problems that i may never be able to have another child again. so for those of you that are thinking of getting it, my advise to you is dont because there are so many problems with having it.
I just got the Paragard 6 days ago and so far I have been having the brown mucus discharge. My doctor said that it is nothing to worry about and that my body was just adjusting to the foreign object placed in the body. Perhaps, but I see people state that the the mucus is constant. You feel gross with the gooey disharge all the time. I hope this stops. I will give it a couple of weeks to adjust, if no changes, I will discuss further with my doctor. My hubby also said that he can feel the Paragard dioing sex. I haven't experienced my period yet, but I hope its not too bad. Oh I do have a little pain on my right side, I don't know if that is related though. If I have major problems, I will get my tubes tied...(again)
I have had the Paraguard for over three years and have had no problems, as identified above. It sounds like the effects are really case by case and you have to decide what is right for you. I will say, my periods have changed. Although they are regular, I used to bleed for 3-4 days (w/o BC), now I spot for about three days, have a normal period for 2-3 days and spot for a few more days. My cramps have not changed, if anything I have them less. Also, many of you talk about the pain when inserted and I wonder if your doctor is rushing through or if you haven’t had kids. It is my understanding that the pain is lessened if you have had kids, as the uterus is softer. The doctor needs to take his/her time when inserting and has to get it in just the right place. Some women cannot have IUDs because of a tilted or misshapen uterus. When a doctor tries to rush, this causes pain. It should not be that painful. Take some aspirin before going to the doctor and expect some bleeding afterward, you have a foreign object in your body.
I just recently had paragard inserted about a week now. I orginally wanted mirena (just to have no menses) but my gyno told me about the pros of paragard. Longer lasting, no hormones. I usually flowed about 3 days prior to paragard, now it like 5, so not that bad. I havent had any cramps except for the insertion process. But other than that nothing too extreme. and fyi i read 10 times more bad stuff about mirena than i have about paragard! My mom, grandma, and coworkers have all used paragard and no bad reports from them either, I would suggest talking to you gyno and see what is the best fit for you(no pun intended) also you tube paragard, lots of info on there as well! good luck!
I am also getting my paragard removed. I have had it for 3 years now and had the typical VERY HEAVY periods (previously my period was about five days, only needed normal pads - now I wear overnight during the day and change them out many times and it lasts around 10 days).
For whatever reason the paragard seems tied up with estrogen. Maybe the egg does get fertilized and then 'dumped' -- I don't know -- but I have a ton of estrogen now and that makes a person gain weight in unpleasant places, gave me IBS and a whole host of really terrible symptoms.
It probably works fine for some people but definitely not for me. I'm sensitive to hormones too and can't take BC pills, maybe it has to do with that sensitivity that makes Paragard and the estrogen elevation a problem.
