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discolored and broken inner labia

hi... ok i need real real help....
im 21 n about to get married in another 6 or 7 months m still a virgin... sometimes back i just found tat my inner labia is being discolored frm its edges... and it has cracks on it too.... however my left inner labia has a big cut on it to the end tat it seperates it from rest of the inner left labia.... the other has cracks too but its not till the end... im very worried... i wont even hav my husband look at it.... it wud embaress me like anythin.... inside its not as pink as it is suppose to be... i wonder why?
plz plz plz help me.... i need real advice
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Stop worrying about it! The edges of the labia can be jagged and "cracked" looking. They aren't all smooth. Not all labia are pink, in fact, most are not.

No two labia look the same. Our labia can have different textures (smooth, or bumpy), different edges (smooth or jagged), different colors (purple, pink, brown, black, nude, etc.), different sizes (3/4-4 inches), and all around look different. One side of the labia minora may be far larger than the other side, this is normal. Most labia are not identical. Heck, some women only have a labia minora on one side.They are ALL beautiful and unique.

The answer is learning to love what you have and realizing it is not only normal but common. This is not a problem. It is normal. Look at tumblr's 'Large Labia Project' to see some of the variation that exists in labia - don't worry if you don't see a similar one, like I said, no two labia are the same. In survey's, men either like a long labia, or don't care.

Porn has RUINED what women think their labia should look like. Pornstars get their labia cut off and bleached. It is NOT an accurate depiction. If you look at porn from 10-15 years ago, they all had normal labia, ranging is size, color, and texture. In fact, the majority had labia that was 2+ inches.
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i hav tears on my inner labia and on the lft inner labia one tear seems so lose that it also seems rather dead... i tried to touch it n check but as i tried to stretch it... the upper part of it came off... n now its hurting me.... maybe da hurting is because of stretchin n all .. buh i dunno wat to do...
im 21 n still a virgin plz help me out anybody...
is it sometthing serious plz hep me
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thanks alot .... it really made me feel better.... yes im not suffering from any infction or pain.... its just the look im worried abt... anyhow thanks alot u did revive some of my self confidence... :))
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Unless you are in pain or suffering an infection, stop worrying.  Men don't care what you look like and neither will your husband-to-be. You inherited your genitalia from a long line of your female relatives and do you know how many of them were turned away by men? None! Otherwise you wouldn't be here. Even the best looking vaginas aren't pretty. That's never stopped anyone.
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