i cant masterbate

[justtme]

hello, i am 18 and i am not sexually active, as i cannot masterbate. i have tried inserting things into my vagina but it just stings really bad and doesnt feel good at all. i have been like this for as long as i can remember. i cannot use tampons either. what is wrong with me? im scared i wont ever be able to have sexual intercourse.... is this whats gonna happen? please help!

[justtme]

thanks so much for your help everyone! i took your words for advice and its abit better, i guess i have to keep trying, but im glad to know im not the only one! thank you so much! =)

[marra315]

its called vaginitis , mucsles contracting causing spasms that prevent insertion of anything caused by anxiety or fear of pain ! just lube it up and you will be fine x x

[saturnine]

your vagina might just be really tight. my best friend claims she was never able to use tampons until a year ago (we're 22). she also bought a vibrator and couldn't use it because her vagina was so tight. i think it happens to a lot of people..i forget what it is called but the gyno has a name for it, if it's severe enough. but don't fret too much. like marra said, stimulating your clitoris should help, and using lube is a good idea. if you're into it, and it's still not working, that's still normal. but for your own sake, the next time you go to the gyno bring it up. maybe they'll be able to tell you something. :)

[gretchen36]

Marra is absolutely right!

[marra315]

hi , you need to stimulate your clitoris first to get arroused then insert things as you need lube to make it feel good and you need to relax when you do it !