Hi, Did you find out if you're pregnant? I'm 13 days late for period, age 37 and trying to conceive. All home pregnancy tests are negative. I have a 25 day cycle and am never late so very confused. Would love to hear how things work out.
There are so many comments where an outcome isn't stated and it seems a lot of people go through this! I'll update what happens with me. Good luck for the outcome you want!

I am currently 12 days late.. I have had 3 children and been on the iud for the past five yrs after having my 3rd child.. Got it taken out in October had a normal but heavy period and same in November and the same in December 21 2012. Since then I haven't had my period and don't know why..  sometimes I feel prego sometimes I don't . I've taken 5 prego test including a doctor test and all where negative ... We are trying, and hate taking test cause every negative hurts.. I Well be making appointment to get a blood test next week just afraid it well be negative also .. But this has never happened to me before I normally have my period every month down to the exact day, that is  until my iud but then I did even after it for three months so idk.. Just keeping my fingers crossed hoping but not expecting for the best.. Wish all of u luck and the outcome u want :)

So I am very scared. I have been having a lot of signs of pregnancy. For example my boobs hurt all the time I eat 4 times s much as i use to my back and my stomach have killer cramps my period has been highly irregular I have gained some weight and im always tired my boyfriend was the 1st to notice I was beginning to have most of these symptoms and hot concerned so we decided to talk to his mom speaking I dont have one. She suggested I take a test when I took the test I failed it. We decided I wasnt pregnant but them my period came 3 days late and his mom told me that I might  be like her niece alisha and be completely normal when pregnant she went 5 month with minor symptoms but because she still had her period like always she thought she couldn't be pregnant but even then alisha still took the urine test repeatedly she always failed then one morning alisha woke up and had a huge belly they thought she was having a pancreatic problem and found out through an ultrasound she was 6months pregnant. So we decided to go to the hospital and see if we could get a blood test or ultrasound done but they did the urine test 1st and due to the fact I tested positive for the bladder infection and negative for the pregnancy they blamed all of my symptoms on my infection. The only problem is I have no signs of an infection other than the cramps in my back my urine isn't cloudy doesn't burn and isn't strong smelling. But thats what they said I have I went home and researched some more and discovered my other symptoms of nausea stomach pain sleepiness and sore breast are not covered by a bladder infection but it was possible to have both. My boyfriends mom is going to be taking me to a local pregnancy bus to have blood work done . I am just worried someone is going to see me there and tell my father who still doesn't know about anything not even the hospital trip. I am also worried that I may have already harmed the baby due to the fact I did smoke some in the month of January have had some alcoholic drinks and energy drinks  not to mention I was running/ walking atleast 15 miles a week I believe I might have become pregnant in December but the fact I am so unsure scares me the most. I am also afraid to hear my families reaction speaking we just lost my lil sister in October  ... that and I am 16. I really need some help and advice soon. I am so scared and I just need to know if I am or not.... I just want an answer.

I swear I have every symptom of pregnancy...some I could possibly imagine in my head but others have to be real.

VERY regular periods..down to the minute on time until the last 2 months.... they are as follows.

Periods:
Nov 27th-30th HEAVY (Regular)
Dec 29th ONLY spotting until the 1st of Jan
Jan 25th ONLY spotting/really light until 27th

*unprotected sex throughout all months..regularly and often* unintentionally more often during my fertile time of the month :)

Symptoms:
Nausea .. usually until I eat something then I feel better
major BLOATING
mild cramps pretty much daily
constipated (but that is usual for me I don't go #2 often)
peeing A LOT (that's also normal for me I have a weak/small bladder i guess)
moody/emotional
headaches
tired like crazy!!
very dizzy most of the time

now some of those I can imagine or make up in my head here are some that i could not make up if i tried...

my skin is broken out like crazy (that only happens to me during my period)
my boobs/nipples are sore/tender on occasions .. right now they are mildly throbbing
my natural nails are LONG AND STRONG and that has NEVER EVER EVER happened to me EVER! i'm totally shocked by this. years i have tried to grow natural nails and i never could they would break quickly and easily..not now they are the longest they've ever been and this is just within a week or so i've noticed how strong and long they are!!


now I'm a little chubby so i can't really tell a difference in my belly..except for how hard it is way down below my belly button..it's like a rock right above my girl parts... and pretty hard at the very top like almost right underneath my boobs.. so kind of hard at both ends but not in the middle..hm? could be because of the bloating i guess. i'm not sure. p.s I've never had a baby before .. so this is all new to me deciding if i am or i'm not or whats going on with my body. am i making these things up that are happening to me or are they real?!

