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I've been with my boyfriend well now my ex for 3 months and we been rocking since the 2nd month he has changed a lot and he says he hasn't he still same sweet guy. But, what he did first month of our relationship he doesn't do no more. & Then we having this 2 wk waiting period see if I am pregnant.. Which drove a bigger bridge between so I ended it.. But, I think don't he understands that I mean it this time.. Yes, I really love him and I want it to work and really be with him..But, he just never has time for me anymore.. I understand he has 2 jobs,school & football to do and goals he has to accomplish so he rarely has time.. But, when he does have time he either on fb and doesn't talk to me.. Or we would make plans and he would totally forget about them and go with his friends. Or he would totally blow me off when I call and ask him if I can see him cause we haven't seen each other in days and he says no he is having"bro's night" he lives with his friends and see's them regularly... So, I just feel neglectd and hurt but he thinks I'm over reactin and being a spoiled brat.. Which hurts.. Cause, I'm not just would like to see my man often. And he lives a block away so it's not like we are good distance apart. So, I'm not sure what to do. So, I told him I had end it cause I couldnt do it no more and he just accepted it and times before he would fight me for it.. I really don't get what that means and would like to get an understanding of it..=/.. Should just leave it alone for good or just give it space for a little and just see other people until he figures things out and has time to be with me.. I know he loves me and I know he wants to be with me.. But, he doesn't show nor act upon it.. So, I start to believe he isn't interested no more and I'm uncertain like I said what to do or what his actions all mean. (He is an 18 yr old young man)
Exactly!!! You're young. So is he. SOME men NEVER grow up!!! I have a father to prove that! NOT that he's a bad father. He just never grew up. Children DO get over it. TRUST me. My parents split when I was young. And honestly, I'm probably a BETTER person for it. I always thought my step dad and my mom were super hard on me. I had a job at the age of 12. Paid for alot of my own things even at 12. BUT they taught me how to take care of MYSELF. And I've never had to depend on anyone. And I never will. You need to find someone that's a GOOD role model for her. Don't ever sell yourself short or put up with BS you know isn't right.
well isnt my daughter father but she adores him and loves him like he was it what keeps me stuck cus i don want her hurtin..but then again id on want her growin up thinkin its okay toput it with such childish stuff.
Because he's young and immature. Unfortunetly guys that age are influenced by their friends a lot. I've been with my BF for over 6.5 years and he's finally NOW just growing up. And to be really honest, IF we didn't have a child together I would have NEVER stayed and put up with the BS that I did. And I DID leave him for a while. Thats when he finally "started" to put his head on straight. Had I not gotten pregnant, I would have been LONG gone!!!!
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tbh the best thing to do is n i know love realy dose hurt iv been wiv my fella 4 9 years nearly n i think personaly u cuddo better but i know it will hurt u knowin that hes just round the corner frm u but if u want this relationship to work n he dose it not u that has to make things happen n make time 4 u both to spend together its him that needs to change BIG TIME if he says he loves u more than he can say then its deffo worth workin on if hes not showin he bothered about u splittin wiv him then he deffo not work it
tbh the best thing to do is n i know love realy dose hurt iv been wiv my fella 4 9 years nearly n i think personaly u cuddo better but i know it will hurt u knowin that hes just round the corner frm u but if u want this relationship to work n he dose it not u that has to make things happen n make time 4 u both to spend together its him that needs to change BIG TIME if he says he loves u more than he can say then its deffo worth workin on if hes not showin he bothered about u splittin wiv him then he deffo not work it
thank you and im trying to do just that but its bit hard when my 2 yr old daughter cries for him and clals him daddy and adores the heck out of him. I just think he jus to close minded and his friends get in his ear so he treats me this way..cause once his friend started sayin he is whipped and what not he been real cold and bitter to me jus treatin me like trash..which ive ttried telln him how i feel but again im alway over reactin cus nothing goin my way and what not n i reli think its his best friend cusz i have talk wit his best friend and his point of view on relationships and how he treats his girl and same way he turned out treatin me
Let it go!!!! First of all he's 18, MOST men at that age don't want to be tied down. IF he can't find time for you and you live a block away, that right there should tell you something.
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