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bad smell after masturbation *female*

Embarrassing but.... I'm 38 and haven't been sexually active with anyone since 2002. I refuse to date anyone for one reason: since about five years ago, after I masturbate and orgasm, I clean up well after and yet within a few hours  or if I go to sleep then wake, my (best way to call them) leg pits STINK like body odor and my entire outer vulva stinks as well. If I DON'T masturbate I wake the next day just fine. No odor, nothing.

I really don't know what to do about this but I seriously won't date anyone because that is just disgusting. I have tried regular deodorant in my leg pits - doesn't work. I have tried FDS (feminine deodorant spray) doesn't work. I have washed with water (doesn't work) and i have washed with Summers Eve (doesn't work). I'm just talking about cleaning up pre and post masturbation.

As I said, NO sexual anything with anyone since 02 so I don't have any diseases or infections at all. I just don't want to be a single person for ever but NO One would want to be with me with that kind of problem. What do I do?
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I have a huge problem & its embarrassing. After I mastribate the room & myself smells like sex... my partner came home shortly after I had just mastribated & was convinced I had just had sex with someone due to how the room was smelling.... is this normal? Im feeling extremely alone & disgusted with my body & have no one else to ask.
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Anything is possible. But get it checked out. The sooner you do, the sooner the problem could go away.
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True, hehe. I'll get it checked out. Could be just hormonal too as it started about age 32 or 33.
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Well I know how you feel. I've been there before. Smelled really bad and was embarrassed. BUT I finally went to the DR knowing that he/she could probably help me. And he did. I ad BV, which *****! Cause I can get it back at any time for NO reason. And it's NOT a sexually transmitted thing either. And the smell always got worse after having sex. It's possible you could have something like that. It can go away and come back on it's own too. Going to the DR a feeling embarrassed is WAY better then going through life being afraid to be with someone.
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Thanks for the reply ..... but HOW would one bring up something gross like that TO a dr without being embarrassed or having them think something bad of you? Maybe I could find a gyne in the area (just moved to a very very small town so there are none here that I know of) and just go to him for this, then find another one to be my normal all the time dr. I really don't feel comfortable having anyone know this of me save through anonymous means like this.... but I'll give that a try at least. I really don't need anyone thinking I'm different or dirty or disgusting. I already feel that about my  self.
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1027094 tn?1327429732
I'm not sure. Have you talked to a DR about this? IF not, I would.
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