i understand you are self conscious but once you are fully sexually active it is important that you do go for a doctors visit. its a good idea to talk about birth control, condom use and get checked out. best to be safe.
if you are responsible enough to have sex then you are responsible to go see the doctor and be responsible for your body. no matter how self conscious you are. do it for you!
be wise, be safe.
So, to be clear, he is not penetrating you with anything? No fingers or penis? How old are you? How are you bleeding then? From him rubbing up against you humping you with clothes on? If you think you need lube if would assume he is using his finger if he hasn't had sex with you? Playing with your genitals but not putting a finger or anything inside you? Playing meaning touching your outside area?
yeah, I did mean penetration, I have no idea that all the different bits are and stuff, sorry if i was unclear. I think it's likely to be lack of lube, that seems to make sense. just seemed random that it only recently started happening so was a bit of a shock. And I know going to the doctors would be the sensible thing to do but being a self conscience teen it's not that likely. it is get worse or painful i will but its like the tiniest amount so we will just be careful. thanks :)
i think she means he did not penetrate her but plays with her genitals. i find a lot of people are confused as to what their vagina really is and use it to describe their labia and clitoris/entire pubic area.
if there is no penetration i don't think he should worry. and without penetration it is not your hymen. my first thought is not enough lubrication or perhaps you are rubbing something the wrong way and you are sensitive.
i would say go see your doctor and get a pap.
be safe
What exactly do you mean by he will play with your vagina but not go in? I need a little more information to help you get an answer. How old are you? Do you get periods? I am assuming he is using his finger or fingers to penetrate you? Give me some more information and i will try and answer your question. Waiting.