I last had sex on the last weekend in September. I've not had sex since and although I know there's every chance with every bit of intercourse (regardless of how much actually went on) there was NO climax on his behalf. We used contraception once but as I said, for the second time round there was also no climax on his behalf.
I took two tests with a space of a few days between them roughly 8 weeks after intercourse but they both came up negative.
I have an ongoing issue with my periods and it's not unusual for me to not get one for months (and I mean MONTHS) and then have one, then miss them again for another few months. Prior to this intercourse I had sex in February and even then didn't get a period until about July/August. That would probably have been my last period. I've not been on the pill for a good few months, and even when I was on it, I wasn't taking it properly. I can easily rule out any hormone tablets or anything.
When I've gone to my GP previously about my complete lack of periods her answer was to put me on the pill to start them off again (I haven't been regular since I started getting them when I was about 12/13 I'm 22 now).
I know my chances of being pregnant are pretty slim, with the fact that two tests have been negative, we used contraception and the fact that when we didn't he didn't ejaculate (although I understand the small chance there). Plus I don't have much of a menstrual cycle as it is. I just would like to know what is wrong with me. I haven't had ANY pregnancy symptoms, any weight gain. Surely by now I'd have some kind of sign.
I have read somewhere about a condition that means your periods are not regular, I could just do with some more information. This has been niggling me for a while now and every so often my mind wanders back to "Could I be pregnant...?". I also get the impression that my mother has never been 100% regular and she has had problems which have required her to go and visit our GP and get tablets for it.
My GP is pretty poor. They didn't investigate two years ago when I said I wasn't getting periods (they just put me on the pill) and I highly doubt they'd do any investigation now.
I was hoping somebody with some kind of medical experience (or experience of a similar thing whether or not they did end up pregnant - however it would shed more light if they didn't) to give me some kind of grounds to go to my GP on.