I have NOT tested because i don't want my boyfriend to know I think i'm pregnant.. until I know for sure. I'm not sure if it's too early to test or if i'm 2 months along or what to do and I have to be sneaky about it and we are NEVER apart. I also have a DR. appt Tuesday for my back .. and i'm scared i won't know before then if i am or not and DR. might want to do xrays. I'm not good with dr.s or anything so i'm already really scared now i'm extremely scared!!

help help help!! any similar experiences..advice...opinions. think i'm pregnant? crazy? aahh help!! anything anyone plesae! i do want a baby ...my boyfriend not so much (for good reasons) however i would be ecstatic so i'm hoping i am kind of ... i don't want to be let down again soooo i'm scared to test scared to go to doctors .. ah!

Ok my period somewhat came on the first very light at first then bled one time kind of normal then back to nothing again my so called period came early i always have normal periods.  Im not having cramps so to speak its more like an uncomfortablepressure on my left side when i sit certain ways it brcomes more unvomfortable. Lower back.pain and peeing alot no burning no itching no smell. Also before my so called period i had a watery white milky looking discharge no odor. Im just uncomfortable could i be pregnant or what

Please scared Please

Hi Everyone just wondering if any of you have had negative hpt and blood tests to later find out you were in fact pregant? because i went off the pill late october and my last period started on the 29th of Nov and lasted about 4 days and since then my husband and i have been trying for a baby and i have missed 2 periods and i have never missed a period before, i had very light spotting from the 21.1.13 - 23.1.13 i only noticed it when i went to the toilet, I've never had anything like it before definately wasnt like a period have taken many hpt's all have come back negative i had a blood test done on 14.1.13 came back negative, I'm driving myself crazy i want so badly to be pregnant but all the tests say negative but then why hasn't my period come anyway i have booked into see the doctor again tomorrow so hopefully she can give me some answers

Hi Everyone just wondering if any of you have had negative hpt and blood tests to later find out you were in fact pregant? because i went off the pill late october and my last period started on the 29th of Nov and lasted about 4 days and since then my husband and i have been trying for a baby and i have missed 2 periods and i have never missed a period before, i had very light spotting from the 21.1.13 - 23.1.13 i only noticed it when i went to the toilet, I've never had anything like it before definately wasnt like a period have taken many hpt's all have come back negative i had a blood test done on 14.1.13 came back negative, I'm driving myself crazy i want so badly to be pregnant but all the tests say negative but then why hasn't my period come anyway i have booked into see the doctor again tomorrow so hopefully she can give me some answers

So.... i'll be five months late come the end of this month.. but in reality it's really on two to three months late because i typically have them every two or three months. but anyways... My boobs have been really sore, i've felt like I might get sick everyone almost all the time, and i've been beyond tired. I've spotted here and there but nothing big, it was just alil pink. Now, i'm getting lightheaded and dizzy and my sugar is blood sugar has been getting high even though i eat a diet with very little sugar in it. I'm not really sure if I'm pregnant or not. I've taken three test and all came back negative and am planning on taking another one very soon. im just getting very nervous that i am or that something else may be wrong. Any comments to whether or not you may think i am?

hi there, been reading all the comments, and i am a little worried, i had my last period on the 25th nov 2012, i had a slight bleed of a wipe of a tissue, told a friend and she says it may be implantation, so i have done 4 home tests, 2 docs tests and a blood test and all come bac negative, i am tired all the time, i have major pains in my back 24 / 7, not sick and i do not produce milk, i already have a 10 yr old already but i didnt realise i was pregnant with her till i was 5mths.  I went to the doctor at a n e and she said i had kidney stones lol, that was 2 wks ago, i have a scan on the 15th to see what is happening, but could i still be pregnant with the faluse tests

I Also am going through the same thing here, I taken Blood Test, Pregnancy Test & there all coming back Negative, I haven't had my Normal Period since June8th, 2days ago I started Bleeding Blood & white stuff, I went to get checked out and everything came back negative, I know I'm Pregnant you can feel the kicking and moving constantly, but everyone Refuses to do an Ultrasound on me to check & see what's going on, I have all these Stretch marks, my boobs have gotten bigger, my stomach has also gotten bigger, my legs are swollen & Sore, I'm always Tired, is it possible that my HGC is Really know and there Not catching it?
Should I wait it out and See what Happens?
Or Should I give up Hope all together?

