oral sex

[IE girl]

I have been married 5years and have had oral sex many times with my husband I always make him finish but he has never made me orgasm not ever!! he starts off ok but then says his tounge gets tired ! IT'S driving me crazy because I really want to know what it feels like but I don't wanna cheat to find out!!So how can I make him do it right? ANY SUGGESTIONS???To kill my curiousity!!!

[bigrock]

Hi, I am a male, he is full off it, to start if he is as giving as you are, he will make &^*&^ (*$ sure you fill as good as you make him fill.
  That’s one thing I will do is make sure my wife eyes roll back in her head. Or some other man will. Good luck.

[honey_moon]

Ask him after his toynge becomes tired to use his finger tip to rubb and touch ur clitoris head in circular movement u will have a unique orgasm
He can also use a piece of cotton to tease ur clit head with it till u orgasm

[dana anne]

Those are great responses from the posters before me.  I couldn't have said it better.

[hm05]

Hey I totally know what you mean!!!  All those worries running through your head are going to impede a good time.  Don't do that to yourself.  Just fantasize that he is lovin' it. Just a word of advice, do not be too afraid to tell him what to do down there! Guys are so easy, it is like one-two-three-done. Girls are a challenge. Hey, I am not saying to nag or be a ***** about it, that is a big turn off for them.  But, it is worth it if you do it in a nice, dirty talking way, that can get you both going. I say- teach him what you like, there is nothing wrong with that. Then you can have an amazing O because he will be doing what you like! Sometimes they spend too much time on the clit, tell him to change it up a bit-and going very lightly can work better than going too hard. Also, it doesn't hurt to take a really long shower, and catch a nice buzz before hand.  I am not a big drinker, but some of the best O's come from relaxing first-and not being uptight about your self!

[oceans3]

well... ive been w. my guy since i was 16 and im now 36. he has given me an orgasm twice during oral sex and one of those times it took forever!! part of the problem (for mr anyway) is im always worrying about whats "going on down there". does it smell ok? is he tired? does he have a hair in his mouth? whats he thinking? does he want to do this? so as you can see, its hard to "let go" when all this is running through my head. i dont know if you do this too but next time he's down there, just tell him what feels good to you. let him know. this is hard to do but you know how guys need to be told what to do. ha ha. then next time, he'll know what feels good and you wont have to say anything.

[troid]

next time half way through servicing him tell him your jaw hurts, maybe then he will try harder.

[monkeyflower]

I'm assuming you're orgasmic with him otherwise (using toys, hands, whatever). So, with oral, is the issue with his technique, or just the fact he doesn't last long enough? If the latter, you could try alternating oral with other types of stimulation, i.e. a vibrator, hands, etc. You could also try waiting until you're very near orgasm before he starts giving you oral (less time for his tongue to get tired).

If it's a matter of technique, there are some pretty decent books that offer plenty of ideas for creative oral, and many women-oriented sex toy stores offer workshops as well. Btw, I would definitely not assume other partners would be able to help you come during oral - as long as he's willing to make an effort, that is. It seems that orgasms are tied less to partners than they are to your own sense of self and sexuality. But generally speaking, I think as long as you both maintain a sense of playfulness, the two of you can practice together and try all kinds of new things. While it may not necessarily lead to orgasm, at least right away, you can have lots and lots of fun :-)

[DansLady]

Exactly

[dana anne]

hmmm  this is a tough one.  Im going to think about it tho.