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can a woman get preg if the sperm went in but fell out?
THEY SIT DOWN TO HAVE SEX..THE SPERM GOES IN HER VAGINA BUT IT FALLS OUT.... BECAUSE SHE DOES NOT LAY DOWN AFTER SEX.
CAN SHE STILL BE OR GET PREGANT THAT WAY?
please answer...thank you.
When me a my boyfriend finishe having sex the sperm comes out even though I lay in bed for 30 mins settling..?? But once I stand up or even still lay down it still comes out?? Does it mean I can't have a baby??!!
hi after sex with my gf the spearm keeps coming out some spearm stay inside and she will get a pregnent
plz give me replay soon
plz give me replay soon
hi i'm 23 years old and me and my husband r trying to have a baby but i feel like the spearm keeps coming out and it wont stay in does that mean i can't have a baby does some sperm stay inside me i'm really confused i just ened my period to and i'm leaving to go vist my mom on sunday we r trying but it feels like it's not working help!
it is best to have sex the day of and the day after your ovulation if you havnt already got one get an ovulation test you can get them over the counter thay are really helpful and have all the info they help you to chart your cycles and tell you when your ovulating.
id just like to add something to the earlier conversations if i am correct the reason for these forums are for us women no matter how young or old or how wide our knowledge is to ask questions that are concerning us no matter how silly or uneducated they may seem everyone needs to remember that we are all here to help each other and pass on our best knowledge of the quetions asked. we dont all have the confidence to ask friends or relatives or to get the books with the relevent info. its a great thing for young girls to go somewhere to ask the questions they need answered without the face to face embarrassment that they may feel i too am i young woman and i come here for these exact reasons i have questions i need to be answered and no matter how basic they are to other people to me they are important and they need to be answered just remember that we need to encourage young girls to ask any questions they need answers to to prevent un wanted pregnancy and consequences of any other type and to give what ever info. that may be of help all i ask is we all give the support we want in return and dont judge people on the basics of the questions were all here for the same reason we want help!
just concerned were not looking out for each other!
just concerned were not looking out for each other!
i really want to know....
which day is best for sex when trying to concieve...?
is it the day exactly on ovaluation...or is it on the fertile days before? which works best?
which day is best for sex when trying to concieve...?
is it the day exactly on ovaluation...or is it on the fertile days before? which works best?
COMMUNITY LEADER
I didn't bleed the first time I had sex, but I had been using tampons for a while. There might have already been some stretching or otherwise of the hymen tissue from the tampons so it didn't do the classic "tearing" thing.
I agree its easier to talk to "real" people then looking it up on a medical site. I would not have come to medhelp.org message boards if I ONLY wanted to read the medical sites. I only suggested it to knickknack where she can get additional info. I check it all out, the sites, the message boards etc. Mmessage boards to see if others went or are going through the same thing etc.
But if you log on to a message board you got to be prepared and ready to take the feedback. And I don't mean taking insults from people, but you will encounter all kinds of people. Some people will ask questions, are surprised about certain questions from the posters. If posters are sensitive to that I suggest to also get info from medical sites which are all listed on "Google" as well as "Ask Jeeves" I think that is the name I used to log on there before I logged on to Google.
Sometimes its good to hear what others have to say, but sometimes it can also scare the hell out of you. Just because somebody had a very serious experience with an illness or with meds does not mean others will experience the same. I would not let it upset me, but a good friend of mine got highly upset when she logged on a health message board and asked other posters if there are any on the board who have a "low white blood count" like she has . The first response she got from a poster was "its leukemia". She was devastated, called me and cried, couldn't get an appointment with her doc right away so she went to the ER and told what this poster told her. She was devastated. Of course the docs told her never to listen to people and let the doctors make the diagnosis. It turned out she had NO illness at all, and that her white blood count always has been a little on the low side, and still is, and was told by the docs that some people just have that or are born with it.
Had she logged on a medical site first before asking question on a message board she'd have read that a low white blood count could have MANY reasons, and leukemia is named along with tons of other possibilities.
But if you log on to a message board you got to be prepared and ready to take the feedback. And I don't mean taking insults from people, but you will encounter all kinds of people. Some people will ask questions, are surprised about certain questions from the posters. If posters are sensitive to that I suggest to also get info from medical sites which are all listed on "Google" as well as "Ask Jeeves" I think that is the name I used to log on there before I logged on to Google.
Sometimes its good to hear what others have to say, but sometimes it can also scare the hell out of you. Just because somebody had a very serious experience with an illness or with meds does not mean others will experience the same. I would not let it upset me, but a good friend of mine got highly upset when she logged on a health message board and asked other posters if there are any on the board who have a "low white blood count" like she has . The first response she got from a poster was "its leukemia". She was devastated, called me and cried, couldn't get an appointment with her doc right away so she went to the ER and told what this poster told her. She was devastated. Of course the docs told her never to listen to people and let the doctors make the diagnosis. It turned out she had NO illness at all, and that her white blood count always has been a little on the low side, and still is, and was told by the docs that some people just have that or are born with it.
Had she logged on a medical site first before asking question on a message board she'd have read that a low white blood count could have MANY reasons, and leukemia is named along with tons of other possibilities.
barbarella- You were very lucky to have someone willing to explain all of this to you at twelve. People grow up in different places, too, though. I'm in the bible belt, boarding VA and TN... it's a very difficult topic. And for the record, I was concerned about my BC and pregnancy, googled it and THIS is where I ended up. Yeah, there are other sites, but this is on the front page and it's easier to talk to real people than read medical facts on a page.