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Hm.  I really think it is nearly impossible to be pregnant and have a negative pregnancy test.  The test checks for the hormone that a fetus produces and this hormone has to be there for a fetus to grow.  If you beleive something is wrong or that you are indeed pregnant and that absolute one in 22 million people that has an odd pregnancy test---  (as they are 99.8% accurate)---  then yes, absolutely get a full exam.  You should any way to see what could be causing all of your symptoms.  good luck

Well my Mom had the Same Situation with my little sister Negative everything & a few months Later she came out, I'm not sure if I'm just like my Mom, or if I'm not Producing enough HGC that is having a hard time reading a Baby in there, or what, every woman is different, now a days.

Well, not so much really.  It would be, again, so very very rare to have a negative test past the intial phases of pregnancy like the days before a period is due.  The body is a system and while a woman may react differently to different things, our bodies generally work the same.  That is why we know when a kidney is failing, when a temperature is elevated, etc.  So, really, it is pretty safet o say that if one is past 4 weeks of pregnancy, she would have a positive test 99.8 percent of the time.  good luck

Hello ladies,
Okay well ill give you a quick run down. My partner and I are not trying for kids for at least another year or so, and I have been on the pill for a little over three years now. I do sometimes miss a day or forget to take it on the correct time, but I do take it as soon as possible.

Anyway, lately I have been experiencing some pregnancy symptoms such as, going to the toilet more often, fatigue, and tired of the time and comes so randomly as well, I will had barely done anything and feel like I have no energy and have the need to rest. I have adapted a great sense of smell, and am experiencing like slight burps kinda more so a hiccup but a little burp. I'm a bit more gassier as well and I am to a lady to be gassy. Headaches, constipation (sorry for that) and yeah lower back pains etc. and sometimes cramps, also every time I get up or get out the car I get a little dizzy and light headed. I haven't experienced this before so I do not understand.


When I was expecting my period , it did not come, instead I had spotting, it was barely anything, and colour was brown , and I didn't understand why this was? And so I googled into it , and came up with "Implantation bleeding" .. Spotting was going on varying from brown to a pinky red colour and was so light that i wouldn't even have to wear a panty liner. This all started on a Friday and lasted till the Monday after my partner and I had intercourse and it got a little heavier , but still not enough blood for a period. Not at all. Blood still varies from a light brown discharge colour to a light pinky red colour till today, so far has been 6 days. I took a pregnancy test and blood test at the doctors two days ago and both came out negative.
My curiosity lands on, could I be pregnant still? Because if this is implantation bleeding, which I'm starting to doubt, do I need to take the pregnancy test a few days after it stops? And or what am I Going through? Could this be a sign for miscarriage? :'(


Please ladies if you have any advice , it would most keep me at ease.
Thank you

Btw I have posted this on two other sites to get other inputs. I want to see what others have gone through ? And I'm not just thinking things. Thank you

i missed my period in january then went doctors all they did was give me a test it came out negative so they told me to do them every week i then came on the beginning of febuary but light and only for a thew days which was odd i normally have sharp pains in my stomach at the bottom and now recently my nipples are reli sore i must of took loads of test but they all have come out negative so i dont know what it is :s ??

Hello I just got done reading your story kinda sound like mine just wanted to know did you find something out Ru with child&also did you have a period in Feb.was it regular Good Luck Im curious hoping Im Pregnant been ttc for along time&recemtly found out I have fibroids maybe why its hard for me to conceive

My stomach constantly hurts. My lower back gets to hurting. The lower part of my stomach starts to itch. I got a brown mark on my belly. Last period was back in december. It lasted 18 days and quit. The last time i had sex was back in november. My stomach feels stiff. Too scared to take a pregnancy test. I get headaches a lot and i also get hot and sweat. I need help!

