hi Darla, one of my friend is having similar symptoms. You might have taken gynecologist. So can u please tell what is the reason for this? As she is worried and stressed. So your answer would help alot. Please reply ASAP
If you have masturbated and use the equipments, you are not virgin anymore. And what your mum told you to douche is a good advice. When you have oral sex with your boyfriend then I suggest that you checked his background whether he had sex before or had multiple sex partners. Is either he had passed something to you thru orally, or you had masturbate too much that you hurt or injure your vaginal walls. That could be the reason of brown stains (mixture of blood and discharge). As for the odor, it could be from internal injuries or from your boyfriend or it could be personal hygiene. Keep your private clean and dry. Use unscented panty liner.
Ask your doctor also to rule out bacterial vaginitis. It is characterized by an odor.
There are a few things that could be going on. First, you need to see your gynecologist and find out if you have an infection or even a vaginal injury. A fishy odor usually points to infection. Musty odor is more normal and just means you need to clean your privates more thoroughly and more often. Certainly you need to attend to things after masturbating because your body produces more secretions. If that fluid isn't cleaned off, it will eventually give off an odor. Any kind of moisture that is trapped in a dark, moist environment with little air circulation allows bacteria and/or fungal spores to multiply, which is what causes the odor. My experience with pantiliners has been that it makes odor far worse because it further lessens air circulation and traps moisture right up against the body. If you can get along without them and wear only light cotton underwear, you may notice an improvement.
You mentioned that you use homemade toys. They may not be "safe" toys and it's possible you've been scratching or tearing vaginal and/or cervical tissue. I say this because brown discharge usually turns out to be old blood. That's even more reason for you to see your doctor. Since your mom already knows there's an odor issue, just tell her you want to see if the doctor can help. You don't have to bring up the masturbating end of things if you don't want to. That's totally between you and your doctor.