confused

[nikki or ninnie poo]

ok this is embrassing to tell but here it goes  3 months ago i cheated on the love of my life and sex with my ex carl atwell and we had unprotected sex twice and he cummed in me and i didnt end up pregnant how is that

[tnt406]

HI NIKKI YOU DIDN'T GET PREGNANT BECAUSE YOU WHERE NOT OVULATING AT THAT TIME.WHERE YOU WANTING TO GET PREGNANT?I WOULD BE WORRIED ABOUT STD'S NOW.YOU NEED TO GO AND HAVE SOME TESTS DONE,AND MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE STILL HEALTHY.IF YOU DO WANT TO GET PREGNANT IN THE FUTURE YOU NEED TO BE HEALTHY.MAKE AN APPOINTMENT WITH YOUR DOCTOR.IF HE ASKS YOU WHY YOU WANT THE TESTS DONE ALL YOU HAVE TO SAY IS YOU HAD UNPROTECTED SEX,THAT'S ALL.YOU DON'T HAVE TO TELL HIM YOU CHEATED ON YOUR BOY FRIEND.PLEASE GET YOUR SELF CHECKED OUT,JUST TO BE ON THE SAFE SIDE.TAKE CARE OF YOUR SELF HON TNT406.

[oceans3]

just curious how old you are? i WISH the young girls out there would BE CAREFUL and also find out how the body works, and facts on pregnancy BEFORE venturing out there and having unprotected sex. i too did things when i was in my early teens (not sex however) but stuff i was too young to be doing and did not understand what could happen. there are soo many diseases out there and having a baby is HARD even for a person like me in their 30's. if you are young, it would be 10 times harder physically, emotionally and financially if you did get pregnant. trust me. in addition, you do not know (maybe you do) who else carl has been having unprotected sex with. you sleep with him, you sleep with the other girls he is sleeping with.  who are those girls sleeping with? it goes on. i would go to the dr. just to be on the safe side and get checked out. then, once i was ok, i would stay w. the "love of your life" and use protection. if you stray w. carl, use protection w. him too. maybe you should let your guy know whats going on. its ONLY fair to him and he deserves to know if he should be getting checked out for any diseases as well. good luck and be careful out there!

[oceans3]

based upon your other post (way below, the last post i think) i am now wondering since you had unprotected sex w. your "ex" carl and he came inside of you, was it your idea to have that happen w. your guy that you are with now? so that in case you do end up pregnant your guy will think the baby is his? if this is the case, you are playing with FIRE.

[IE girl]

maybe you were not ovulating or maybe carl is SHOOTING BLANKS!!ha ha just be careful he might not get you pregnant but could give you an STD!!! TAkE CARE

[IE girl]

Maybe carl is SHOOTING BLANKS!! BUt be careful STD's might be a possibility