Why are you afraid to take a pregnancy test?  Better to be pregnant and not know it for sure?  If you had a period that lasted 18 days, that is highly abnormal.  I would wonder if you don't actually have a gynocological problem going on.  You don't really describe symptoms of pregnancy.  Take a test and go see your doctor.  good luck

Hi guys i am in the same situation but have the added worry that I am 47 literally in a few days. I had my last period beginning of January and have always been regular as clockwork.I have been having unprotected sex for the last 2 years with my new partner (after being dumped unceremonously by my ex for a younger model) and have 3 grown up daughters.  We would love to have a child together but in all honesty never ever thought possible because of my age.  Anyway I am now over 14 days late but negative tests and blood tests.  So thinking I was menopausal asked for that to be checked but apparently my eostrogen levels are very high and I am showing no signs as yet of the menopause.  I kind of feel pregnant nausea at certain foods but dont know whether this is imagined....also getting feelings of period but no show which I remember experiencing in my previous pregnancies...Its so confusing and also because of my age I worry about delays in getting diagnosed ...also wondering if theres a higher risk of ectopic at my age which i understand would give a negative test....any older ladies out there would love to know whether it is possible I am pregnant...incidentally I am quite a young 47 or so I get told anyway..

Hi there and welcome.  Well, believe it or not, too much estrogen can also cause you to have late periods.  I had this same thing in my 20's.  In fact, sadly, too much estrogen is an infertility issue.  Ugh.  If you google high estrogen levels and infertility you will see that they are related.  

I also had many symptoms that were similar to what you describe when I had a high estrogen level.  Including long cycles.  

If you are seeking pregnancy at 47 (I'm around your age by the way), I would head straight to a fertility specialist.  Most likely it will take some intervention to conceive especially with a hormonal imbalance. good luck dear

My daughter is 2 yrs old, when my boyfriend and I were trying to conceive her the first month I got a negative on both a home pregnancy test and a blood test. It wasn't until a month later when I decided to do a test that I got a positive and I was very surprised because I did an ultrasound and my doctor did not see anything. I was very happy though and she's a regular healthy 2 yr old. Trying to get pregnant again and my period did not come at all. I was actually suppose to finish today if it had and I've done 2 tests so far all negative, gonna see my doctor tomorrow. Hoping that I'm prego!!!

I'm in the same boat.  I'm 46, had unprotected sex on Feb. 5th (about 5 days before ovulation).  My period is due tomorrow but my breasts/nipples are unusually sore (haven't been sore in yrs during PMS) and I've taken two early pregnancy tests that both came back negative so far.  Tomorrow is the big day to see if AF shows up!   I've never been prg before and really nervous because of my age and some abnormal test results!  

OK, so I had sex about 2 weeks ago. And I was suppose to start my period about a week ago. Could I be pregnant? I am kinda having some "pregnancy" symptoms but I fear it could be from something else. I have been experiencing fatigue but with the fatigue I'm tired but I can't sleep. Also I have been experiencing nausea on and off. And obviously a week late period. But no swollen or sensitive breast. No appetite cravings. Also the last couple days i have been experiencing Dyspnea (difficulty breathing). I noticed it usually comes at night. It got so bad last night that i had to go to the hospital. In whuch they took a chest X-ray and an EKG. Both came out perfectly normal. So i am a little confused and scared. Could I still be pregnant or is there something else wrong with me??

  I have 3 children. With my second pregnancy I had taken at least 2 home pregnancy tests and had 2 urine tests in my doctors office and one blood test that all said negative before I was three months along. at 4.5 months I made an appt to see my OBGYN, and  because the doctor thought my abdomen felt firm they did an ultrasound, and that st how they discovered I was pregnant--on that same day they did a Urine test which was also negative.  I dont know how or why the HCG  did not show up in blood or urine tests, because my knowledge and understanding of the the human body tells me it should have been there. I realized in some instances " not enough" of the hormone is not being produced to be detected.  Just out of curiosity, when I was 7 months along--I took a home test that I had bought before the ultrasound and it turned up posituve.??  