Knickknack- about sex. The first time I had sex, at seventeen, it hurt, but I didn't bleed b/c I had been using tampons. Don't get discouraged about the pain. I didn't make it even all the way the first time, I made him stop even though we were going soft and slow. Even if it's slowly going in, your vagina has never had anything that big (this is saying something for the man, here) in it and it will have to stretch before it stops hurting. Your man loves you, though, and will understand why you may not be able to get it all the way in the first time. Lubricant helps. :o)
Knickknack- about sex. The first time I had sex, at seventeen, it hurt, but I didn't bleed b/c I had been using tampons. Don't get discouraged about the pain. I didn't make it even all the way the first time, I made him stop even though we were going soft and slow. Even if it's slowly going in, your vagina has never had anything that big (this is saying something for the man, here) in it and it will have to stretch before it stops hurting. Your man loves you, though, and will understand why you may not be able to get it all the way in the first time. Lubricant helps. :o)
Your very welcome Knicknack. I meant to tell you earlier that I am very sorry to hear about what happened with your brother, but that I really respect your waiting. I wish I had. I don't regret what I did or who I did it with, but I wish I would have waited. kThat first person is someone who is with you for the rest of your life. You'll never forget them. Luckily, mine was someone whom I can still talk to and respect, despite my wrongdoings and our inability to acually STAY together after highschool. haha.. At seventeen we think we know everything...
Hopefully you'll never have to worry about that. You've already got a head start.
Hopefully you'll never have to worry about that. You've already got a head start.
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i thought it sounded a little rude is all. no offense to any one. some people just ask questions if they do not know the answer. sorry
i thought it sounded a little rude is all. no offense to any one. some people just ask questions if they do not know the answer. sorry
I do think its great that you are trying to find out information before you have sex. However, at the risk of sounding extrememly old fashioned, please wait until you are married. Having a child is a very, very strenuous, time consuming, life altering decision, and it is hard even for couples who are married and have tried for a long time.
When you're not married, it adds a whole other layer to it. I know there are women on here who have chosen to have babies with their partners while not being married, but please, for the sake of your own stability and confidence, please wait until you are married. If you've waited this long, why not go ahead and wait until your wedding night to have sex?
When you're not married, it adds a whole other layer to it. I know there are women on here who have chosen to have babies with their partners while not being married, but please, for the sake of your own stability and confidence, please wait until you are married. If you've waited this long, why not go ahead and wait until your wedding night to have sex?
okay I will check out the books..but since I can't get to a library or store now.... I am just here asking what is on my mind...
I also want to know does everyone who have sex for the first time bleed?.... if it "sex" is done slow and soft...does the girl still bleed? if so...for how long?....what amount?....
I also want to know does everyone who have sex for the first time bleed?.... if it "sex" is done slow and soft...does the girl still bleed? if so...for how long?....what amount?....
I also really recommend reading the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility by Toni Weschler. It will have a lot of information for you, about how to and not to get pregnant. But also it has a lot of information about your cycle and how it works. Good Luck.
Like I said in one of my posts above "Google" has tons of links on that issue. The link below is the first link I clicked on, there are tons of others.
www.babyhopes.com/articles/best-time.html
That does NOT mean you should not post questions on this message board its just some additional info if you care to know.
www.babyhopes.com/articles/best-time.html
That does NOT mean you should not post questions on this message board its just some additional info if you care to know.
Hey honey i lost my virginity at 17 and didnt know alot about sex and sperm and how it really worked . i am 23 now an have two kids and am married so any Q's i can ask my DH. but there are books out there for you to read but its alot more reasuring to get the answers you seek from a real person so i say ask away there are so many women on here that are very smart and if we know anything we will try to help.
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Well said, dear. The only excellent sex-education class I ever got was when I was a freshman in college, and it was something of an anomaly. Nowdays it is even more rare, because the issue has been re-politicized in the era of more conservative/religious/abstinence-based approaches supported by many school boards. The class I took probably wouldn't be allowed today. And CERTAINLY nobody in a college freshman health class full of 100 kids would ask something like whether sitting in a chair and having the semen run out later would result in pregnancy. (The closest thing I remember is a guy asking where the semen went after sex, and the professor said, "Women know where it goes," and didn't say more. Big fat help. And that was in a GOOD class.)
Ask away, younger women. Posters on this forum are embarassed at very little, and will do our best to tell you our own experience, what our doctors have said, or what we have read. Most of this will be useful information, and it can also lead you to sources to google or books to read.
Good luck and God bless!
Ask away, younger women. Posters on this forum are embarassed at very little, and will do our best to tell you our own experience, what our doctors have said, or what we have read. Most of this will be useful information, and it can also lead you to sources to google or books to read.
Good luck and God bless!
You say you don't want to get pregnant. What about birth control? i.e. the pill, the shot, condoms etc. Does your religion condemn any kind of birth control?
lol..It's okay...
I just want to know now...everything I didn't want to know earlier BUT at the same time...I don't want to stress about it and have it on my mind 24/7..... this will be hard to do... but i will try my best....because ofcourse i want it to happen.
I just want to know now...everything I didn't want to know earlier BUT at the same time...I don't want to stress about it and have it on my mind 24/7..... this will be hard to do... but i will try my best....because ofcourse i want it to happen.
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