VAGINAL PAIN

[kindanervous]

Ok so a few nights ago, like 6, I had sex with this guy.  I know he's clean because he's my friend's boyfriend (she gave me permission).  He used a polyuerathane condom.  

We were a little (lot) drunk so I don't really remember if it hurt at all then. He is much bigger than anyone else I've had sex with so in that way it did hurt but not in a swelling painful sort of way.  Lubrication was also not an issue, I have no problem providing that.  (By the way for you other posts wondering, I know for a fact female ejaculation is a reaction to clitoral stimulation)

But about 2-3 days after we had sex my vagina started to feel tender and swelled up.  I expected it to go away but 2 days later it just hurts worse.  I don't have any idea what could have caused this.  Anyone know or have a similar experience?

Icing seems to have helped a little but I would really like to understand what's going on. And how do I fix it?  Help would be amazing...

[ficklemetem]

You need to see a doc regarding your issue. It's quite possible that you had an infection before having sex with YOUR GF's BF! And having late reactions lol. Wow..see a doc!

[baby4me?]

I would say your solution is to find a friend that's man has a smaller weiner.

[Cletus_VanDamm]

Wow, i dont have an answer for your question, but i'm glad i dont have friends like you.

[promgirl]

Doing it with your friends boyfriend?  You are a really good friend. Maybe you should ask your friend if her vagina did the same thing.

[GirlyGurlMommy]

Hmm. I doubt it was HIM that is causing this. I would think if it was it would have disappeared by now. No itching or redness? It could be possible that you are allergic to the lube used..or his soap (weird..i know) In any case..if this doesnt go away really soon take a visit over the the doctor.

I'm not even gonna approach the topic of whom it was with.lol. All I can say is ..lucky you..why don't I have friends like that.lol

[HIS GIFT TO US~]

Never had an experience like that, did u mean x-bf or he's bding both of you? Has your friend had this same problem? I'd ask her about it. Good luck, this can be rough on a friendship once everyone sobers up!!!!

[kindanervous]

She's fine, friendship is fine.  Thanks for all of your concern on that but I still can;t figure out what's wrong so...

[paranoidpatty]

Most Polyurethane condoms still contain a lubricant.  Durex used to make one that was non-lubricated but I can't find them anymore.  You could be allergic to the lubricant in the condom.

[kindanervous]

No other symptoms no, I really am stumped too...

[sparkeler]

Swelling up & hurting?  Any other symptoms?  If you used protection I doubt it's an std.  It was a polytherane condom, not latex & most are allergic to latex.  I'm stumped. Anyway, what a giving friend you have.