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am i pregnant??
okay so me and my boyfriend were messing around, but we didnt have sex or anything. but im still scared that im pregnant. even though my period is normally inconsistant, this one seems different. i have been researching on the internet and it says that one symptom of pregnancy is spotting. im not really sure what that all entails, but im pretty sure that my perios is over with, and its only been 4 days. im so worried, even though i dont have any of the other symptoms...HELP! please some advice?
My fiance cheated on me (We are both female) with a man and used his condom and spilled the contents inside of herself trying to get pregnant. What are the chances she may be seeing as how women who actually have men ejaculate inside of them may or may not get pregnant?
I too am the voice of dissent. No one can give you a concrete answer as to whether you are pregnant or not, you must figure that out by taking a home pregnancy test. If he ejaculated close to your vagina or even close to your rear-end, statistics show that the sperm could travel to your vagina and actually impregnate you. This is incredibly rare, but it is a possibility nonetheless. Additionally, if either he or you had wet sperm on any part of your bodies that touched your vagina, this could allow you to become impregnated as well. Again, the odds are much thinner, but it could happen nonetheless. The highest likelihood of conception occurs between a week after your period starts and a week before your next period starts. This doesn't mean that have intercourse during your period or one of these other times guarantees that you won't get pregnant because everyone's cycle varies.
Therefore, from what you described, the odds of conceptions are minimal at best. However, no one can guarantee that you are not pregnant without additional information. Even if your boyfriend did not ejaculate, it is possible to conceive from pre-ejaculation (if this was around your vaginal area). I wish you the best, and I would highly recommend a test for peace of mind, but don't take it until at least two weeks after the incidence.
For future reference, you should consider getting on the birth control pill or using another form of birth control so that you don't have to go through this unnecessary worry (it can take years off your life!!!). Best wishes! ;0)
Therefore, from what you described, the odds of conceptions are minimal at best. However, no one can guarantee that you are not pregnant without additional information. Even if your boyfriend did not ejaculate, it is possible to conceive from pre-ejaculation (if this was around your vaginal area). I wish you the best, and I would highly recommend a test for peace of mind, but don't take it until at least two weeks after the incidence.
For future reference, you should consider getting on the birth control pill or using another form of birth control so that you don't have to go through this unnecessary worry (it can take years off your life!!!). Best wishes! ;0)
I just read this entire thread to DH. He came in the room and shouted, "I told you not to flush the floss!!!!!".
Needless to say, this thread was very enlightening.
What a great pick-me-up for the day.
Needless to say, this thread was very enlightening.
What a great pick-me-up for the day.
I'm glad to hear you all are flossing! LOL
Seriously though, I won't flush my floss anymore.
Seriously though, I won't flush my floss anymore.
i didn't even think about the plumbing. i once had a plumber ask if we flushed our dental floss down the toilet. he had to go under the house - there was big ball of it blocking a pipe. needless to say, we no longer flush the floss!
I saw a CSI episode where this guy was partying with 2 girls (they are the ones that show off the cars, trailers, etc. at car shows and stuff). Anyways, he didn't want the one because she was "too old". He ended up having sex with the other one, putting the condom in the trash in the bathroom and the "old" girl went in, got the condom and used it to get herself pregnant. I can't remember the whole story but I think he caught her, or figured it out and killed her.
What I meant by plumbing issues was that the condom can fill with water (supposedly) and plug the pipes, causing the toilet to overflow and be stopped up. I think I also remember reading that it can't be removed by a simple plunger, that you would have to have a professional plumber come in to fix the problem.
What I meant by plumbing issues was that the condom can fill with water (supposedly) and plug the pipes, causing the toilet to overflow and be stopped up. I think I also remember reading that it can't be removed by a simple plunger, that you would have to have a professional plumber come in to fix the problem.
Dumpster diving for condoms... talk about getting yourself into a "sticky situation!"
I heard/read that you are NOT supposed to flush used condoms. They can cause SERIOUS plumbing problems.
Talk about plumbing issues of a totally other kind!!
Your post was hilarious.
Actually, there was a Law and Order episode (and everything we see on TV is true, you know) where the girl had sex with a man of her own free will, but he used a condom. So, no proof. Well, she got the condom, and got the semen out, roughed herself up, inserted the semen with a syringe and charged him for rape. Go figure!! Of course, since this is real life, he wasn't charged. They figured out the truth. Some women.
Your post was hilarious.
Actually, there was a Law and Order episode (and everything we see on TV is true, you know) where the girl had sex with a man of her own free will, but he used a condom. So, no proof. Well, she got the condom, and got the semen out, roughed herself up, inserted the semen with a syringe and charged him for rape. Go figure!! Of course, since this is real life, he wasn't charged. They figured out the truth. Some women.
You know what's really scarey? Somebody somewhere did that or they wouldn't have been talking about it. That's what is scarey. And people think I'm weird!!
You cannot get pregnant by fingering, oral sex, or mutual masterbation. Does this clear it up for you? Even if he ejaculated on his hand and wiped it off, and then 10 minutes later, he 'fingered' you (sorry for the graphic terms), you couldn't get pregnant. Women try over and over, actually having sex, and can't get pregnant. It's just not that easy. If you didn't have sex, you can't get pregnant. Now, if he was inside you, but you didn't actually move, or enjoy it, or orgasm...blah blah blah...then you can get pregnant.
i can't even believe i'm saying this, but i'm going to have to be the voice of dissent. i was listening to "dr. drew" on the radio last night. i don't know if any of you have him in your market. someone asked that question and, according to him (he's a sex "expert"), you CAN get pregnant if there is sperm on your finger. as long as it's still wet. i was shocked. he also told guys to make sure they flush their used condoms down the toilet, because if a woman wanted to, she could retrive it from the trash can and squirt it in. (why she would want to would be anybody's guess. think palimony?) up to about two hours afterwards and it will work.
seriously...if you could get pregnant this way in which you describe (no intercourse) i would have about 100 kids right now...and thats being in the mood. gee, i could have my own society. thats scary!
Why would you think you are pregnant if you didn't have sex? A little more info might help us understand you case. Allthough, know one can tell you if your preg. you would need to take a test.
"Me and my boyfriend were messing around, but we didnt have sex or anything." How else would you get pregnant? (without using the scientific methods of course.) Really you need to have sex to get pregnant. Forget the whole thing, your not.
Did you take a pregnancy test??? That would probably be a step in the right direction.
If you didn't actually have sex, the chances are probably pretty low that you're actually pg, but a test would give you some piece of mind.
Spotting can be due to many things, you could be stressing yourself out over this too.. but since your periods are already inconsistent, that might not be too strange.
If you didn't actually have sex, the chances are probably pretty low that you're actually pg, but a test would give you some piece of mind.
Spotting can be due to many things, you could be stressing yourself out over this too.. but since your periods are already inconsistent, that might not be too strange.
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