Sex doesn't feel like anything

[Bblady1919]

Hey, I'm 19 and my boyfriend and I have been together for around 9 months now. I lost my virginity to him and sex ever since than hasn't felt like much. We've been having sex with eachother for awhile and I thought it would start to feel like something but it hasn't yet. He gives me oral and the only thing that sort of gets me off is clit stimulation. But latley that hasn't been working much so I just fake it so he doesn't feel bad. My question is is there something wrong with me? Because I thought it would get better but it hasn't and I don't want to never orgasm and fake it my whole life. Please help

[tara1414]

You are so young. First off i agree with last answer you have to want it. Im not saying you dont, but its something to think about. 2nd , think about sex , fantasize as much as you need to before and during, you can keep these thoughts to yourself or share them. It is not that uncommon to only feel the pleasure outside. After he cums use that *** on outside and inside and then he will do it again. Sounds graphic. But if your not getting that wet,,use his. Eventually you will enjoy it more .

[MonolithValley]

You may just have a very low sex drive. Clit stimulation is the only thing that really gets me off too, so you're not alone. You should talk to your boyfriend about this, and find ways for your sex to be mutually beneficial. You shouldn't have to be faking your orgasms all the time.

[AnnieBrooke]

If you are just having sex to be obliging, it won't feel like much.  There is probably nothing wrong with you, you're just having sex for the wrong reasons.