I have had the paragard now for about 7 months I was in lots of pain when inserted fallowing long lasting periods and cramps ..... doc said to wait it out so i have and now i feel horrible I have lost a lot of hair that everyone was complaining about it being everywhere .... and I have been having strange sever pain in the top of my feet and in my hands ... I mean all the lil bones in the top of my feet can hurt so bad i can't walk right away when i get up .... and my hands hurt and feel weak ..... I have also been trying to loos wait and not been able to no matter what ...... I see that there are a lot of the same things being said but anyone have other bone pain or major hair loss
I also have very severe pain in my right foot i never would have put it in correlation to the peragaurd until you mentioned it. i had the peragaurd inserted in February 2010 had bad cramps nonstop bleeding and migraines to boot. cramps are comparable to after birth pains and have been taking loitab rotating ibuprofen around the clock if not for cramps to deal with foot and hand pain that is either deep muscle pain or bone pain. I do not want to throw away the 500 dollars we spent but i would rather get fixed
This is my first time checking this site but ladies do I feel validated! One of my dear friends has Paragard and highly recommended it. Because of her success and constant taunting about my 'counting days' birth control method, I decided to emancipate myself from all of those worries. Great! so I thought. I had Paragard inserted in late January and had it removed TODAY! I'm in bed still cramping but feeling mentally strong. My femur no longer aches and the cramping on my right ovary is subsiding. Wow. Each month I bled like I did when I was an adolescent. Today was day 5 of my cycle and it seemed as if it was day 2 - bleeding, cramping, immobilizing, felt faint, nausea. These are symptoms I've had for the past 4 months during my cycle. After I was finally able to get up from the toilet this morning after the cervical cramping and profuse bleeding, I told myself I had to get checked. The day before I'd gotten on the scale and muttered "what the hell..." my weight - it kept fluctuating and I exercise at least 4 times a week - spinning, running 5-6 miles. Didn't make any sense. Well my ob/gyn finished my words once he came into the room. He said something like, 'oh, your among the few who..." Then he asked what I was going to do to which I replied, "go back to counting with pleasure." My husband also said he felt the string. I'm six weeks shy of 45 and have two wonderful kids and desire NO MORE. :-) and I don't hit the sheets everyday so I'm content with abstaining during days 10-15 even though my dear friend will tease me and say 'you know you're gonna fool around and be a senior citizen with kids in primary school playing sex roulet." The pain was just too much and my weight has to be right. To each her own - Paragard just wasn't right for me.WHEW!
Hello, I know I am a few years behind here, but I have had my paragard for 3 months. I have 4 children and decided on this b/c there is no hormones and I have a family history of breast and cervial cancer. I have had cramping a lot. My periods vary, last month light and this month a down pour. Since I had it put in I also have a steading discharge. I now wear panty liners everyday. But even after all this I am happy with it. To me the good out ways the bad so far. I do have to say about the cramping it is getting better. I guess my body is getting used to it more and more. Its a different choice for everyone. The best advice I can give is research the facts, way your choices, and figure out what you want. Most of the side effects I have are listed on the web site. Hope this helps :)
i had paragard inserted in may 2010. i have not experienced a period yet, an after reading the above statements, i am terrified to have one! i have 3 children, all boys, at the age of 20. i wanted to get my tubes tied, but in the state of tennessee you have to be 21. i also can not take hormones due to a blood disorder. so paragard was the best option for me.
after having it inserted, i felt severe cramps at first. they lasted for about 2-3 hours. i also had bleeding for about a week. also on the way home, my left leg felt kind of numb. ive had it for almost a month, so im guessing menstrual cycle is on its way. im dreading it. i am hoping that it goes smoothly.
right now though, i have some weird side affects. i feel nauseous a lot. i dont know if this is normal. also, i tried to see if i could feel the strings, and i could not. can you only feel them when you are menstruating? i dont know but i am super freaked out! i keep wondering if it has dislodged inside my body! and the Lord knows that i do not want anymore kids right now!
hope someone can be of help! thanks!
I had the mirena inserted in November of 2004. I just went and had the mirena replaced with paragard because it is a longer and horomone free option. I was extremely pleased with the mirena. The only problem I had with it was that I gained a little weight. I have had the paragard in for a week and a half and at insertion, it was extremely painful (I was not on my period). After insertion, I had awful cramping for several days that was so bad no kind of pain meds could take the edge off. Then all at once, it seemed to get better... For about 2 days, then I got this wierd bump on my clit. I have been in a monogamus relationship for about 7 years and unless my husband's been creepin.... It has to have something to do with this Paragard! (It went away after 2 days... Wierd!) Anyway, I had stopped bleeding and it was more of a light pink discharge. Then, I all of a sudden started cramping and bleeding again today. I am technically not due for my period until the 15th of June so I am not sure if this is an early pd or what the hell is going on. I never had any problems like this with the mirena. I had regular periods, light cramping at best, and I hardly even noticed it was there. This paragard, however, is a little ridiculous! I am trying to remember how it was when I got my mirena inserted but I am pretty sure that none of this happened...
