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pain after sex

Hi,
I started taking the pill about two months ago. The first time I had sex with my boyfriend w/out a condom it hurt really bad...kinda upset me cause I wanted him to enjoy it cause he hated condoms but he wore them for me for years cause i was scared to get on the pill, mostly just going to the obgyn. Anyways we couldn't even finish, it hurt so bad I had to stop him. When i went to the bathroom that night, it burned sooo bad. I cried. It took about 3 times of us having sex for it to not hurt. Two weeks ago i took antibiotics so we used a condom for the time I was on it and for a week after, when we went to have sex w/out a condom again it hurt and burned when I went to the bathroom. I don't know why this could be happening. Tonight was our third night to have sex with no condom and it still hurt. I hope tomorrow it will be better like last time. He is very careful and takes it slow and we use lubricant. Does anyone know why this happens?
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Have you checked if mabey he has an std or even an infection he could be passing it to you every time you dont use a condom
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i see. well, either way, it would probably be a good idea to discuss this with your gyno. best wishes!
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yeah it burns when i go to the bathroom alot, but it burns with any motion for the first 3 or so hrs after sex, even moving my legs hurts. i don't think it's the yeast infection i mean i've had one when we had sex, i made him use a condom cause i didn't want him to get anything, but it didn't hurt like this. i was thinking it might have something to do with sensitive skin cause it only happens when we take a break for a while and then have sex again w/out a condom
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Make sure that the lubricant is water soluble. If it is something new, you could have a sensitivity to it. Best wishes.
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so it burned when you went to the bathroom? you could possibly have an infection.

have you used lube every time? usually i've found that if we're using lube AND there's burning, i've got a yeast infection or something.

i would call your doctor and describe your symptoms. they may want to test you for either an persistant UTI, yeast, or possibly an std. i don't want to worry you..but that's probably the best thing to do right now.
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