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Guys I reall need help. I'm a virgin, never had vaginal sex but last week I had anal sex with my boyfriend and it wasn't our first time. When we finished I went toilet things were fine but later when I was wiping myself I was bleeding a little. So just wanted to know if I have lost my virginity as in has my cherry been popped? :s please I need some advice,, thank you
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This is an old question and I see that this was asked several years ago but if you are still reading this, it sounds like that guy was gay. No man just wants just anal sex except gay men. Also, the kind of sex you were having was way riskier if you didn’t know his status. You were just concerned about getting pregnant but there were other risks you were taking with anal sex with a guy you didn’t know his status.
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Did you wear a condom? Maybe you should be more careful next time. I don't think you've lost your virginity. But the best thing to do is not panic at all, because that could lead to you having a panic attack. If your on your period then there could be a chance that it's that because that could happen anytime . A good film to watch though is Jane the virgin I love that series. You should research on how do you know that you've lost your virginity . Good Luck!
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you obviously have the wrong man if he does not respect your beliefs /religion and actually its sort of a dis actually its like "ok your prude, teasing and making me wait is over" Im gonna get mine regardless would be total disrespect on every level. And he didn't even care to look at your beautiful face while touching you for the first time so what do you think you should do? What are you worth? well.... then show him by saying GOODBYE! oh and lets not forget he could be Gay so it was a choice
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Nice comment. Really make's people think about if they are or aren't worth being with someone. Thanks for being inspiring!
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I am an older woman, a mother and a nurse.  I am concerned about your post in so many ways.  Although technically speaking, you are a virgin because you haven't had vaginal intercourse.  Except in certain cultures, no one is looking at a Hymen to see if it has been penetrated or not.  Virginity for the most part is about a man "not knowing you" intimately - thus, that is why some women say they want to remain PURE until they get married.  Thus - saving yourself for marriage.    I'm not judging - just giving it to you straight.  Anal intercourse is still intercourse, and is often rejected by women because it is less pleasurable (in general) and even hurts some.  Again, not judging.  The very fact that you and your boyfriend are having relations in this fashion tells me that he is more concerned about his own sexual release, than  yours.  I say this because you clearly are concerned about being a virgin...and apparently you have given it all away, plus more - except for the vagina.  I have to question what you'd say to this nice guy you are saving yourself for...how will you explain getting naked with another man, and allowing him to penetrate you every way but your vagina?  It seems you have not saved much for him.  I did not save myself for marriage - thus I'm not judging your decisions but rather questioning your perspective of saving your virginity.  To me - you know too much and have done too much to be a virgin, whether your hymen is intact or not.

As for the anal bleeding, it is likely a tear in your anus area.  The area does not lubricate like the vagina does - so if you are not using a lubricant, and if you are not relaxed enough, this area can be injured.  You can still get pregnant if semen drips anywhere near the vagina...sperm swim well.  And lastly, the penis should never go into the anus and then into the vagina for risk of infection.
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She’s very right about the anal bleeding and that you should be cautious of infection. But for real, it’s your body dude do with it what you want. Virginity is a a social/religious construct and it’s up to you to decide what kind of sex equates to losing your virginity. Any half decent guy you meet in the future won’t judge you for your past sex life because it’s your body and your business!! Don’t let anybody make you feel ashamed of that. You’re allowed to decided what you do and do not want to do. (But do try to use good judgement about sexual safety and all that :)
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IDK who answer the last one was but you cannot get pregnant having analysis sex and you prob just torensomethung that connect your any and vagina. But vaginal. Intercourse is way better girl that butt **** hurts
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The last commenter meant, impulsive...  as in anal gets you going and in the heat of the moment (because it feels so good) they decide to have intercourse (aka impulsive).... and would not be prepared with a condom.  The poster was not implying she could get pregnant from anal sex.
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You probably have some ripped skin in your anus.  I sure hope you are on the Pill, you're being just a little too close for comfort in terms of safety from impulsive penetration, which of course means in terms of safety from pregnancy.
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