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am i pregnant

i am 14 years old. i am sexually active with my boyfriend. i am really scared because of the fact that i havent had my period this month. there is 3 days left before this month ends. could i be pregnant
-my boyfriend does not let in his sperm. before it comes he takes it out.
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961008 tn?1276648828
Hey there girlie, you are so young, just be careful, I have been there too but boys arent always so honest, just protect yourself, get urself some birth control and regualr visits with a gyn for a pap smear, u can never be too careful, and just know that there is ALWAYS a chance u can get preggers if ur having sex, even on birth control, even with a condom, the only Fool Proof way is not to have anysex, I thought I couldnt get pregoo and I got pregnant on my period at 17....just be careful and good luck
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372900 tn?1315512302
You're still to young to be having sex.
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im not pregnant ! yayy i have my period
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its our first time losing our virginity to each other. i know the fact that he does not have stds!
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my head hurts. is that a sign. i have been stressed out and have been on the internet a lot of times.
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thank you very much. i appreciate your comment a lot. i am really scared and your the only comment that comfort me.(:
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ok what u need to do is calm down stress can effect your period and woring about it just now can make it seem soo much worse then it may be your only 14 so your periods arnt always going to be on time so just wait it out if its been more then 2 weeks since you last had sex then try a home test if not then u may need to wait this will be a good time to do some thinking if u arnt preganant then start thinking about practiceing safe sex condoms the pill what u want from your life and how having a baby at such a young age will affect that if you are pregnant then your going to need someone to talk to go through your options and figure out whats best for you and the baby
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The pull out method doesn't always work. You are way too young to have sex anyways. You still could possibly be pregnant. Wait another week or two then take a home pregnancy test. If you aren't ready to raise a baby, you aren't ready to have sex. He could have pre-ejaculated (meaning some sperm could have still gotten in). Good luck mommy!
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How about the fact that if you did know there was such thing as pre-ejaculation you SOULD NOT be having sex at all... I lost mine at 16 and lucked out that I didnt have my first child till after I was 21.. For pete sake- use your time to get a hobby not create more havic, you still have High School to get through!!

Enjoy being a teen, not a teen mom.
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203342 tn?1328737207
Not to mention all the std's out there, yikes!
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372900 tn?1315512302
There is a thing called pre-ejaculation.  It is the ejaculate that comes before he fully ejaculates.  The pre-ejaculate contains sperm.  Not as much as when he goes completely but definitely enough that if it gets through your cervix and meets an egg it can fertilize it.  THAT'S how you can still be pregnant.  Why are you not using protection?  That's a really dumb thing to do in this day in age.  And at the age of 14 you are entirely too young to be having sex.  Especially unprotected sex.  Do you want to be a mom at your age?  Probably not.  You have a lot more growing up to do before you should even worry about having sex (and getting pregnant).
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203342 tn?1328737207
The pull out method is not fool proof. You can still get pregnant from pre *** and there may be some ejaculation.
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why is there a chance that i could be pregnant. when he dosent let loose his sperm?
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yes you can be pregnant..you are having unprotected sex..and him pulling out before he "lets loose his sperm" can still very much get you pregnant
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Sometimes (when you are not pregnant) thats happens... I remember when i was 15 I missed my period for 2 months.. Try doing a self pregnancy test.
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505857 tn?1329681517
you are far to young to be having sex, and if you are experimenting you should be on some sort of bc you will regret losing your viriginity at such an early age believe me i've been there.  Why wasn't he using protection to stop both of you contracting an STD.  If you have not yet missed a period wait until you have and then test if the test is negative i would make an appointment with your doctor.  I hope for your's and your parents sake that you are not pregnant
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