i got the paragard inserted about 3 weeks ago. yes, it was very painful when they put it in.i had to sit there on the table for a minute cause i thought i would pass out. and as i was walking out i got these really bad cramps, those cramps lasted for a few hours. i dont know how people are gaining weight from this, ts just copper. i havent had any cravings, i still eat the same way i did before. but i have noticed a lot more blood and mucus then normal. im even spotting when im not on my period. sometimes i think i feel it when i move around, like little cramping where i think it is. i had my period that day after they put it in and ive already started my next period like 4 days ago, and it doesnt look like its going away yet. my fiance is still in iraq so im not sure if he will feel it. but so far for me, id say its better then remembering a pill everyday. and it is way better then that shot that lasts for 3 months, ugh.. i gained alot of weight from that. but paragard is working for me so far.
I had the paragard inserted on the second day of my period Thursday June 10th around 2:30p.m. No children, so I had to take a pill that dilates my cervix. Upon insertion, I expected the worse, however, the pain was not as bad as I expected. At 2a.m. I was in so much pain that it brought me to tears. I took 2 ibuprophens and was finally able to go back to sleep a little after 3a.m. Worked all day the next day after taking 3 ibuprophens that morning, then about 4:30p.m. the pain kicked in with a vengence. I called the doctor to find out if this was normal telling the nurse that I was doubled over. The doctor ordered me to go have an ultrasound immediately to make sure the paragard was in place correctly since the pain that I was describing was "not normal." Went to have the ultrasound done (which by the way the poor tech could not immediately do, because I was in so much pain I was crying and could not lay down right away to let her proceed,) to find out that the top of paragard is touching my uterus muscle by a milimeter which is equilvalent to the tip of a ball point pen (not much at all.) The on call Dr. said that it should correct itself naturally or said that my Dr. could wiggle it into place but warned that since it is only touching a milimeter that doing the latter could cause it preforate which would be bad. She then called me in a rx for tylenol #3 and suggested that I give it until the weekend to see if the pain subsides. If it does not, her suggestion is that I go in next week and have it removed. By the way, the type of insurance that I have calls for me to have a $3000 deductible, before the insurance will pay a dime. The paragard was $450 and the ultrasound bill will probably be around a $1000 all out of pocket. I will try to tough it out longer than the weekend, since I paid so much money, am newly married, can not do bc and condoms are not enjoyable. However, I refuse to live on pain medication and be miserable. I do feel I owe it to myself to at least give it a couple of months to see if I begin to adjust to it. My cousin has had one for 3 years after the birth of her first child and has had no issues what so ever. Good Luck to me, and to all of you as well.
I just got Paragard put in 4 days ago. It was extremely painful, much more then I ever thought that it would be. I have had alot of bleeding, which I think is normal from what I read about before getting the procedure done. I did a self check and could not find the threads are they suppose to be visible?
This is the WORST decision I ever made! Had the Paragard inserted 3 days ago and am experiencing TERRIBLE cramps- almost as bad as contractions. AND, I was at the tail end of my period and am bleeding heaving again and have bloated out like I am 2 moths pregnant! I am removing this ASAP- I do not recommend- what a wast of money.
Your comment about feeling free....I so know that feeling! I've only had mine in for 9 days. When I was checking out at the Dr. office the front desk staff were laughing because I was so giddy about having this done. I felt like a kid that just spent hundreds of dollars at a toy store! It wasn't the most pleasant experience but not half as bad as child birth. Been through that 3 times, different experience with each.
My only concern is that I have been feeling some tenderness in the lower abdominal area. Even had to stop my Yoga this morning because I felt I was "pushing it" too much. Hoping this will go away. Not concerned about the heavy periods as mine have always been heavy.
My "upside" to all of this is that #1) no more babies, 3 is plenty enough and #2) no hormones. As I am started my pre-menopause at a young age of 38 and have even started having PMDD, I felt the hormones would make it worse.
