Virginity

[ImSixteen]

Okay, so my ex bf and I had sex more than 200 times but it was like 2 times a day that it would equal to 200.
Does that make me slutty??
I want to wait until I'm married to have sex again, could I possibly become a "renewed virgin"? And can I get my hymen back without surgery?

[specialmom]

The vast majority of women I know regret the most if not all their early sexual decisions.  Keep that in mind.  good luck

[PerrinB]

Once you have sex, you cannot unring that bell. The number of times doesn't matter.

No, it does not make you slutty. If you want to make the decision to wait again until marriage that is great for you. Make sure that you are waiting for the right reasons that you believe in and not just appearances.

There is no agree upon definition of 'slutty'. It's subjective and not to mention incredibly sexist. When you get older, you'll be able to see it more fully. But in the meantime, own your choices and learn from your mistakes.

[specialmom]

Hi there and welcome.  Well,  you made the choice to sleep with this person a LOT and often so he must have seemed like a good person at that time.  I agree that unless you want a ton of sex partners before marriage, it is best to wait until marriage because every guy you date until marriage will seem like a good guy and you sure can rack up the sex partners that way.  If you don't want to do that, your idea of waiting until marriage is a good one.  

However, your hymen is gone and will remain gone.  I would just keep quiet about your past experience. No one really needs to know that.  And after a few years of no sex, it will be much easier for this subject to just fade away.  good luck