I am 19 and I haven't had a period for 3 weeks. I am very regular usually. I would be 5 almost 6 weeks pregnant if I am. Blood and urine tests came back negative. But I am very dizzy, nauseated, and extremely moody, I am surprised my boyfriend still hang around as much as he does. My boobs hurt like crazy, I wake up in th middle of the night to pee. I have recently developed night sweats. I'm always tired. I just don't know. I feel pregnant, but I don't want to psych myself out. My boyfriend thinks I am some days and other days he doesn't.. I just want to know if I am or not, so I can start preparing.

My bf fingered me.. N m pretty sure he had ntng on his hand but ow wen m suppose to be getting my periods... I just had one drop of blood... What cud this be? Please help!!!

Hello,
I'm in the same boat as many of you...
AF is now 2 months late, which has never happened before... I'm like clockwork. I've taken about 20 HPT, and 1 blood test (quantitative) all negative. If I am indeed pregnant, I would be about 8 weeks gone. My boobs are s0 sore, and yesterday morning I noticed a dark blue vein that extends from the top of my left breast all the way down to my nipple (and thats the one that hurts most.) I haven't really had any morning sickness to speak of, but I've felt slightly queasy throughout the days for the past couple of weeks. I have some cramping in my lower abdomen (but no where near as bad as period cramps.) I find that I'm waking up in the middle of the night to go to the restroom, and making more trips throughout the day... I also have an unquenchable thirst. I've been having dreams, too. And this might be a stretch... because I haven't had any real food cravings... but my husband has. I have an appointment with OBGYN, but it's not until 4/29/13. If I'm right, I'll be 16 weeks gone by then. In the mean time I bought some OTC prenatals just in case, and cut out cigarettes almost completely.

My wife now is just over 2 mos late on her period and has absolutely no reason to believe she is not preg. we have done ALOT of research and the stories and all signs point to preg. didnt know how common this was. the dr told her she has an ovarian cyst, which as it turns out, a fetus in early status can look as such on an ultra-sound. to sore boobs, some constipation, always tired, always hungry, belly pudging out and gettin firm, nausea. she has been excersizing and you can tell, but she isnt losing weight, but GRADUALLY gaining lol. we both thank all of you for you stories. they have helped alot.

This makes me feel better because I stopped having periods in September but they put me on mess to get it back I never got it and I spotted in January for a day and since then I've gone through every pregnancy symptom possible but the tests keep coming up negative. Hopefully it will show up. I would be around 3 months if I am pregnant so maybe I wait out another month or so I'll try another test. My stomach has even got really tight and started to shape like I'm pregnant.