I feel FREE and ready to start having a more relaxed sex life with my husband of 18 years!!!! YOO-HOO!
Hi Everyone! I am 23 years old and have never been pregnant. I recently decided to get the Paragard because of it's low-maintenance and no hormones. I had my Paragard inserted this past Thursday and I have to say, I am not a fan of pain, so the insertion was challenging (nothing that made me dizzy though). I am still freaked out about the idea of having something foreign in my body, but I have to admit the overall experience hasn't been bad. The first few days I had mild cramping, but nothing unbearable. I am still spotting (which was to be expected). I am remaining very observant and cautious of how my body is reacting (ie. sharp pains, heavy bleeding, fever). So far, so good. I have to say I am afraid of how my first period will be, but only time will tell. I will update you all on my progress, but if it continues to go smoothly, I am happy with my decision.
I had the paraguard put in shortly after I had my daughter( 3/07). I had issues with hormones so like most of you I wanted something that I didint need to remember to take everyday. Before that I was on the patch for 8 years and got off of that due to extreme mgraines, Any way as many of you stated the insertion was painful,but for me bareable. Until I got my first period ... The pain was so unbearble that I called my doctor and asked her whats happening and like everyone elses doctors she told me to ride it out. After that the pain seemed ok I guess for the first 6 months then all of a sudden the cramps came back this time so severe that I had to call out from work. My periods were always 5-7 days before the paraguard after the paraguard they were 10-11 days. By the time I got off my period it seemed like I was getting ready to start all over again. I swear everytime I turned around I was always bleeding, This is all in my first year. The second year much of the same except for an added bonus I started to have bowel issues and my doctor kept saying the same thing oh that has nothing to do with the paraguard yeah ok. I also started to gain weight I was always a size 1-2 even after my 2 kids once I had this in place I jump up to a size 5-6 which still isnt bad but if your not used to it your like what is this. OK now for year 3 add all the cramps,IBS, and weight gain and have them reoccur 4x's in less than 6 month. One of the previous posters mentioned it feels like contractions shes100%correct thats exaxtly what they feel like. Anyway I finally took it out and I had 30days of nonstop bleeding my doctor says that is was a blood clot that passed great. And once that finally passed I got a monster yeast infection by bodys ph level was completely thrown off. Luckly for me my husband said after all the crap that you went through for me I will do something for you ...He got a vesectomy, Good luck to the rest of you ...Piece of advice if the pain gets worse take it out dont wait as long as i did;
Ouch! That sounds dreadful...I have to admit, I am TERRIFIED to get my first period but there are also women who claim that they didn't experience anything nearly as painful and irritating as what you described. I really believe your body reacts like it wants to, and it truly depends on the woman. Hopefully the device will become one with my body! If not, I WANT IT GONE, lol. Thanks for sharing.
I just got mines inserted last Thursday, it was all of sudden also, if I must say that I regret that I didn't have the time to think about it. I got married not too long ago, my husband is in the Navy so we're currently living on different countries, but in about 2 weeks I'll be finally moving with him, so obviously we're not ready for a baby yet. So on Thursday I called my doctor for a mini phone orientation about some IUD's, since I'm not good with pills, so the weirdest thing that he said was that he only inserts the IUD when the women is on her period, because it's the only way he can prove that the women is not pregnant, AND he says it "hurts" less while women is on her period (not true, still hurts)... I was very disgusted by this, but I had no time, since I leave in 2 weeks and the funny thing is that I was on my fourth day of period the moment I made the call, so he said to stop by his office to get the device inserted right away, so I did, he didn't even gave me a brochure about the device, talked to me about what anti-conception might be right for me, nothing he just explained how the device works while he was inserting it... It was the most painful experience EVER!!! I was on my period during the insertion, I usually have cramps during the first 2 days of my period, and my period usually finishes on the 5th day, right now it's my 8th day of period... thanks to the paragard... though the cramps did stop on the 6th day of period (meaning the 3rd day of having the paragard), but the bleeding did increase which is not normal for me to last that long. The doctor said it's practically normal for the bleeding to increase during the first months since my body is getting used to the device, but non-the-less it's uncomfortable to be on my period for so long, though right now I'm not bleeding as heavy as I did the first 2 days of the insertion but still. As for my husband well we haven't exactly tried it yet, I just have it on... he's a bit scared of what is to be expected of this IUD, and so am I. As I keep reading about the replies of the cramps, and the painful periods, that scares me a bit, I just hope it's not that bad, because if it is, it's coming out for sure! And if in the future I do decide to take it out, I'll consider Mirena or hormones which I'm trying to avoid, but it'll be my last resort...
