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Okay so i am 16 and me and my boyfriend have been dating a while, we just had sex for the first time about a week ago and i was dead dry. I was so embarrassed i started to cry, so i tried spit which actually worked just as good as any lube problly would, but it still did kind of hurt, and now i don't know what to do. we would lie to have sex again but when he trys to get me wet, even be fingering me, im just not getting wet yet i am still turned on? I will try the water, and fish oil vitamins, but if those don't work, could i really have an STD....?
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katiiie07~ok was it ur first time ever or ur first time with ur bf because the first time u have sex is more awkward than anything else but as time gos on u get to know what works for u and what doesnt i wouldnt worry about it and no u dont have a sti try lube or ky gel to see if it helps also tell ur bf to be very patient as it usually takes us girls body a little longer to get aroused than men.
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It's common for some women not to produce much lubrication.  Common enough that there are products to take its place. K-Y jelly is one and it would work better than spit. You don't need much of it either. Good luck.
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Okay, I'm having the same problem, but I've been dating the guy for ten months and I've always gotten wet, always. We had sex almost a month ago and ever since then I've had a challenging time getting wet when he fingers me. I don't know what to do?! I highly doubt you have an std, I believe its common. Are you physically attracted to him? Also after doing such "functions" to the vagina repetively can make it more sore and uncomfortable and less likely to be able to want to have sex.
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