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bleeding during sex? is there something wrong with me! help. read this one.

I'm a 17 year old female.  When I was 15 I had sex for the first time, right after that I got checked out to make sure everything was okay as I was always told to go to a doctor after the first time you have sex.  I then didn't have sex again until I was sixteen, just last summer a few times,  and everything was fine and it was with only one person.  Since summer I have had sex numerous times with the same person.  About 5  weeks ago I bled while we were having sex,  but afterwards I didn't bleed at all. I've had what I'd consider "rough" sex before, and haven't bled, and now when it's slow as he's afraid of hurting me I do! I know its not an STD because my guy has been checked and hasnet been with anyone since, and I was checked after the first guy. Ive had sex in a hottub and one of my friends says that could be a possibility as why it is happening, but I doubt it. I even waited it out a month to see what happened and just the other day the same thing.  It's not overly heavy, or thick, but it's embarrasing.  I hate hate hate going to doctors, and don't want to tell my mom, as she would disown me! I'm not on the pill, there is no other reasonable answer! can someone help me? please I just want this to stop. . . any advice?!?!
thanks
Jen
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i'm 17, my bf and i had sex multiple times now and every time it hurts. the first time we had sex i was a virgin so afterwards i was sore and had a bit of bleeding when i got home, more like spotting. so i thought that was normal but after bout 3 times of having intercourse it hurt really bad and there was bleeding afterwards. like i noticed after using the washroom. then after during another time of intercourse i began bleeding during it. i'm also feeling sore and i feels nauseas after intercourse. i'm scared to tell anyone i'm embarrassed and i want to know if anyone know's what this could be ?  please help !
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If it was your first time having sex it is completely normal. If not it could be the STD chlamydia, or it could be something simple like not enough lubrication while having sex. Are you on the pill and using condoms? If not I strongly advise you getting on a certain type of birth control at your age. There are so many different things that this could be...so I think its really important that you to go the ob/gyn for a pelvic exam just to get everything checked out. Until you get checked discontinue having sex so that you don't induce any inflammation or cause further problems. Let me know how things go.
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Hi, im a 16 yr old, and me and my partner were having sex one day and afterwards, i was bleeding. Could this be an std possiably, and what kind? or that hes too long for me? please answer back asap im rly scared..
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Hi,
I'm 21 and I have been with the same person for a year now, I am on the pill and before we had sexual intercourse we both got checked for STDs.
I had never bled with anyone else before, and I returned to my doctor to be checked because i was concerned.
When i went to the doctor she said because he was longer than my partners beforehand that was the reason of bleeding during sex because I have a shallow vagina. It seems to only happen when he thrusts fully- so maybe girls try to have slower, softer sex or try some lube to help things along.
Sometimes people arent compatible and if the person really cares about you they will want to make you feel comfortable and adjust so you dont bleed.
I know it is a horrible feeling when you go to the bathroom after sex and there is blood but if there is any doubt in your mind go see a doctor because it is their job- just book yourself into a woman gyno to make you feel less anxious and be 100% honest with them. you dont want a simple problem turning into something larger you cannot fix later on in life
Goodluck
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I have Exatally the same thing..!!
I was a virgin when i met my boyfriend and have been having sex with him only for over a year now but just recently have been bleeding during sex but not after, obviously i paniced at the site of the blood so went to the dr to get it checked out!! They gave me a smear test and a chlamidia test (even tho im sure its not that as he is my only sexual partney and he was tested before i had sex with him) im waiting for the results... nd should find out this week!! Its so worth getting checked out just to make sure everything is okay!
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You  can not trust that some guy had not been with anyone but you. Guys especially teenaged ones and even older guess what they lie. The thing about STDS is neither of you need to start with one to end up with one because you are exchanging bodily fluids and your organs are surrounded by a mucos membrane which is a breediing ground for diseases. I am 28 kickn 29 in the butt and I do not trust anyone when it comes to my body. Nobody else is going to  give you thier complete medical history I do not care how well you claim to know them and some stds such as hpv,Hep B come from uncleanly ness or by naturallly occuring bacteria or viruses. I will say this one time and one time only because I am a straight forward person go to library and read. There are stds like aids, syphalis and so on that can mimic other stds and manifest in a womans body and although you think you did everything right it can still be there whenever you decide to have kids and cause your  children  health problems or even cause you to become steril or amenorrhea. I speak from not only being a health care professional  but also from personal experience I was a stupid teenager once just like you and granted I can sit here and message till I am blue in the face but you  wanna continue to live wreckless do not come on line crying about the consquences of your actions.
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