hello, after reading your posts I wanted to tell you my story because I thought maybe you guys can help me since I have similar symptoms to yours but not as far along, but here's my story I had my first child when I was 19 um I didn't figure out I was pregnant until I was 3 months but that was just because I didn't wasn't noticing signs and symptoms of my first pregnancy and I was new at that kind of stuff, I had my second kid of 3 years later um that 1 I knew I was pregnant right away when I got pregnant cause I had weird fluttery cramps and all the signs of being pregnant which already having 1 kid I knew what it felt like to be pregnant, so I know I was pregnant again I had taken 3 or 4 home pregnancy test and they all came back negative and when I and I haven't had my period In like 3 months that was just another added on sign telling me that I was pregnant so not having a home pregnancy test work I went 2 have the doctor so they could do a test it came back not negative but not positive either and the doctor said they detected A small amount of that hormone but not enough to tell me I was pregnant they thought it was a miscarriage, but I looked at the doctor and said no I haven't bled and almost 3 months. so she said come back in a week and we'll do another test so I came back in a week and my hormone levels have tripled there for giving me my positive pregnancy test, I had my tubes tied the day after I had a given birth to her because I have a complication with my uterus it's a bicornate uterus, I'm not sure if you know what that is but in the end that a woman has 2 uteruses instead of 1 kind of like in a heart shape, and I only found that out when I got pregnant I didn't know that before and then I found out that it's partially septated too and if you don't know what that means there's a blockage going halfway down between my 2 uteruses so with my first pregnancy I was on bed rest at 30 weeks and I delivered early  at 36 and a half weeks and with my next pregnancy I was on bed rest at 25 weeks for until 36 weeks and then was induced at 39 weeks and so that is the reason for my tubal but now 2 years later after having it done I have been having symptoms and signs that I might be pregnant. it started um with my last period it was Normal on January 25th was the last day of my period and I had intercourse with my boyfriend and then after that we went into February and a couple days before my period was supposed to start I started getting nauseous, which was normal because after I had my second child I felt really nauseated after every time I got pregnant but that was the only symptom I ever had. so after being 3 days late my symptoms started getting worse a and I started having more symptoms like tiredness I was thirsty more I was hungry more, going to the bathroom every hour. on the fourth day I'm supposed to have my period I started getting spotting and you know like that brown stuff before your period Actually starts the next 3 days there was bleeding but it was very light not normal not anything like my normal period, my normal period I would feel morning sickness type stuff for um like 3 days before it and then I would start my. 3 days later after that and it would last for like 7 to 10 days and it would start of light and it would get really really heavy. so I realize it kinda rambling and I don't know if all sit together and make sense some just going to some it up for you real quick, got my. In January it was normal February my period With 3 days late only lasted 3 days and was very very like a lot lighter than and normally its, I made a doctor's appointment to get a blood pregnancy test since the urine ones they weren't working real well and so then I was about 6 or 7 weeks a long when I went to have the blood pregnancy test and it just came back negative and then so she told me to come back in 3 weeks after I have this month period And then she she would do a bunch of test to try and figure out what's causing the symptoms I'm having, so after I got my negative to say that okay I'm not pregnant and today and change my mind because when I woke up I had really weird dreams and all of my pregnancy symptoms I'm having now I had with my other 2 pregnancies. tiredness I get worn out really quick I'm gaining weight my stomach actually getting bigger,  my boobs are getting bigger there tender I'm hungrier I'm thirstier I go to bathroom like every hour, I have really crazy dreams which I have only had when I've been pregnant I have heartburn which I only get when I'm pregnant. my mom doesn't want me to be pregnant I don't know why probably because you think I can handle it my boyfriend pretty much gloated to me in the doctor's office and they told me I wasn't pregnant so I just feel like everybody thinks I'm crazy because me and my body feel like I'm pregnant but there's no proof and nobody believes me cuz there's no proof, and I feel flutters and stuff in my body in it moving around and I know stuff changing in there and I just don't know what to do when I thought maybe you could have some answers for me or something for me to try.

Ok well I'm freaking out I think I'm going crazy my breast are sore my back hurts my hips hurt I missed a period already I'm nauseous I feel bloated I have minor headaches I all of last week when I was supposed to get my period I took a two test and dey both were negative :( I have period like cramps but no period I've been goin to the restroom more an not to be nasty I have diarrhea which I nv had cuz I was always constipated cuz I have a bad eating habit I really don't eat well I eat once a day or sometimes I forget but there's a possibility I'm pregnant and I'm scared because I'm only 15

hi i am really confused. i have missed my last period but recently started to have some spotting . it was not much but it was accompanied with sharp pain so i have took 4 pregnancy tests and all have come back positive but last night i went to the maternity ward and their test came back negative. i was really upset so i took another home test which says that i am pregnant . i dont know what to think can someone please help

my last mensus was on 26.01.2013. later i had sex only once on 05.02.2013. now i have missed my period.. i had urine home test on 22.02.2013 and it was negative, a few days ago , i went to doctor and the urine test is also negative.. but i having all symtoms (symptoms) of pregnancy , breast getting big, nipple feeling itchy, bloated stomach, lower abdomen pain , back pain and craving for food ,getting hungry very often & dizzyness.. i really dont know wat top do.. am very confused :(

I am now 3 weeks late and I've taken many home urine tests which were all negative. I went to the doctor at 2 weeks late they did a urine test which also came back negative... so confused and domy know where to go from here!

well my last period was 15th November 2012 and my periods are always on time we're now in march 2013 and still no period. Ive done pregnancy tests which have came back negative but one with a very very faded positive line. I finally dragged myself to the docs last week for a blood test which also came back negative. I literally have most of the symptoms and signs of pregnancy even started to get a bit of a belly. we were so convinced i was pregnant is there anyone who has had negative results and still been pregnant? If theres anyone to give me some advice please do so x

I was due for my periods on the 14th of March, on the 16th I had two blood spots when I wiped, I have not had anything since and it's now the 8th of April.

