My boyfriend tries to finger me every now and then but he can only ever fit a single finger into my vagina. Once he tried fitting two but it was too tight. I've read online about vaginismus and I'm wondering if I have it. Is it too early to tell? I'm a virgin, so should I try actually having sex before I tell whether or not I have vaginismus?
Also, I've noticed that whenever he fingers me, I feel like I'm kind of clenching my pelvic floor. I would try to relax more, but when I'm being fingered, I always kind of feel like I have to pee :\\ Obviously I don't want to accidentally pee on my boyfriend. Anyone else get that? Thanks.