So I'm a virgin. I'm 17 and my boyfriend fingers me almost every week, last few times he's fingered me my vagina gets so swollen, swollen shut, twice the normal size. It's been scaring me. I heard it could be because I'm too dry but while he's fingering me I can hear the juices so I don't think I'm too dry.. I also heard because of the roughness but he's been rough before and it never got swollen. Before I see him I put lotion on myself and I'm thinking it's the chemicals but I'm so unsure. It seriously kills. I'm not even kidding it was almost 3 times the size of my normal size, and it takes a couple days to go down normally, but this time it's taking forever. I'm in so much pain but I have no one to talk to. I wish I knew what was going on so I can prevent it from happening again. I have Motrin 800 for my knee problem I've been taking to put down the swelling but I don't like taking pills. I heard girls should buy lube but I don't wanna go through all of that. I seriously don't even know what to do anymore.