I have had 3 home tests but because I'm super impatient only 1 of those were done with the first morning urine. All came back negative (with my first, it was positive within 2-3 seconds).  I went to the doctors and had a blood test, it came back negative and he said that my periods were probably late due to stress.

I have seen that it is more common that I originally thought for these tests to come back negative but for the woman to still be pregnant, but I have also seen that some are because of illness. I just hope that I am, since I have been trying for 3 years now and I don't want there to be a massive gap between children, so they can grow and play together. If it's stress related, then the lack of periods is stressing me out even more LOL! Stuck in a rut!  

Have there been any women that have had anything similar to me? I do feel as though I'm pregnant, I have the tenderness, increased urination ( I have gone from 1-5 trips to the toilet a day to 3-4 ever hour), I don't feel as though I have any cravings, but my partner has notice my need for more sauce on my food as everything seems bland. I did have nausea but that was only at night time (could be because I'm a night shift worker) but since I have had two weeks off of work there has been nothing. I can normally sleep a lot ( and I mean a lot!) but lately it seems I can't wait to get out of bed, which is consistent with my first pregnancy.

Hm, I will say that it is VERY uncommon if not impossible to have a negative pregnancy test as pregnancy goes on.  Sure, early on you can get a false negative due to not enough of the hormones being in the urine to activate a home test.  But that doesn't last long.  You have to have the hormones to grow a fetus into a baby.  You just do.  It's biology.  So, I would say that unless you absolutely miscalculated and conceived just recently, that you're not pregnant at this point with having negative tests.  good luck

Hi 4 weeks ago I stopped taking my pill as me and my partner wanted to start trying for a baby, 3 weeks go we had unprotected sex, and no I'm getting really tired and feel like I can nap in the afternoon, I get pains like a period but no sign of a period (not sure when I am due on as the pill messed up my cycle) and also my boobs are really sore any slight movement is so painful, when my bra is off is worse. 21days after the deed I done a test and it came back negative could that be too early. Help!!

Hi Steph,

I read your below post & wondered if you had found out what was happening? Did you end up getting a positive test? I am in pretty much the  same situation as you , but still getting negative tests , if i was pregnant i believe i would be about 7 weeks by now.

Look forward to hearing how you got on.

Charli xx

'Hi Everyone just wondering if any of you have had negative hpt and blood tests to later find out you were in fact pregant? because i went off the pill late october and my last period started on the 29th of Nov and lasted about 4 days and since then my husband and i have been trying for a baby and i have missed 2 periods and i have never missed a period before, i had very light spotting from the 21.1.13 - 23.1.13 i only noticed it when i went to the toilet, I've never had anything like it before definately wasnt like a period have taken many hpt's all have come back negative i had a blood test done on 14.1.13 came back negative, I'm driving myself crazy i want so badly to be pregnant but all the tests say negative but then why hasn't my period come anyway i have booked into see the doctor again tomorrow so hopefully she can give me some answers'

My husband and I have been trying for a couple years now to have our first child I will be 42 in June so feel like time is running out.  They have had me on 200mg of Clomid the entire time.  We went for an IUI procedure the 13th and they did another on the 14th.  Again we used clomid and This past weekend is 1 week after I should have had AF.  In all the times of using clomid I have never missed a cycle right after taking it is like clockwork.  Have taken 2 HPTs but know folks who never got a positive on those.  Going to have a blood test done but again I know this may not be definitive.  Has anyone else been in this boat and if so what did you do?

Well im kinda going threw the same here my period was suppsosed tome in may 5 but until nothing im on the pill the first month i took the pill i bleeded all month second month just spot nt even a tamp filled up but in that month didnt took it for a week n know i havent gotten my period i took several urine test n blood work n they all kame up negative. Got signs of feeli.g sleepy colestrum coming out of my bobbies stomach blooded

hi
i have been having the same sysmptoms and experience, still have all teh urine tests negative, had and ultrasoud also 7weeks earlier for abdomen and still nothing came out have headaches for last on month but nothing came out. i feel very pregnant as inner thighs and girl parts feel very swollen n spongy n am tired all teh time with nausean no vomiting and having periods. my husband thinks i am crazy and have been reading that a lot of women are facing the same problem. even i need the help in this case, and whenever i go to my gynae, she starts over for the treatment of the infertility, which i know cannot be the case, so i don''t want to see her unless i am sure about my pregnancy. whatever i find out after three months, will let you know. howveer have seen people, not knowing about pregnancy untill about 4 months. so let us be hopeful

