never had a orgasm

[young_mummy_of_2]

Hi,
I feel weird asking this but i REALLY need some help...
I have been with my partner for nearly 5yrs,we have been having sex for the majority of this time(we waited like 2months)I love him with all of me heart,I have 2 children with him...
And i have NEVER had an orgasm through sexual intercourse...
We have tried toys and different positions and stuff but the only way i can orgasm is through clitoral stimulation....He feels as though he is not big enough,or he is doing it wrong and things like that...I feel bad for him because i don't think that he is small at all,but really is there a certain way they have to do it??
I love him despite not being able to orgasm during sex,but i would really like to experience what it is like to have one during sex....
Is it any different to the orgasm you get from clitoral stimulation???
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!

[JCLoyola]

I always go on top first and after having the orgasm its my husbands turn to be on too or whatever position, its the positon where i get orgasm. Arent you taking lots of medicine? Because i used to have orgasm everytime we have sex, sometimes even twice, (but twice is once in a blue moon) byt i took a medication that says affect sex drive, i was just having orgasm every other times we have sex, maybe you should check your meds. And dont think too much of having orgasm, enjoy sex

[Special_K_2012]

i have never had an orgasim and im always dry during intercourse we have used toys too im so attracted to my bf im not sure what's the issue he turns me on .could it be physical,metal or chemical plus im a diabetic too i need help

[tatwo]

I'm the same way. It's so rare that I ever have an orgasm through intercourse but when I do, I've realized what works: being on top, having the man press up with his pubic bone and you doing the work. The trick is to stay in this position! Let his pubic bone rub back and forth against you.

[loxy]

I was married for 2 years before I even had any kind of orgasm!!!. In fact, I peed the bed when we'd have sex (and he kept me). I am now married for 16 years and have had many orgasms but only not many without physical stimulation. Do you try oral stimulation? That can really get you stirred up before he goes in. Eventually, he'll be happier with a little stimulation too. Just focus on having fun and let your man know that the lovemaking isn't just about the final 4 seconds of pleasure. You are sooooo happy and sooooo normal. Your relationship can just keep getting better so don't let ANYTHING, especially a little orgasm, tip the apple cart. And I don't think there is that much difference. Don't let the movies spoil your wonderful reality. Make love in front of a mirror and pretend you are in the movies. They probably don't have orgasms without stimualtion either but the movies sell better when they act as though they do.  From an Old Mommy Of Three
PS. It will get easier when you are not worrying about kids hearing you and getting pregnant again. Just be patient!!

[nikkie1977]

Go to The nearest Toy store and get some stimulating cream.

[natalie_xx]

Is there any other way than having an orgasm other than clitoral stimulation?? haha

[Fourpaws]

I agree with BlueEyedOne. I have to have clitoral stimulation during intercourse to have an orgasm. I have never had one with just intercourse alone.

[BlueEyedOne]

Im sorry, I dont have advice other than trying new toys and positions which you have already tried.  But, actually the majority of women can not orgasm without clit stimulation.  So that is completely normal, and not your guys fault. All of the women I talk to can not orgasm through just intercourse, they all have to play with themselves during sex to orgasm. Sorry I'm not more help. Good Luck.