can someone help me

[finder101]

Dear Dr.

I hope you are fine and in a good health , I would be please if you could help me in this matter with reasonable answer coz you are an expert and doctor so ,

Is it true ,Is there a way to tell, if a woman has had many sexual partners by looking at her vagiana or her inner labia  , is it true if her inner labia is so out and her vagaina hole shows and her color is not pink and if I feel her loose inside mean she had alot of partners ??
she told me she didnt have sex for 4 years and she had only 2 so why i feel her loose ??

plz answer me

Thanks & regards
  Emy

[pixijal]

This is a patient to patient forum.  
There are no dr.'s on the specific forum.
No, there is no way to tell by looking at her how many sexual partners she has had.  Absolutely not.  You think she is 'loose'?  IF you don't like it, or trust what she has to say, then find someone else.  

[sparkeler]

There is no way to tell if a woman has had alot of sexual partners.  First of all labias come in all different shapes, sizes, and colors.  Secondly, she may produce alot of secretions which means she could be really wet.  Lastly, if your a guy, you are probably just a really small dude.  

[PGB]

HAHAHAHA....It does sound that way, doesn't it?  This isn't the first time this question has been asked here...can't remember if it was the same person before or not...if it was, get over it already!!!  It's not a rainbow, for heaven's sake.

[jewels8888]

ooooooooookkkkkkkk!!!!
believe it or not women come in different shape and size.
i am curious, why does it matter?
you should focus on your present time together and not her past.
if you have a healthy trusty sexual relationship does it really matter? and were is your trust?

[sparkeler]

I know.  I hate when guys ask that question.  If you don't like the vagina then go find a different girl, (or go find a boyfriend.)

[baby4me?]

Yep, I think you just must have too small a penis...ever think about that?

[boosty]

hahahhahahahahah. i hope thats not true. there is no way that thats true. we are all different down there and unless the name of your past relationships have all been tattood inside your vigina (vagina), there is now way of knowing.

[anxiousmomtobe?]

Okay, this forum just made my day.  It has been much to serious on here lately.

To the original poster, you cannot tell by a women's vagina the number of partners she has had.  If you can't trust her and you don't like having sex with her for goodness sakes find someone else.

[boosty]

to the person who posted this question . its me again. i forgot to mention that maybe you shouldnt make your partner feel weird and uncomfortabl about this. its very normal and every woman is different down there and dont make her feel uncomfortable . God knows all women are a bit self conciounce anyway.

[RockRose]

Finder - you seem desperate for an answer here,  for some reason.  No matter how many people tell you no,  it's not possible,  you keep on and on asking the same question.  

Here's an idea - go buy a lie detector test.  You can actually buy them.   Then ask her.  

We all can't wait to hear the results.

[Merndog]

I hate to ask this, but I'm wondering if you are asking because of some cultural expectation that possibly the men in your culture have with women.

You cannot, from looking at a women's genital area, tell if she has had a lot of partners.  What everyone here said is right.  If you don't feel you can trust her, then move on.  

Has she asked you how many partners you've been with?  Have you been honest with her?  As long as both of you are honest about STD's and you love each other, why the heck does this even matter?

Unless of course, your culture stipulates it.

Or, you could be "a really small dude"  I liked that one a lot!