does too much fingering in the vulva can be dangerous??

[naina_sharma2]

I am a 23 year old girl and I am virgin but my boyfriend is fingering my vulva(not vagina, upper side lips) since past four years and now it has become a quite frequent practice. We are not planning to make out till now. So is this fingering gonna affect our sex or child birth? because now I have started getting pain in my stomach just after the fingering which I nvr had before. please help me with this, I am damn confused..

[noreenwawuda]

Sometimes fingering down there might have some effects. Maybe your partners hand are dirty. This might cause infections. Like the std;s. So also have to be carefully. Although this is one of the safest means to avoid any contamination. One can orgasm if done the right way. It does not also cause pregnancy. However, you have to take some precautions. There might be some pain that comes with it. Maybe you were dry. This caused the friction. No wonder you felt the pain. Or maybe there might be some contamination present. If you never use to feel this way before. You can be thinking to go and see a doctor. It might be your partner hands were dirty. Or the dirt in his hands caused it. It is good if you keep your vulva clean. Although with all this said. I have never had fingering causing in permanent problems. Like future fertility. Or an effect to the children. So you need not to worry. Next time when you will be doing so make sure your DP hands are clean. This will prevent any kind of infection. You should also ensure that you are wet enough.

[specialmom]

Nope, think it is pretty harmless.  As long as it is pleasurable to you.  good luck