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Vagina Too Tight? Please Help!
Well, I am 16 a virgin and I've never fingered at all. My boyfriend who came down to visit me tried to finger me but every time he tried It would always hurt(I wasn't wet so I was thinking that's why it hurt.) He's tried to stick his penis in before but I would never be able to get relaxed because I would be scared of the pain. So, the reason why I'm telling you all this..Is because I want to make love to my boyfriend. But every time we try I always back out because I'm scared of the pain. How do I get over that? Make it less painful and relax? Also, once you lose your virginity do you feel any different?
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My first 3 times were pretty terrible. We couldn't get it in all the way. I was nervous, but once my mind and body got use to the feelings of sex, things got much better. It will help if you start to touch yourself and get use to that feeling first. And when the time happens, have him give you oral, or spit down there for lubrication, it will make insertion much easier.
first of all,why do you want to lose your virginity to your boyfriend at 16?Are you aware of his hiv status and yours,stds??Are you ready for the consenquences of sex,ie pregnancy etc??
Dont rush into sex. It may seem like everyone is doing it but sex involves a lot both physically and emotionally. I would advice you to wait until you are married to have sex.if your boyfreiond loves you that much he will wait.Everything good is worth the wait. Its possible!
losing your virginity is very painful because the hymen has to break.You can be sore for days depending.After a while its painless.
Wait!!!!!
Dont rush into sex. It may seem like everyone is doing it but sex involves a lot both physically and emotionally. I would advice you to wait until you are married to have sex.if your boyfreiond loves you that much he will wait.Everything good is worth the wait. Its possible!
losing your virginity is very painful because the hymen has to break.You can be sore for days depending.After a while its painless.
Wait!!!!!
It does hurt your first time. It doesn't hurt nearly as bad your second time. If you love him and you think he really loves you it would be worth the pain and he should respect you enough to not do it too hard &* after you lose your virginity you do feel different like emotion wise. You will think about a lot afterwards. But if your confident about how you both feel about each other you shouldnt feel to bad about loosing it afterwards. I hope this helped you somehow.(:
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