one of the lips on my vagina is swollen to about 3 times the size of the other one. There has been a lot of irritation over the past few days but just today it got swollen. the last time i had sex was about two weeks ago. everything seemed to be fine then but now im starting to worry because i am also getting sick. I dont know if it has anything to do with the problem though. can someone please help and tell me whats going on.