My boyfriend and I have sex regularly and have been trying to conceive, but after a spurt of sexual activity my lady parts are swollen and in pain as if someone took sandpaper to it. I can't make him understand that its painful to have sex even after a day break. I'm ovulating this week and he thinks I'm just putting off having a baby he won't even settle for a *******. Also any advice on how to spend up the healing process.