Swollen Vagina

[MarineWife2012]

So, my fiance just got back from Afghanistan. I haven't had sex since October, so it had been about 8 months. I visited him for a week when he got home, and we had a LOT of sex. Some of which was really rough. About half way through the week, my vagina was really dry and wouldn't get wet, but we went on with it anyway. Now, I'm home and my vagina is super swollen and it hurts to pee. I'm also bleeding even though it's not time for my period, as it's regulated by birth control pills. There are no bumps, but I have developed a rash in my anal area from anal sex. I'm keeping it clean and put some Neosporin (spelling?) on the rash. Should I be concerned? From what I'm reading it's pretty normal, but I really want to be sure.

[MarineWife2012]

Honestly, I enjoy anal sex. Not the after effects, at all. It hurts like hell afterwards. But, I mean, it's really fun when it's happening. We don't do it all the time, it's one of those "treats" we give ourselves (mostly because I'm in so much discomfort afterwards, and I have no desire to have a stretched out butthole.) It's not for everyone, and that's completely understandable. It's just something he and I enjoy as an "every now and then" type of thing :)

[paige679]

It sounds pretty normal to me, since you two going a little wild there as it sounds. I'm just curious, I don't mean any offense but why do anal sex if you have a vagina? Unless that was a way to satisfy him without irritating your vaginal area from after a certain amount of sex there. And I am wondering is having anal sex as satisfying to you like vaginal sex would be?