I had my paragard inserted early July and it did hurt really bad. I have had mirena before but had that taken because it made me have bad acne so I didn't think it would very bad but it did but it was only 5 minutes. The rest of the day I had really bad cramps and then it was over. I bled for a couple days after but I took ibeprofen (sorry if I mispelled) and it went away after 4 days. You bleed alot because your uterus realized theres a foreign object and it becomes irritated but the ibeprofen helps believe me!! Anyway I have had no problems so far started my period when I was supposed to have had some cramps but its a normal part of womanhood. I love my paragard. I have tried everything nuvaring, every birthcontrol pill, mirena, and i didn't like any of them but I love this. I take a lot of medication already for a number of things and feels great knowing at least I'm not taking extra hormones! Try it you'll love it.
I had the paraguard inserted 2/20/2010 and by july of 2010 I was pregnant? How effective is this again? I have 4 children already and I am 26. I thought getting the paraguard would be an effective alternative for getting my tubs tiedd, but I was wrong. This was the worst deceison I have ever made. I regret this deeply. I had an abortion alreadyt and I am not proud of it I don't think that I can handle another one, so I guess I am having another baby.
After reading these post I realize that alot of the symptoms I've been devoloping over the years may be due to my paraguard as I thought. I got mine put in after I had my daughter in 2008, so it's been a lil over 2 years now. The insertion of it wasn't too bad for me. But I usually don't cramp and my periods use to last 3 days and be super light. Now I have cramps even when I'm not on my period and my periods last 5 days or more and are really heavy, I go through about 8 to 10 tampons a day. The thick mucus that just keeps on coming (I call them vagi boogers), all day every day. The past 6 months, sex hasn't been great at all... just like another post said, I can't feel my husband during intercourse anymore. Since getting paraguard my sexual desire has gradually decreased to almost zero!! And lately I've been getting dizzy spells and sharp pains through out my body and now I'm wondering if thats because of the paraguard too?
I love the freedom paraguard gives me, because me and birth control pills don't get along too well, I always forget to take them or can't remember if I took them. The other bc's just didn't seem right for me. I think its time I give the paraguard a break though. My mother told me that she use to have problems with her IUD and a holistic doctor told her that the cause of all her problems were due to the fact that, as women, we are only supposed to be on bc for about 2 yrs and then give our bodies a rest. BC cause an un-natural state to occur in our bodies and to go long periods of time like that isn't good for us. So, I'm going to give my body a rest... go back to the ole condom method. If I get pregnant, oh well... it'll be about a year sooner than we planned to have our next child but... hey, you gotta roll with the punches. Better than feeling like crap.
after reading that some of my syptoms are comfirmed a after effect of the paragard. i now know what to tell my doctor when i visit next week.ive had the most sloppy and unpredictable cyles sice its been in.right now im 5wks into a very heavy and sloppy cycle.thinking maybe if i switch to the mirena. have heard too much bad talk about them.
I have had mine for about 3 and a half months and of that time I have had maybe 2 weeks of not bleeding. I have be looking and looking online for some information and stories from others with paragard too and Im so happy I found this site!! I will be showing my husband all these stories and hopefully having mine removed soon. Thanks to all of yall for sharing your expericeces now I know im not alone on this!