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Too Wet to please

Too Wet to please

Hi Everyone, I am in a bit of a situation. I had an abortion last November (just wasn't ready for kids, i apologize if i offend anyone). Since then my whole body seemed to have gone hay wire.
During sex i get so wet, too wet that my husband loses his arousal and all the pleasure is gone (there is no more friction/grip). Sex has not been too enjoyable since then. Sometimes i get so wet that my fluids (natural lubricant) just starts to flow. Is there aything, anything at all that can be done about this??
Please help (desperate). Thanks.
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Once you have an abortion your body starts to have many things go wrong with it.  Do you have an infection your un-aware of.  
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I feel your pain.  You will hear people say that he should enjoy it.  Obviously these people have never experienced (nor looked up the word) EXCESSIVE.  We aren't talking about a little lube, here.  We are talking about a waterfall.  What makes sex feel good, people?  Friction.  If you are soaking wet, and there is no friction, then there is no pleasure.  It makes the man's penis feel tiny and you lose interest.  He also feels like he is diddling in a toilet bowl and gets no pleasure.

Trust me, this is NOT a good thing!  I suffer as well.  I have tried EVERYTHING!  The only thing that works for me is taking a shower before intercourse and using the hand-held shower head to "douche" with warm water.  No, I don't run the thing up in there, I just open my legs and spread the opening and gently spray with the water.  

However, during the day, I still have to wear a panty liner EVERY SINGLE DAY!

So not fun!
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Ok, this might sound a little gross - but you might be a squirter!  When you orgasm - you might be squirting.  Only about 2% of women experience this type of orgasm - and the female ejaculate literally squirts out!  It's nothing to be embarassed about and it's completely normal!!

It freaked me out the first couple of times it happened to me - but now it's just normal!
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