Okay, so here is my story. I am 23 years old, married, and I came off birth control in January. Since coming off of birth control, my period has been anywhere from 5-8 days late. I got periods in January, February, and March, and they all were regular periods that lasted 4 days with heavy bleeding and cramping the first day and half to light bleeding for the rest of the days. My last period started March 8th, and ended on March 11th. I was supposed to get my period April 5th. It never came. A few days after I was supposed to get my period I started having occasional light cramping, that would come and go. Then I started getting brown discharge, when I wiped, and a very little in my underwear. The discharge finally went away after like a week, but the cramping never did. I still have the occasionally cramping. I really thought none of this, I just attributed it to, stress, and pressure of buying a home, and the fact that my period is a bit irregular since coming off the pill. My sister insisted I take a HPT. She said since my period has always been pretty regular, and its not here, and the fact I have brown discharge, and the cramping, that I need to test. Plus we have a good friend who is pregnant and she didn't test positive on the stick until she was almost 6 weeks along. I took two HPT within a few days of each other and both turned up negative. So, I waited another week for my period, before calling my OBGYN. He gave me a urine and blood test, and it all came back negative. He said it is plausible that I just missed a period. And he said that the brown discharge was probably just a "wacky period" I told him that my next period if it was on schedule, would be due in 5 days. I asked him when I should be concerned that I haven't gotten my period yet. He told me not to worry until I came back to him in 6-8 weeks for my annual exam. Its been two weeks since that exam, and I still haven't gotten my period. Just the occasional cramping. Does anyone have any advice? Should I wait that long to see my doctor again or make another appointment?

*I was supposed to get my next period on May 3rd

So I went and had the blood test done also negative.  Still no AF two instances of spotting on Monday but nothing on liner and nothing since.  My husband's ex sister in law wen through her entire pregnancy and never had a positive on any test.  It was a running joke in her office.  This is driving me nuts.  I am praying that we are finally expecting but have no clue and the doctors office totally depends on those tests.  I see no need to contact them or go in for a visit until the middle of June since they can't really see anything defninitive until 6-8 weeks.  By then I may need a straight jacket :-(

Hi, I'm 23, I have a bone marrow deficiency that is very rare, and even rarer for pregnancy to occur. I had a period in March from the 24 - 28th. Nothing in April, then this month I started spotting on the 10th it picked up to a light period for two days, then I started spotting again, then it stopped on the 13th. I've taken probably a dozen hpt , all came out negative, and I had a blood test on the 13th...which also was negative. If I am pregnant, I would be 7 weeks. I can't get my doctors to take me seriously, I've requested an ultrasound, and they said I don't need it. I have the following symptoms; mood swings, food cravings, bigger/tender boobs (I was an A cup, and my boyfriend said I'm a C cup now...[I had to purchase new bras, I just tried some on and didn't look at the sizes, I was with my step mom when I purchased them and she's beyond nosy]), my areolas are darker, I'm breaking out, I have to pee like no ones business, I'm thirstier and hungry then normal (but I'm not getting bigger), I'm so tired throughout the day that when in get home I nap. I find myself holding my belly at times. I can't sleep on my stomach anymore, I get too nauseated and randomly so during the day, I have beyond RANDOM heartburn. (Also, my boyfriend knew when his sisters were pregnant BEFORE they knew, he even called the genders [he's 12 for 12] before it was possible to even know...he said that I am, and that its twins).
I'm so friggin lost....also, they say that animals can tell also, well, my cat and dog won't leave me alone. Ones constantly at my feet, the others constantly trying to lay on my lap and/or my belly.
I could really use some advice.

Hi i spouse to have my period on 14 may its been 8 days up still no signs of period .i took 6 home test they all came negetive.i m getting stomach  ramps and feelin sleepy.last period i had was on 10 of april first it started realy spoty i thought i m pregent i tok 2 pregnancy test first in the moring that came out possitive then i took day time that was negetive.i gave a sample to the doc that came out negetive.but ye my period started proper on 14th april for 7 days after that i have missed a period i dont know i m pregent or not.