help me i wish to only please my wife

[bergymarried]

me and my wife have been married three years yet have only spent about 4 months togther due to immagration and military. throught that time i have only been able to give her two orgasms during sex. she can orgasm with her vibrator but not with me now. before me she told me she had not had one for six years before this. she told me that large penises dont do it for her and i do not have a large penis about 5in long and about 5in around at its thickest spot. after those tow times i was able to give her the orgasm i have yet to accomplish it again. she says my penis has grown and that might be the reason, yet i cannot tell any difference. all i want to do is give my wife what she gives me every time. please help me. i am 27 and my wife is 29. i am american and my wife is russian. i am in the military. my wife has had one child. not sure if any of this is helpful but if you need any more info ask. i just want her to be happy. well she says happy and she doesnt mind yet i feel very inaddiquite and concerend of how long those thoughts of hers will last. want to come back for this deployment and give her the best sex of her life . please your help would be forever gratful. thank you.

[RockRose]

I agree with Bigsissie,  If she's using a vibrator regularly,  she probably won't be able to orgasm through sex or manual stimulation.  She's trained her body to respond to a much much more intense type of stimulation.  

[bigsissie]

Go to a adult shop and get a vibrating **** ring. That basically turns you penis into a vibrator or check into things that you can put on. Her use of the vibrator may have caused her to be less sensitive over the years so you should not feel bad. The constant vibrating can desensitize the nerves in and around the vagina It may be worth asking her if she could stop using it for a while before you get home.  Best of luck.

Sissie