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Sensitive Vagina... cuts,burning, uncomfortable!!
I am 19 and I havent had many sex partners,4 to be exact. I began having intercourse when I was 15. I have noticed that during intercourse if we stopped and went another round later it would be harder to insert the penis into my vagina due to swelling. I have a boyfriend now and he is patient with me and cares but I know it frustrates him. If we force his penis inside me I get cuts and if we use lube I feel a burning sensation. I am finally frustrated at my situation. Is there something wrong? Is there a special lubricant I can try with my sensitivety? I am wet at the time of intercourse and we use lubricated condoms always! But his penis is longer and thicker than I have had before. Are we doing something wrong or is he too big for me? I feel as though it wont ever go away because I am too tight :/ which I thought was a good thing but apparently not. PLEASE HELP.. let me know if I am the only with with this issue or can others relate!?
It has always happen but it's more worse with the use of condoms now that I think of it..
We do take part in lots of foreplay most of the time which I do enjoy and feel I am wet but apparently not enough.... I will try the moisture options you provided me with. Thank you!!
We do take part in lots of foreplay most of the time which I do enjoy and feel I am wet but apparently not enough.... I will try the moisture options you provided me with. Thank you!!
Does it happen always or just with the use of condoms? Do you swell with skin/fingers only? It's possible that you are reacting to the latex.
I keep a tub of baby wipes in my bathroom and wipe with those. Any extra moisture-support is good. Get some good quality lube and apply it after your showers and after you wipe. It has an amazing healing quality to it. My go-to, non-oil (doesn't hinder latex) lube is Pjur. Coconut oil is an excellent treatment option, but NOT with latex. Food grade works for EVERYTHING.
Foreplay is essential. Getting enough of your own lube going helps a lot. The other thing to consider is whether your partner has any amount of hair on his shaft. That can be incredibly irritating until your skin can toughen up to it.
I hope you find a solution!
I keep a tub of baby wipes in my bathroom and wipe with those. Any extra moisture-support is good. Get some good quality lube and apply it after your showers and after you wipe. It has an amazing healing quality to it. My go-to, non-oil (doesn't hinder latex) lube is Pjur. Coconut oil is an excellent treatment option, but NOT with latex. Food grade works for EVERYTHING.
Foreplay is essential. Getting enough of your own lube going helps a lot. The other thing to consider is whether your partner has any amount of hair on his shaft. That can be incredibly irritating until your skin can toughen up to it.
I hope you find a solution!
I can so totally relate you definitely need lube try a water based lube I have had similar issuues if u get it real wet it should minimize the tearing as he enters slowly it will stretch easier with no cuts im29 hope this helps
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