Hi All,
I'm the one who wrote the bible comment. I'm lapsed catholic partially b/c the hypocrisy in some believers has always frustrated me. And partially b/c I don't agree with certain issues that the Church takes a stand on.
The one thing that the Church did teach me and that I truly believe in, is that Judging is no better than Murder because you can kill someone with your judgement.
I'm presently ttc and have had one m/c. Every time I look at this forum I encounter a thread similar to this one. The anger on these threads really frustrates me (and obviously a few others).
There is (from what I can find) no abortion forum. Therefore it makes sense that a young girl who is under 34 and pregnant and is considering all her options would come to this forum looking for help. How are young girls supposed to know that the majority of women on here are ttc, pregnant and/or are pro-life?
But I am repeating other posts. As is everyone else.
i didnt call you selfish...i said that was a selfish statement...there is a differance...i dont know you therefore i dont knoww if you are selfish or not
Thanks :)
Yeah baby is doing great. Still having cramping which is a litle worrying but had my scan wednesday and s/he was jumping about all over the place.
Cant wait till the pain goes away so i can finally enjoy this pregnancy without the stress.
You trying for your first??
Thanx..i think so too...as for the other women and hormones flying...yeah that happens but like the rest of us shes just another human being and wants help and support..she might have noone else and thought that well maby ill get some on here not thinking about what this forum is really about! I think the poor girl neeeds to be cut some slack...and i am glad you changed your mind about the abortion! But like if you did really want to go through with it you would have wanted support to right! I would have understood in your sitch...i can understand and i think if she wanted one she should get one now! Some people have different situctions!! God im all riled up and im very dissapointed in the way the girls on getting on! I thought they would have at least asked what her sitch was! I mean it could be anything!! CONGRATS on your pregnancy and good luck...hope everything is goin well!!:):)
Well said, i think people need to realise that different people have different circumstances and i know exactly how she feels. I hope she can find the support and advice she needs from a professional who will provide an unbiased opinion.
ok ladies!! Lets everyone calm down for a second!! Ok so this girl wants to have an abortion...so be it...god only knows why she may want to have one..there could be a definite reason why she wants one..and as for everyone on here having to say something about it...leave it alone..shes just like everyone else on here..shes looking for support and ADVICE!!! Not for people to be nasty! She probably wrote to this forum because it say pregnancy 34 years and under!! Shes probably under 34 and she is pregnant!! There could be a million reason why she wants this..nobody knows her and anything about why she wants it! I personally dont support abortions but i will tell her this that if you want an abortion you can go get one done now! You can get an abortion rite up until your 3-4 months pregnant i think! I am trying to have a baby as well and i know most girls on here are to and they think its wrong but think about what this girl must be going through! Like i said shes only like everyone else looking for advice and support!