everyone

hi everyone,
i had mirena iud placed december 02,2009 i went back december 11,2009 to get my threads more shorter because my partner complained that it bothered him so we tried it again after i got my threads shorter and my obgyn told me that she can't cut them any shorter but it still bothers my partner i don't know y he says that he can still feel it and wants mirena iud to be taken out and ever since i got it i've been spotting up to this day i still do. I may take it off but i don't know what else is better than mirena iud and i really don't want to be taking birth control pills everyday. what should i do?? what do you all recommend besides mirena iud??